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Name: sherri
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Iam a very strong person usually , but in the last 2 months , i have been really weak , iam very depressed with out my ex and i find my self very bitchy all the time , i dont weant to put stress on the baby , i dont no what to do , can any one help me or give advice , cuz iam up to listing to anything
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Name: keisha | Date: Jul 16th, 2006 10:14 PM
Honey I was three months when the father took off, and I was only 16 at the time to. I don't know how old you are but believe me you can do it. I got a job at the local wal-mart, out in a lay-a-way for the baby, and by the time it was time, I was ready. At the time I had to take full care of my son. the only help I had was being at home with my mom, and not having bills, so in a way it was easy. I didn't have friends ands didn't go anywhere, but other than that it was ok. Now it's not. I'm 22 my son is now 5 and still no support from the father, I have lots of bills and I'm almost 5months pregnant again. Baby dad is gone of course. It's like dazivou all over again. I feel your pain. I'm stressed to. This time I'm more drousy and dizzy than the first and working is harder than ever. I don't have a job, just working through some temp services to get by. Plus I'm back at my moms cause when I found out I was pregnant it was rough, I lost my job and then got evicted from my apt. I'm hoping to be out of her house before the baby comes. I can't deal with all of this either. But I can't stay mad and stressed out forever.You and I have to get over it and move on. It's hard I know, but for the baby's sake we have to. Oh the baby's father is 35, you would think at that age they would be more responsible. wan't I wrong. You can read my story on here to. The title is "5yr old, 5months pregnant, two baby fathers, and all alone." 

Name: denise | Date: Jul 19th, 2006 1:06 AM
i know its tuff and your scared i'v been there when i was pregnant with my first her dad took off at 3 months into it. just take 1 day at a time even brake it down to 1 hour at a time. u will get through this . you are stronger than u know. i am raising 2 by myself right now and its tuff and i get so lonly for some one just to talk to. but i'm doing it and u can too. have faith trust in god he will never give u more than u can handle. dont be afraid to ask for help and don't stop beliving in yourself. i promise it will be his loss. 

Name: Nina | Date: Jul 19th, 2006 5:24 AM
Darling,i can feel your pain but remember we are women and our will to live and survive stronger than men. Your baby is far more important than your boy-friend. My men ditched me when i was 3 months pregnant just because my business went down. He told me go to hell and get lost and he didn't want anything to do with me and my baby.Thank's God that i still have my family with me.I was scared, stressed and did not have alots of money and really want to die but then i realised that he is not worth it. My baby is my treasure, I was on my feet again with the help of my family. Suddenly,he turned up 5 months after i had my son. I could see straight away that he falls in love with the baby and now he is back in my life but i'm not sure i'll totally forgive what he did to me. I know for sure now he cannot live without his son.
Sherri,please be strong and believe that what goes around will comes around.One day or may be sooner than you think he'll be back and begging you to take him back. But first you have to show him you are strong and ya don't need him to survive. Go out there and have fun with your friends and be ready for the baby. Your child will be very pround to have you as his/her mother.
All the best, 

Name: sofie | Date: Jul 19th, 2006 10:10 AM
i know exactly how u feel.i just finished posting my entry:single,pregnant,hearbroken&devastated. i'm almost 2mos along as well and my bf--my ex fiance also deserted me..just a few days ago too.we were so happy together but after a week of being apart (we were based elsewhere and now i'm with my family in another country), he's suddenly too young and not ready. i understand how u feel.i was so bitchy as well initially.i guess my anger at him and at the circumstances just made me mad at the world.u know what helped me though?my mom found me crying in the garage (because i didn't want them to see me crying, i've always been strong as well)..and after that my parents talked to me and asked me to open up.they showed me as well how hurt they are and how they want me to be able to show my pain,reassuring me that it's normal.even my brother who's 8 years younger just jumped on the bed and hugged me tight.being able to let my pain out by talking about it and crying has helped me purge much of my misplaced anger although i'm still angry at the man who did this to me, the man i love. so go, cry but not so much..not good for your baby.pray too.i'm trying to give up my worries to God.it doesn't hurt, right?we just gotta have faith 

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