I wouldn't worry too much. Just be glad you have someone who's loving and trustworthy to look after him when you can't be there for him yourself. I'm sure your mom wouldn't allow that to happen anyway. Just spend as much quality time with him as you can when you are able to and things will be fine! ↑ |
He knows who his mommy is! :) ↑ |
thnx huni i appreciate it
ps merry christmas to u all
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i hadmy daughter at 17 and went back to school when she was just 3 weeks old to do my a levels my mum looked after her during the day and i came home during breaks and free lessons i also looked after her in the evenings and my mum helped out so i could study but other than that most of the responsibility was mine. I understand what u are going through i missed my daughters first smile and first sound she called my mum ma ma and i felt so guilty as i was trying to make a better life for her and me but my mum was very good and always corrected her then. When she was 7 months i sat my exams my daughter was rushed to hospital with measles i walked out of the exam and went to be with her i realised then when i got there and she only wanted me that she knew who i was. Your child does know who u are hang in there and will know that your mum is his nan. ↑ |
hey mel ... yeah benjamin was born two days after id sat all my exams im lucky about that and i went back when he was exacly 3 weeks. My mum corrects him but its her that comforts him when he cries n stuff mum says its beczuse he can sence my stress thats why he wont settle with me, right now hes ill and will only smile for me but will still only settle with my mum ahhhh i dno... hes clever but he just shouts mama to ne1 ↑ |
hiaya thanks for replying it is hard i hated my daughter calling my mum her mum but i understood y he did i wasnt always there . I ve had all the she can sense your stressed which is y she dont feel comfortable with you from my mum maybe she is right but then again my mum does like to take over abit especially as my youngest is not a grandads girl. My daughters ill as well and ive got my next yr of uni starting soon so im really looking at a laugh when that happens x ↑ |
ohhh poor u am sposed to b goin uni to this yr but ama put it off n get more alevels so i get a better chance at acceptance where r u from. Yeah ben was real sik before everywhere bless him. My mum dont take over shes ok in that respect shes just had to do lot since day 1 because i was vvv ill when i had him. wb xx ↑ |
im sorry to hear that. Im glad ure mum is good with it some mothers can be really domineering. Im from dagenham in essex im at open university i study at home i get it free coz im on low income you could always try that im doing a history degree then my teacher training with them. It works out well for me coz i can study at my own pace it aint as demanding as sixth form. ↑ |