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Name: oniedabear
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My sons father didn't want anything to do with me or my baby after I told him I was pregnant. If it weren't for my family support, I don't know where I'd be. I'm here for anyone who needs advice or wants to talk.
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Name: lil_dancer77 | Date: Nov 2nd, 2006 6:46 AM
I am more looking for the perfect answer that no one can give me, but do they ever come back? If they have a pattern of coming and going as they please? I have not heard from my babies daddy in over a month..but he has done this 3 times before. I was not pregnant the other times though. How do you get over it? Im so confused. I get angry at him sometimes but other times i just can not see what everyone else does that he has really hurt me and used me for everything i had and more. I don't understand my situation and i want to be strong for my baby. 

Name: oniedabear | Date: Nov 3rd, 2006 3:04 PM
It just sounds like your guy is afraid to be alone. I don't know your whole situation, but at some point you need to put your foot down and say enough is enough even though it may be hard. I hurt too and even more so when my so called friend turned her back on me when I needed her most. But I promise you life does go on. Things do get better and there are other guys out there that have a heart and would love to be apart of your family. For now just focus on your baby's needs and believe me that will take up at least 98% of your time. You can email me directly at [email protected] if you like. 

Name: alissa | Date: Nov 3rd, 2006 8:15 PM
I'm in the same situation, but after he left me, a week later he went to jail.He's been in there 6 months and i feel relieved. My pregnancy has gone by fast. Now he writes me and wants to make things work. I love him, but i'm so confused. Is he just coming around because he thinks i'm a sure thing. I think i'm going to move on. I'm going to the police academy in january and i a lot to lose if i stay with him. By him leaving me, he made me stronger and now i'm doing something with my life. 

Name: oniedabear | Date: Nov 4th, 2006 10:58 PM
Good for you alissa!!!!!! 

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