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i have a 9yr old soon to be 10 next mth,a 4yr old, and preg. with #3. im not with the 2 oldest childrens dad. my question is this...i was 15 when i had my oldest daughter therefore i still lived with my parents. most of you know how that works, they think because you are young your not able to care for your child alone. because of this and living with my parents off and on for some time now my daughter doesnt want to live with me. i mean she knows how i feel about her and knows that i would take very well care of her. shes fine during the day but when its bed time she only wants to be at grannys.we've had alot of issues with her such as her attitude and my mother blames me, always telling me to take my kid before she throws her out.when i say that she was the one that caused this when she was a baby she throws a fit and says its not. i mean everytime i ever corrected her my mom would baby her and say its ok so she'd go back to what she was doing. now that she is so use to getting her way she doesnt care what anyone has to say yet i still get the blame. how can i get my little girl back and have her act like one?? theres nothing girly about her which is ok i guess but she wants to act like shes way older then she is yet at times is worse then my 4yr old. what am i suppose to do?? is anyone else or did anyone else go through this??? please help ↓
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