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Name: Shankar PONCELET | Date: Sep 24th, 2008 4:24 PM
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Name: tasha | Date: Oct 6th, 2008 1:44 AM
I am in a relationship and i am two month pregnant.i dont want to be in the relationship all we do is argue and he is very disrespectful at times.My plans were to break it of after three years,when i finally made up my mind that i was going to do it .i found out i was pregnant.I decided to stay,it was going good at first but now we are back to where we started.i have one little girl and i swore i wouldnt do it again but it looks dark for me. 

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Name: Christine | Date: Jan 10th, 2009 11:51 PM
hello, im going threw almost the same situation as u down to the him tellin me to get an abortion and me deciding not to and even down to the not wanting to have anything to do with the father...im scared too but i know we arent the first or the last and now u know your not alone! if u would like to talk i have aim u can instant message to seeenvy325 or email at [email protected] 

Name: carrie | Date: Jan 20th, 2009 11:13 PM
Hello, I am 35 weeks pregnant and have been alone since 20 weeks. I have no idea how to deal with the father when my baby comes. I really need a mother to talk to who is still in love with the man who broke my heart. 

Name: chelle | Date: Apr 8th, 2009 6:35 PM
hi,i can undestand how you are feeling,alone and obviously as this is not what you were planning,i can assure you that i have been in this position,i thought once baby was born id have post natal depression and wouldnt love ithe baby the same as other mothers did, but once the baby is put in your arms you will look at this tiny baby and know how much you are needed and all you will want is to love this baby,and believe me it does change everything,but for good reasons..as you watch your baby,s first smile nothing can take away the special moments of every mother..you will be fine..towards the end of the pregnancy and you know that soon you will have your baby you will start to accept it but once born,everything falls into place.. im sure you will do just great.. i myself again am in this position,not wanting to be at all...but have the experience of how it will be at the end..so thats what keeps me positive... have faith in yourself.. you can always return to work etc..there are many opportunities for single mothers.. good luck... congratulations..you will make a good mammy im sure.. 

Name: shae | Date: May 25th, 2009 5:03 AM
I say to you be strong and love your baby and move on! This aint about you no more! Baby you got to get your mental ready for the fact that in 6months you will have a beautiful little person needing you! That's your main focus! you can't worry about nothing else! That guy will pay for not being there for you and your child! you my sister have to be strong and pray to God to walk you thru this! Only he and your family can help you! And friends! 

Name: Mindy | Date: May 25th, 2009 7:24 PM
I know its Hard I'm going through the same thing. The only difference Is i'm married to the Baby's dad and he wants nothing to do with the child. IT stressful! My best advice to you is keep the child and let your family and love ones help you out. I turned to My parents for help and they have been great. Its hard at first to think that this is my life now, To be a single mom (which I never wanted to happen.) But things happen for a reason. 

Name: mike | Date: May 31st, 2009 4:11 AM
hey jen if you need some 1 to help you out with the new life your about to start i can only suggest that some 1 can and will help out im a single man i look after my 1 nephew sometimes and hes a hand full at 4 but dont give up just yet if you need some 1 to talk to i can listen to you 

Name: Brittany | Date: Jun 15th, 2009 9:26 PM
I just found out i was pregnant and i'm worried about the things I have been doing.. Can anyone help me? 

Name: iain | Date: Jun 23rd, 2009 6:12 PM
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im going through somethingsimilar 

Name: Iain Stewart | Date: Jul 12th, 2009 9:38 PM
I found myself with a pregnant girl friend but 2 months into the pregnancy she became distressed and broke it off with me, keeping me at arms length. It`s been stressful (although more so fo her obviously) but i have stuck by her and my son to be who will be here in about 12 weeks. I have got annoyed at her twice but apologised. I`m human and make mistake and she did treat me very badly from the moment she became pregnant. She apologised once for her behaviour but clearly it`s due to her distress. She became very crabbit and angry towards me, very mixed up and up and down but i`m stucking by her all the way through even though i don`t know how she feels about me right now. I `m not the bad one but feel like i`m being made out to be the bad one but i`ll stick with it regardless as i`m a good, decntkind hearted person. 

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Name: salsap | Date: Jul 20th, 2009 4:31 PM
Hi just wanted to get some advise as i am really confused at the minute and getting advice from everyone and dont know what to do. I met this guy a year ago and he swept me off my feet. i was head over heels in love with him and he was everything in a man i had ever wanted. he asked me to marry him and i said yes then i may we found out i was expecting which was planned. as soon as i was pregnant he changed and he turned into a monster. we would get into an arguement and he would shout at me really horrible masty things, put me down and make me feel worthless. I felt distrort that someone i loved so mcuh would hurt me like that and it felt like he had been pretending to be one person then as soon as i was trapped his truth self came out. it got worse and worse and i began to feel like i was going to crack. i started getting pains and i went to the doctor and they signed me off for 2 weeks. i have another little girl and she loved him but he was being nasty to her too and it was effecting her. I decided i couldnt take it anymore and that i had to protect me daughter and my unborn child and told him to leave. he is now upset and says he will change but i cant trust him. since leaving lots of lots of lies has come to light and i dont believe anything he says anymore. now i have my scan tomorrow and he wants to come but i dont want him there because he will just upset me. what shall i do? any thoughts? 

Name: salsp | Date: Jul 20th, 2009 4:37 PM
sorry thought i was creating a new post new to here 

Name: Bev | Date: Aug 28th, 2009 9:55 PM

I can relate to what you are going through, i found myself in that same sitution..while in college...and i did the worrying thing and wonder if i was doing the right thing..if being a single mother was what was right for me..I had my son and seeing him smile at me everyday makes it all worth while..there wll be some bumps along the way...to let you know ...you will find many new friends along the way..and if you still want someone to talk to you may email anytime and i would be more then happy to talk anytime you need too..enjoy your bundle of joy...

[email protected] 

Name: Mauricio | Date: Aug 31st, 2009 5:12 AM
I would love to talk my email [email protected] my number 347- 691-9384 

Name: llindac620 | Date: Sep 19th, 2009 6:39 PM
Hey everyone, im 23years old.just moved back home again.i am 11weeks pregnant and just moved home out of my boyfirends house.i have ben going out with him for the past year. we got on great until i realised he was txting sum1 else. i got over it and kept going. now lastnite as i was in bed he was outside with sum1 else!all i am hearing is ive done nothing wrong i was only talking.looked abit more when he sneaked her around the corner of house where twas dark.while i was upstairs.. i feel like my life is falling apart. not knowing what way to turn or what the right thing to do is.All im getting is excuses for these women all the time, i dont think its fair anymore. am i doing the right thing?leading my own life, am i doing a stupit thing leaving him when he says he loves me and wouldnt hurt me. too many drinks and he likes to play councellor.im just hoping for abit of advice form someone who can look at this in a different way and see what right and wrong because im so confused i dont know whats right or whats normal anymore 

Name: Tiff | Date: Sep 28th, 2009 1:19 AM
Honey, Hi! I'm almost 4.5 months pregnant with my second child by the same man. He is trying to take away our oldest daughter and won't even mention the new baby. I'm completely single so naturally I had the same feelings as you- except about adoption rather than abortion. I had no bond with my baby and was terrified to do this on my own. Finally I talked to friends and family- whom ended up telling me how much they support me either way (that helped) Then, last week- i got my baby's sonogram and saw her face, I fell in love right there and it took me 4 months! hang in there hun- you're about to give birth to a blessing and though you don't understand now, you will. You have supporters. 

Name: the brown family | Date: Oct 15th, 2009 3:31 PM
we want to adopt a newborn, race and gender does not matter to God or us. please email [email protected] 

Name: Angela | Date: Dec 10th, 2009 12:06 AM
Hi Jen,
I am in a VERY simalar situation and would love to chat with you. [email protected] 

Name: mandy | Date: Dec 18th, 2009 4:50 PM
Im 17 and scared im pregnant by a one night stand and i cant tell my aunt whom i live with because she will kick me out. So what should i do? Im single pregnant and will pretty soon be homeless 

Name: mandy | Date: Dec 18th, 2009 4:57 PM
If anyone knows anything that will help please email me at:

[email protected] 

Name: SM | Date: Dec 30th, 2009 1:51 AM
Hi Jen,

I am currently in a similiar situation (I am 26), however my ex wants this child... I got pregnant with my ex a few months ago and had an abortion... I don't think I could go through another abortion... Do you feel you made the right desicion in keeping your baby? I am very scared about doing this alone... 

Name: jojo123 | Date: Jan 4th, 2010 7:51 AM
Hi Jen i guess my advice wld be to really think about if u want to be a single parent right now(meaning adoption is still an option for you),it is a really tough job being a single parent,but its also sumthing amazing!(And it dosent mean the end of your life if u do keep your baby it just means ads another dimesion to it.Do have supportive family or friends to help u? 

Name: mark | Date: Feb 3rd, 2010 11:34 PM
k one thing is on child support if only on your will to tell him on a way to help support u and the child. 

Name: Ashley | Date: Mar 5th, 2010 6:41 AM
Me and the father of my baby were together for 5 months im 4 months pregnant and just found out that he has had another girlfriend for a year and a half, needless to say he left me for her and wants nothing to do with me or the child. if you wanna talk [email protected] 

Name: Mom2BEE | Date: Mar 7th, 2010 12:28 AM
You are capable of doing whatever you decide you wish to do. You can parent? Or have a family member help by raising the child? Ask friends and family for emotional support?
Or there is always adoption an loving option?Talk to a local crisis pregnancy counselor for the best options for you in your area. Best wishes 

Name: sarah | Date: Mar 28th, 2010 6:54 PM
i have this problem i have a like a belly ache feels like period pains but the pain is under my ribs and hurts and last for about half the day or sometimes longer i take headache tablets to get rid of pain but nothing works im getting sick of it i have 3 other children 2 year old 7 year old and 8 year old i find it hard to run around with them and play normal games i never had this before with the other 3 but i have it now has anyone got any suggestions i thought it was where the baby is growing but i have these pains everyday please help someone 

Name: karl | Date: Apr 9th, 2010 2:15 AM
hi how r u i feel really bad for you 

Name: Lucas | Date: Apr 19th, 2010 5:54 AM
If you're in Southern California let me know. I canf give you something to do while you figure things out. I find pregnant women very attractive on a completely organic level.
Let me know
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