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Name: jayme

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i am 18, i was with my babys daddy for about 4 months when we found out we were pregnant he freaked out he went out and got a new friend that was a girl. well he dumped me for her but we were still living together well one night i went out with my friends anhd he followed me ripped me out of my friends car threw me into his car and took me home and started a big fight and hit me. well my friends came over to protect me and take m e out of that situation. well he didn't like that so he tried to take back in the house when my friend got in the way he tried to hit her. i got away from him and got into my other friends car and call the cops he is in jail now. but i am afraid of when he gets out he is going to come after me ort my friends. this wasn't the first time he hurt me... i just need someone to talk to ↓

Name: Crissy | Date: Feb 17th, 2006 9:17 PM

Jayme,

I'm sorry you had to go through something like that and I'm sorry that you are still having to face the pain. You are very young and have your hole life ahead of you. Move on to protect you and your unborn baby. I was 18 with my 1st as well. If you are afraid of this man, place a restraining order on him before he gets out of jail. You can do this at your local police station. ↑

Name: ANGELA | Date: Feb 18th, 2006 4:56 PM

I'M SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT THAT, I TOO HAVE HAD EXPERIENCES WITH MY PARTNER BEING VIOLENT TO ME. IT'S JEALOUSY AND A FORM OF CONTROL ON THEIR PART NOW YOU ARE PREGNANT HE WILL FEEL EVEN MORE OF A NEED TO CONTROL AND ABUSE YOU. BUT DONT BACK DOWN FROM HIM IF HE COMES OUT OF PRISON AND VERBALLY OR PHYSICALLY ABUSES YOU GET BACK IN TOUCH WITH THE POLICE HE WILL EVENTUALLY REALISE THAT HE WILL KEEP ENDING UP IN PRISON, AND HE WILL HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO STOP... ↑