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Name: ixoxrissaxoxi
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I'm currently a mom of a 16 month old boy who I'm absolutely in love with. His father and I have been trying to fix things on and off with no success. I became pregnant again in November, due in August. We're both very happy about the new baby, but have decided to call it quits about a month ago. I am now working full time, exhausted from being pregnant, and trying so hard to take care of my son and house in a way that I will not regret in the future. It's so hard and I feel so alone and depressed. All I do is cry and I try so hard to see how I am going to make this work, but the feelings of how it's not going to work are so overwhelming. I hardly sleep because I'm so anxious from all the things the future is now going to bring. I guess I'm just on here to see if there is anyone else out there in a similar situation with any advice to give or even to just talk. I guess sometimes it's better to have someone to talk to.
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Name: Danielle | Date: Feb 19th, 2011 11:49 PM
I can't really offer any advise but I can say you are not alone. I am 8 months pregnant and my husband decided he wants out of the marriage. I have never been so scared and anxious. All I do is cry! It is overwhelming to say the least. I too am working full time but I have no other children. I can only imagine trying to do this with a lil one already depending on me. I feel so alone and hurt it is just awful! I wish I had some advice for both of us but alas I don't. I just hope it gets easier! 

Name: Kristen | Date: Feb 20th, 2011 12:47 AM
I too am in the same boat. All I can really do is keep my head up high and not stress myself out. Everything has a way of working it'self out. My daughter is 4, has adhd and bi polar, and she is very hard to take care of, calm down, and keep under control!! The only advice I can give you is that being pregnant is a great gift!! You might be feeling lonely, but believe that you are not alone! You have a child who needs you and one in your belly who needs you as well. Keep your head up and stay strong. Although I am pregnant by somebody who I'm still with, he is never there for me. And my daughters dad lives in another state. I work 40+ hours a week, and I'm exhausted when I get home. But fact is, rent needs paid, bills need paid, my daughter needs clothes and soon I will need a new wardobe. Sometimes you have to do things you don't want to do, but nobody can do them for you, you have to do them yourself! 

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