hey everyone.. im a now single mother to a beautiful 10 wk old daughter, but i have a problem with her father.. and im talkin major problem, and i need serious opnions...
ever since the day i brought victoria home from the hospital my now ex has not contacted me what so ever to see how his little girl is doing.. he knows how to contact me.. hell we're even members of the same forum that i frequent.. (and he's a forum administrator) He just doesnt seem to care about his daughter, yet he calls himself a "proud parent" on myspace... we've had a rocky relationship since day one... and though out my pregnancy he would threaten to take victoria away from me when ever we had a blow up.. the last time happening the day we brought miss tori home from the hospital.. since then i havent heard from him.. i dont even know where he lives now, and im having a hard time taking care of my daughter. (im 28 yrs old btw)
Now im sure someone here has gone thru the custody proceedures, so what are the chances that the courts will grant me sole legal custody of my daughter since she has been in my care for the entire 10 weeks of her life? I live with my brother and split rent and bills with him, i hold a part-time job, i am getting WIC for the baby and she's got medicaid as well.. so she is very well taken care of, and if i need something i got 2 awesome parents and 3 wonderful siblings that will help me....... as far as victoria's father, he's been known to move from place to place.. only living with friends, he's a habitual liar, cant organize his finances (in which he blames me for) and the kicker.. he has a 19 year old son which he technically abandoned when he was 14 and hasnt talked to him since...(the reason why my ex doesnt talk to his oldest son anymore is just a joke. but thats a story for another time)
i just need some info or advice... im already gonna go after my ex for child support, but i want legal custody of my daughter too.. i dont want him to end up doing the same thing to my daughter as he did to his boy.... ↓
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