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Name: hdc_momof2
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I try to descipline them and all, but I hate spanking them. I make them stand in the corner, sit in their room...but they more often than not laugh and smile about it. And as soon as I get onto them about something they turn right around and do it again! I think I need that Nanny chic from tv.:)
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Name: Blue Moon2007 | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 7:43 PM
well who is the parent/you or the kids?step up to the plate and take charge.use your brains if you have any at all===== 

Name: Dana G | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 7:45 PM
Do you use a really firm voice when you correct them? because my cousins son walks all over her and she talks like........all don't do that honey. When she needs to say knock it the heck off!

I think they go by the tone of voice rather than what your saying sometimes. Just a thought. 

Name: hdc_momof2 | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 7:46 PM
excuse me? I think you step back honey. I like your attitude at all. ya know come to think of it this isn't the first time i've seen your bad attitude on here. 

Name: hdc_momof2 | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 7:47 PM
lol that's probably one of my problems. I'll keep that in mind, thanks 

Name: hdc_momof2 | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 7:47 PM
see bluemoon...how hard is it to be nice every once in while 

Name: Blue Moon2007 | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 7:48 PM
well take charge who is the adult you or child=======grow up and be a parent====== 


Name: Dana G | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 7:52 PM
How old are your toddlers? I have a 2 year old (he'll be 2 the 18th of Jan) he can be a handful when he wants. he likes to through himself straight backwards when he doesn't get his own way. I'm always afraid he'll hurt himself. 

Name: hdc_momof2 | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 7:53 PM
your really starting to bug me bluemoon. just go away please and don't respond to my posts if your going to be a ***** 

Name: Blue Moon2007 | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 7:58 PM
all i said was stand up and be the adult=====whats wrong with saying that===== 

Name: Blue Moon2007 | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 7:58 PM
r u a man or a mouse==== 

Name: Blue Moon2007 | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 7:59 PM
whoop the kids butt do something anything===== 

Name: Dana G | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 7:59 PM
Blue Moon how old are you because your being very immature. 

Name: hdc_momof2 | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 8:00 PM
my daughter used to do that but I think she got tired of hitting her head on the hardwood floors. she is 3 now. my son is 4 and he is the fighter. a few days ago I was trying to get him to settle down and in the process he kicked me in the stomach. it litterally brought tears to my eyes. my stomach is pretty tender because I had surgery a few months ago. lets say he won that fight 

Name: Dana G | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 8:02 PM
I can remember when my kids were those ages. my oldest 2 are 18 months apart. They can sure test you. 

Name: Blue Moon2007 | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 8:03 PM
20=====very depressed i have nothing====plus the other day on this place===everyone made me a laughing stalk==== 

Name: hdc_momof2 | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 8:04 PM
your tellin me...it doesn't help that my hubby doesn't even try to help most of the time. 

Name: hdc_momof2 | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 8:06 PM
why don't you try being nice and we will be nice. I have not had one problem with anybody on here and ya know why? because i'm nice 

Name: Rhonda W | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 8:08 PM
HDC,I have the same problems.My two oldest boys are 5 and 3 and they will not listen to me at all.I have spanked them,stood them in the corner,put them to bed but nothing helped.My 5 yr old has a very smart mouth on him as well.Sometimes i feel like pulling my hair out. 

Name: hdc_momof2 | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 8:10 PM
lol...feeling your pain honey. 

Name: hdc_momof2 | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 8:11 PM
everybody always says..consistency is the key. but if I punish every time they do something wrong I would feel like a horrible mother...they would be in trouble all day long! 

Name: momof3 | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 8:12 PM
I am at a loss with my 3 year old. She has a smart mouth on her and she doesn't listen all the time. Sometimes she is the perfect angel, but when she is in a bad mood, watch out. Right now she is screaming because her 16 month old sister is walking around with the coloring book she wants. I have tried time-outs, sending her to her room, spankings, nothing works, but ignoring her when she is like this. Right now I have ignored her crying for 5 minutes and now she has stopped, 

Name: Rhonda W | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 8:14 PM
I know exactly what you mean their.I can punish my kids for something,and they just go right back and do it again.I cant be on them all day long.It makes me feel like a bad parent to constantly be getting on to them,but i dont have much else of a choice. 

Name: momof3 | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 8:21 PM
That is how I feel!! I yell and it doesn't work, I talk calmly, it doesn't work. Now when she is playing house I hear her yelling at her baby dolls, so I am trying to not yell, I will talk calmly and if she doesn't listen then I am going to make her sit by herself. 

Name: Rhonda W | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 8:30 PM
My 2 oldest are very mean.They fight each other something terrible.They can have a house destroyed in 2 secs. 

Name: hdc_momof2 | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 8:30 PM
my kids yell at each other too. it makes me feel like I'm not doing my job as a parent. I'm just at a loss. I don't know what to do anymore. 

Name: momof3 | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 8:33 PM
my girls are 3 and 16 months and they yell at each other, and the 16 month old can't even talk!! She just looks at her sister and does these screechy thing with a mad look on her face. 

Name: Rhonda W | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 8:37 PM
Ya i guess most kids if not all kids are that way.Taking care of kids is a job all of it's own.But always worth it though. 

Name: candles121 | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 8:45 PM
Believe it or not this is just a faze they are going through....
My son is 5 and my daughter is 3 and I just finally got them through it...
it was Horrible....I felt like nothing worked and they walked all over me...
I did find two thing that worked for a while.......Soap.....spoon....my son had a bad attitude for a few months....back talking....yelling back.....pushing and hitting his sister.....she would throw screaming tempers and they lasted for 1 to 2 hours at a time.......frustrating......
when the back talking and bad attitude started I would warn him first and if he continued i would put a little liquid soap on my finger and rub it into his tongue....boy did he hate that.....now when I warn him once, he usually sulks off and cools off before he comes back....when thy would start to hit or push or If my daughter startes stamping her feet in a tantrum I tell her you do that one more time and you will get a wack with the spoon on the butt for every time you stomp your foot....And I would follow through.....Trust me it works....now when I tell her and warn her the spoon is going to come outt...she holds her butt and runs saying ,LOL.....No, No spoon, Nooooo......I shouldent laught but is so funny....more times then not I don't even need to grab it.....They get the picture really quickly.....

Now I know some people don't approve of spanking your children so If you are offended by this or don't agree then don't do it.......This is just what i do as a parent and It worked.....And No I don't beat my children.......(Before anyone starts any arguments)

Hope this helps......
Good Luck.... 

Name: winnmom | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 8:53 PM
the most important thing is consistancy........ 

Name: KELLYMCLEOD | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 9:10 PM
I no what all of u are talking about when my 2 girls was younger there step dad would let them do any thing they wanted to {if they wanted to get on th table and crap it was ok to him} i had to take control of them quick if not they would have been baybay kids. it took a few weeks i would count to three and if they didn't change what they was doing i would tare there little ass up and i mean tare them up, on mater were we was and used a differant tone of voice when i spoke to them, now there teen 15 and 16 and only have to say 1 and they change what there doing, if u show them u mean business and stand furm on them it dont take long. do it now while there young because it will be harder to do it later.. 

Name: atomic snowflake | Date: Jan 11th, 2007 10:08 PM
Place them on the naughty step until they're 25 then find them a place of their own. 

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