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Name: rosie_smith_2004
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i have two children by two diff men my sons father dont even live in the same state has never helped with r son and hes 7 now he thinks its ok to pop up when its convenient for him.then my daughter is 7 months old and her dad wont try to c her or spend time with her since we have spit up thats been 5 months now they hav missed all of the first of everything then they blaim it on me.niether one of the kids dads pay child support to help,but they say they love ther kids and would do anything for them.ive been told not to let my daughters dad c her untill he starts paying child support .im am so lost.i dont know what to do anymore i try to b nice but i get walked all over
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Name: Neal | Date: Dec 28th, 2006 3:28 PM
I wish people can talk the talk & walk the walk too. my ex- gave birth to my little girl when we were 18yrs old and she ran off and disapeared without a trace 2 weeks later. my daughter's name is Natalie. She's 2yrs old. And I'm a 20yr old single father. I work my hardest to take care of my little girl. I work double shifts and i take Online College classes at home so I can be with my daughter. It's not easy or cheap. I work hard to give her a healthy balanced diet and a good roof above her head. She's my little angel. I love her more than I can explain. But there's not a single day that goes by where I wish this never happened. She's my daughter and I love her beyond beleifs and I'll do anything for her. That said, I totally know how you feel. And I agree that you shouldn't let your children's fathers see them until they grow some balls and take responsibility. After all they are the ones who decided to put the sperm in you and give you your children. I was scared as heck when my ex- told me she was pregnant in the beginning but I didn't run and chicken out. I took responsibility for my actions. And even though my ex- chickened out and left Natalie without a mom, I still work my hardest. I won't let her mom see her unless she pays childsupport. ( if she ever decides to come back ) If you have any questions or you wanna talk some time my E-mail address is [email protected] 

Name: M | Date: Dec 28th, 2006 3:50 PM
If you lay down with dogs you get fleas! Simply put--you are choosing the wrong kind of men! 

Name: TC | Date: Dec 28th, 2006 6:50 PM
Are you in the US? If so...then go to family court so that you can have their shady asses served with child support papers. If they're working a legit job then the courts will take it right out of their paycheck.

And M...maybe she didn't choose the best men in the world but it doesn't excuse them from taking care of their responsiblities. Being a jackass doesn't make you exempt from your duties.

Grrrrr parents like this pisses me off!!!! 

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