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Name: rosie_smith_2004
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I just found out that my son was molested by his own 16 yr old cousin .Found this out in his thearipy and now they r going to get Child Protective Services ivolved to do an ivestagation i had no clue that this even happened to my son if i did i would have put the hurten to the one that did it to him. What r the odds of them penning this back on me???????? im lost . Thank god my son is getting the proper help now and hes doing great over this.I hope to press charges nail him to the wall.. but still what r the odds of this comming back on me??
i dont want to loose my kids
i would have stoped that from happening if some one would have told me the information that i needed to know :(
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Name: marija | Date: Jan 14th, 2007 8:09 AM
rosie calm down...they are just starting to investigate...how old is your son?....they may be looking into it because of something he said...doesnt mean its true!...speak to the people investigating...surely they have told you what is happening?
How it happened?...was he babysitting, sharing a bed on a sleepover...i cant really help you much as i dont know the reasons behind anything.
all i say is keep calm and just answer anyquesions honestly...if your boy has not been neglected by you..(and im assuming he hasnt )... then there is no problem :-)
Chin up you son is healthy and dealing well with the issue...that is the main thing 

Name: SaRaH | Date: Jan 14th, 2007 8:36 AM
how old is this son of yours 

Name: alice20 | Date: Jan 14th, 2007 11:53 AM
Hi rosie,dont panic i doubt very much that anything will happen to you and the chances of you losing your chidren are slim. I know this because i was molested by my grandfather from age 5 to 12. Six months after teling my mum and step father we found out he did the same thing to my step sis when she was 9 nothing happen to either one of her parents she never accused her parents of doing anything there was no proof she was in any danger with either one. As for nailing him to the wall for it goodluck im going to be honest its been 2yrs since we both went to the police about this and he still hasnt been to trial yet. They droped my case because it ahd been so long and i didnt remember every single little detail. My step sis on the other han her case should be going to trial this year sometime just remember that depending how old your child is they will have to testify,i know from experience its horrible repeating what happend to you over and over again to all these different ppl. I hope you have better luck and this person does go to jail for what they have done. If you would like any advice on how to help your child through this i will be more than happy to help. 

Name: alice20 | Date: Jan 14th, 2007 11:57 AM
By the way by law a therapist or counselor have to contact the authorities when a child tells them about abuse wether it be physical,sexual or mental. Its nothing against the parent if theyve done nothing wrong. 

Name: SaRaH | Date: Jan 14th, 2007 11:58 AM
i have a big problem too...and its with liars 

Name: mel211985 | Date: Jan 14th, 2007 12:28 PM
i cant relate fully to ure story but a yr ago my 14 yr old sister told a big lie about being sexually assulted by aboy of her age. She made the mistake of telling the child protection officer in school and they informed social services who came round to investigate the matter. They were only investigating but my mum felt like she had not done her job properly. The whole family were talked to because my sister was examined by a doctor to see if she had lost her virginity well she had so we were all questioned but more so the men in the family. They do take their time they like to hang around i suppose to scare you but they are only doing there job. It sounds like you have got nothing to worry about just let them do their job, Stay calm and they will go away leaving you and your son to rebuild your lives. 


Name: marija | Date: Jan 14th, 2007 11:26 PM
rosie have you posted in due date with questions regarding symptoms of pregnancy?? 

Name: SaRaH | Date: Jan 14th, 2007 11:34 PM
yes rosie...have you!!! 

Name: SaRaH | Date: Jan 15th, 2007 10:25 AM
ANSWER!!!!!!!!!!!! 

Name: aszmom3 | Date: Jan 15th, 2007 12:44 PM
there will be a investigation into every aspect of ur sons life but if u had no idea about the cousin then it should not effect ur right 2 keep ur kids unless the cousin had molested others & u new about it then u put ur child in harms way . 

Name: rosie_smith_2004 | Date: Jan 16th, 2007 11:25 AM
my son is 7 years old according to him this happened to him when he was 5 1/2 6 this aint a lie sarah im not one for lieing no im not beeing abitch either im just leting u know i dont want to fight with u 

Name: rosie_smith_2004 | Date: Jan 16th, 2007 11:37 AM
yes i have posted about possibly being pregnant i havent had a regular period in almost 3 months i swear to u all im not a lier i just dont get on here on a regular basis just when i can so if i dont answer u in a quick manner its because i havent read your post yet!!!!!!!!!
believe it or not i am telling the truth i dont care!! i have been cut down enough on this site to see how people like to judge you when they have no idea on who or how u r !!!!and when they have no reason !!! i came here for advise !! that is what this site was made for ...thanx for the ad vise from the one that do give it ...im still listening if u have more...to the ones the cut me down believe what u want to believe 

Name: rosie_smith_2004 | Date: Jan 16th, 2007 11:43 AM
i have talked to some athorities about the hole situation and they told me that i shouldnt have anything to worry about Thank GOD!!I do have some good news though.. ever since my son has came out with this he listens to me more and it seems that he respects me more..before he didnt listen for a hoot ...now ....its Please...thank you...yes mam....or no mam its one hell of a turn 

Name: SaRaH | Date: Jan 16th, 2007 11:52 AM
how old are you rosie 

Name: rosie_smith_2004 | Date: Jan 16th, 2007 11:56 AM
i am 23 why? 

Name: rosie_smith_2004 | Date: Jan 16th, 2007 11:59 AM
i am here sarah ready to talk if u like to 

Name: rosie_smith_2004 | Date: Jan 16th, 2007 12:11 PM
sarah where did u go 

Name: rosie_smith_2004 | Date: Jan 16th, 2007 7:06 PM
im getting stressed out from all of this crap..i have moments that im trying to have an anxiety attacs it hurts real bad..i felt that way this moring real bad..then i found out more information about this situation that just makes me feel worse about it...any one know how i can deal with this better with out meds i dont want to take a risk of hurting myself... i may b pregnant..??? 

Name: Dannyle | Date: Jan 17th, 2007 2:08 AM
I would first talk to a lawyer and make sure you know your rights. I would second network with an anti-CPS group that can tell you what to expect. I would third--however understandably angry you are at your nephew right now--NOT push for a criminal prosecution. That would be a bad outcome for him and might increase the pressure on your son. Therapy would be much better for your nephew than a lifelong record. 

Name: loka12 | Date: Jan 17th, 2007 3:11 AM
wat should i do i have a daugther shes 2 and 1/2 and she has tempature should i take her to the hospital 

Name: rosie_smith_2004 | Date: Jan 17th, 2007 4:39 AM
how hi is the temp if its over 100 i would for as young as she is that couldnt b good 

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