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Name: Lucas | Date: Apr 19th, 2010 5:54 AM
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Name: Trish | Date: Jul 20th, 2010 11:50 PM
WoW! i am in the same situation as you and it is really scary to me. The guy that got me pregnant was just a friend and we messed around a couple times and never had any intention of being together and now this. He was ok with it at first but it was hard for me to wrap my head around it and i was really distant at first and now he wants nothing to do with me. He wont even talk to me so i have no clue what hes thinking and what i am suppose to do. it is scary to think to raise a child alone. i want so bad for him to be in the childs life bc its very influential for a child to have both parents. I too am fresh out of college, well like 3 years but i never thought i would be here at this point in my life, scared and alone. but i figure you cannot make anyone do something they dont want to. do you have family that you can turn to for support? or friends? 

Name: mel | Date: Jul 27th, 2010 12:24 AM
Hey girl be strong if you would like to chat my yahoo I'm is melandty08 trust me that little angel will b worth every second 

Name: happy | Date: Aug 14th, 2010 5:04 PM
did the right thing not to abort. All u wrote i've been through i'm seven months preg scared out of my pants by the lonely road ahead but a child is a new challenge. When they say is a bundle of joy it is just that. Your life has a new meaning,direction,purpose believe u me u'll come out stronger with God by your side nothing is impossible,trust me He's shown how great is his mercy towards me. 

Name: Hannah | Date: Aug 18th, 2010 10:22 PM
I am going through the same thing. I feel so alone and scared. I am sometimes angry at myself... I want to be excited, but I want to share the excitement with the man that is supposed to be the father of my kids... If ANY of you could get in contact with me I would really appreciate it. I am young and struggling with this to the point of depression almost. My email address is [email protected] 

Name: Nicole | Date: Sep 5th, 2010 11:28 PM
I'm headed to be a single mom as well. Due on Sept 20th and myself turn 23 Oct 1. I never considered abortion, adoption has only crossed my mind. This is my first child, a girl, and I do really want her so bad..Problem is, her dad. He has made me misreable pretty much this whole pregnancy. And when he was being Mr. Wonderful, it was because he needed/ wanted something from me. We had only known each other 2 months when found to be expecting. I regret him being her dad so much. He has not been there for me, will not stop drinking and getting high, has really bad anger issues, has no home, no job, no license, in trouble with the law..and I could go on. Oh, don't let me forget the mother of his OTHER child (that he doesn't take care of). I don't know if I should allow him to be in my daughters life. Would she be worse off not knowing him or knowing him? My daughter will be here by the months end. I am depressed, cry all the time, and have no clue what I should do that'd be best for her. If anyone has any advice I need it [email protected] 

Name: Sheree | Date: Oct 4th, 2010 4:05 PM
I understand your pain. I am 6 months pregnant and am now single. I was with the father for 2 yrs and he has now decided he doesn't want to be with me anymore. I am now alone and angry. And really scared. Here I am by myself while he is out with other women, and I am carrying his child. He wants nothing to do with me, but gives no reason why. The only difference is that he said he is taking me to court for custody after my baby is born. I know this isnt advice or hope, but I had to respond because I finally found someone else in the same boat. 

Name: jennifer | Date: Oct 12th, 2010 4:53 PM
Dont worry hun, everything works out one way or another. If you keep working at your own life without giving up, you will do what you have to do to make things work. I am a single mom of one with one on the way. Two different father to both which i never wanted to happen., but life happens and men are men, and stupid when it comes to this. be strong and believe in yourself 

Name: Sara | Date: Oct 15th, 2010 9:31 PM
I think you are doing a good thing keeping the baby. You have to see yourself as a Independant women and this baby is ready for you to be its mom. God has his reasons for everything and you do not need anyone to take care of you. I know it may seem hard but you will be great! Keep your head up and you will have someone there for you one day but this is about you and the baby now no one else. Right now you are scared but once that baby comes out you will be so thank ful you decided to go with your decision and that baby will consume you! 

Name: julie wells | Date: Nov 6th, 2010 8:15 AM
your lucky i had ivf so could get pregnant only to fine i will never be a mother and adoption out because the money i use for ivf took it all so my dream was crush the baby room sit unuse with a layer of dust becase i can stand to go in clean it out with out crying you the lucky one i so wish i was but i guess that life 

Name: ashlee | Date: Nov 23rd, 2010 11:00 PM
hey im 21 and i found out that im pregant and im really scared and i dont know what to do
i think i will be a single parent
any tips?? 

Name: itcoll | Date: Nov 29th, 2010 2:43 PM
have you looking into getting free support through the NFP program.I have heard about it and also know few moms getting help through it.It is administered by a non-profit organization and is completely free.make sure to read more info about it.Or you can see this link:
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Name: nikki | Date: Jan 13th, 2011 6:07 PM
Hi I'm 23 and I feel the exact same way I recently found out I was pregnant and by then me and my boyfriend had been broken up already I called him and he told me to do what I want and get him in 9 months for child support it sounds selfish but I don't know if I should keep it or get an abortion I'm completly lost 

Name: alexia | Date: Feb 6th, 2011 3:03 AM
hi am alexia and am 5weeks pregant who want to chat 

Name: Becky | Date: Feb 7th, 2011 8:37 PM
Hi Jen.
Im 26 and in a little bit of the same situation as you.
I slept with a guy i work with, who has a girlfriend, and became pregnant. He kept telling me to get an abortion but I just couldnt do that. He's now ignoring me and denying the baby is even is. Its really hard because I have to work with him but I know deep down that I am doing the right thing by having my baby.
People all over the world every day have babies and are single and are in worse situations than we are. I know its hard at first and believe me everyd ay is a struggle at the moment but it will all be worth it in the end. You sound like a strong woman who has just hit a rocky patch but, like me, I know you will come through it in the end. 

Name: Eugena | Date: Feb 17th, 2011 2:33 AM
Hi Jen. I completely understand what you are going through. I am going into my 6th month of pregnant. The childs father was a friend for 9 years before we started dating. I became pregnant after dating for 1 year. After I told him about the pregnancy he literally begged and pleaded with me to have any abortion. I refused because not only do I want kids but because I promised myself I would never have another abortion after having on with my first pregnancy. 3 days after I told him about the pregnancy he pretty much dumped me and told me he was not comfortable with the situation so he cannot be comfortable with me. He does check in via text messages and seldomly phone calls, but he does absolutely nothing else to assist me with my pregnancy. We are now always arguing which causes me to become very stressed out. You are not the only woman, and will not be the last woman to be abandoned by a partner. I am just as scared as you are but in the end I am confident that I will be able to take care of this baby without his involvement. You will as well. We are much stronger than we give ourselves credit for. Good luck with your pregnancy 

Name: Randy | Date: Mar 9th, 2011 1:28 AM
Youll be ok!!! 

Name: just Bubba | Date: Apr 19th, 2011 11:31 PM
Jen, I am not a counselor, just a friend. Advice from strangers can often have hidden agendas, so be careful. Until you make up your mind,get all the prenatal help that you can.Seek help from close friends and professionals. Save up for the rainy days to come. And, the best of luck to you. 

Name: sunita | Date: May 21st, 2011 11:28 PM
i am also in the same situation...... if u wanna chat email me [email protected] care 

Name: dryan | Date: Aug 10th, 2011 7:21 AM
if you would like to talk, im here 4 you.please email me at [email protected] im always available to chat with someone that need to talk to someone to add me in msn at [email protected] 

Name: nevaeh | Date: Aug 24th, 2011 7:24 PM
i too am going to be a single mother. the father decided he cant handle a kid right now and up and left. i am scared too but have learned to accept it and do what i have to do and raise this baby. its not goin to be easy but thats the risk i took when i laid down with him and now imma loce and take care of my baby. 

Name: Becca | Date: Oct 14th, 2011 5:33 PM
Hey,im 25, i was having casual fun with a local guy , i felt lured in with his attention because i suffered a breakdown , shut myself off frm the world, sat in the same chair 4 a whole year etc . . panic attacks etc . . n it felt like a way out to meet up with him n have (that fun) i wasnt even attracted to him, . . .now. . im pregnant 9 wkz , i couldnt put myself through an abortion again . . . ity a very painful experience. . . .now im alone ,pregnant , feelin low as low, .my mates at work haue moved away from me at break time , im not open with my mum about it cuz she say make a go with adam,bt i cant do it. . . . i wana curl up n scream ,cry or woteva helpz rite now. .i nead sum1s advice or a friend. . . oh . .i havent any friends as i lost thdm due to past relationship n break down. . .so im very alone 

Name: 040412. | Date: Jan 19th, 2012 7:31 PM
Many people go through this situation but once you have the baby everything is going to change . You dont have to have him in your life, it would be less stressful having him gone. When the baby come , your friends and family are going to be there , and you going to look in your babies eyes everyday and see that he/she was worth it and your going to love him/her more than anything in the world , and all the problems are going to leave because your baby is going to be your bestfriend and your going to be his/hers. Being by yourself doesn't mean the end of the world. It means you have to learn to be strong for you and your baby . 

Name: Derek | Date: Aug 15th, 2012 4:48 PM
Hi jen my name is Derek, im 19 almost 20 and I would love to help with your pregnancy. Feel free to contact me at [email protected] 

Name: Elaine | Date: Aug 17th, 2012 9:44 PM
Keep the baby, I've a not too similiar situation to you, know how you feeling, alone/scared/why is this happening to you My baby is just 6 weeks old and wouldnt change her for the world. Wasnt exactly planned either but once you hold your baby for the first time your maternal instints automatically kick in, and although you may feel alone now, once the baby is born youll never be alone again, youll have a friend for life wont need anyone else. There is hope, trust me, youll be given a little gift from god, everything happens for a reason and no one out there has a perfect life, so enjoy being pregnant and your baby when they arrive.... if you want to chat just let me know, im here.. 

Name: Krystal 31 | Date: Oct 14th, 2012 1:30 AM
I am still with the father of my child, but I am having the same sort of feelings. 

Name: sheri | Date: Nov 3rd, 2012 1:26 AM
I am a single mom, who was involved in a relationship with a man off and on for 12 years.. We broke up in April, in May I met another man and we began dating. In August i found out that I was pregnant. I was SHOCKED, I have not been pregnant in 10 years.My youngest is 91/2, and my oldest is 19, which can tell you roughly how old I am. The man I was seeing wanted me to have an abortion BUT for some reason I just cant go. I scheduled it 2 times and never showed up. Now he and I barely see each other even though we talk regularly. He claims he will support whatever decision I make but I am afraid. Please give me some advise 

Name: sheri | Date: Nov 3rd, 2012 1:37 AM
hi, I am 37 years old, and recently out of a long relationship of 11 years. A few months after the mutual break up I met a man, and started dating. Not even 4 months later I found out I was pregnant. My children's ages are 19,15, and 9. I am In SHOCK. the man I was dating tried to convince me to have an abortion and I even scheduled it 2 times BUT just could not go through with it. Now me and him decided that we aren;t dating and to remain friends. And he claims that he will support me no matter what. Help me please Im not even sure if I can handle this.. 

Name: clifford | Date: Nov 29th, 2012 3:50 PM
any single pregnant ladys this is my number 07512754106 call me if you are in woking 

Name: bruce | Date: Dec 19th, 2012 5:05 PM
would like to chat with you please email me at [email protected] thanks 

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