Hi, I have been coming to this site ever since I found out that I was pregnant. I am now 7 months with a little girl, my forth and last baby.
Well me and my husband have been fixing up an old house that my grandfather left me last year when he died. It was very tight for us then so we thought that it would be such a load off not having a mortgage payment to make everymonth.
Ever since we moved in, I keep asking myself, what in the world did we get ourselves into. I mean, I knew that we were going to need to put money into the house, but my god, it is drinking up everything my husband makes. And on top of that they just laid off 12 men at my husbands job. I am getting worried. Where I live in Ohio, there is no good paying jobs, at all.
I am due to have my baby at the end of April and I have three children that need me to keep it together, But I at times feel like I am falling into a very deep depression. I have always worked, now I stay home with my children. It is not worth it to me to pay out all that I make in daycare, and clear basically nothing. Just venting a little right now, and thought it would be nice to hear from others that may be in the same boat as me, lets talk. ↓
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| Name: crystalm | Date: Mar 22nd, 2010 10:55 PM |
I have been with a company for 7 1/2 years now and I have a 11 month old daughter. I love being able to work at home and spend time with her. Have you ever thought about working from home? I make a residual income, work around her schedule and not have to stock, sell or deliver products. Check out my website and request more info: http://www.momswantmore.com/crystalm. Hope to hear from you.
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| Name: Jodi2009 | Date: Apr 7th, 2010 5:31 PM |
| Hi Elizabeth, my situation is somewhat different from yours, but I can totally relate to the money "crunch." My daughter is almost 9 months old. She is our first. I quit my job after she was born. We knew it would be difficult but manageable. We didn't want to put her in daycare and spend more than half of my income and most importantly we wanted for me to be home with her for a multitude of reasons, primarily just so that one of us would be here for all of her "firsts." I had always worked prior to her birth. I always contributed to the household income. I knew what was coming in and going out. Now my husband is taking care of the bills and not doing a very good job. Paying things late, etc. Has dipped into our savings acct over the last 3 months and spent $5,000. It is really causing problems in our relationsship. He is so secrative with th money. He recently got a raise and is bringing home more $ but we still have nothing to show for it. He will not let me see his bank acct or sit down togetrher to pay the bills. It makes me a nervous wreck. He gives me $200/month for my incidentals and I will occassionally pick up necessary things for the baby. We are to the point, he will not even by groceries. Just a few things here and there to get by. He apends $ eating out, which I think is a total waste. Especially at this point. We got into a heated discussion last night. I asked him to bring his paycheck home and let me pay the bills for 3 months then reassess the situation. He said he will have no part of that and it is HIS money and he will not allow me to distate what is done with it. I just feel really down right now, too. Just venting myself... ↑ |
| Name: twagner | Date: Apr 14th, 2010 9:07 PM |
| I too have a 7 month old little boy and am currently on maternity leave. But unfortunately have to look at going back to work, which I really do not want to have to do. So I have recently started a work at home business that will account for my income while I am able to stay at home with my son. Visit workathomeunited.com/wagner. The best part is there is no selling, no inventory, no parties and no risk. I am excited to hear from you both. ↑ |
| Name: Addymom | Date: May 27th, 2010 5:31 PM |
Hi Elizabeth, now is not a good time to stress! I have a site for you to check out and see if you think it may help you out!
www.freedomathome.com/calnon
Let me know what you think!! ↑ |
| Name: mikaela | Date: May 27th, 2010 7:09 PM |
sorry to hear that you are in that situation. i do have a 2yr old kid and quit my job after she was born but now was able to find work online. go to craigslist and check out online jobs that are being offered. salary is being bank/wire transferred to your account or you can get paid thru. jobs range from article writing, editing, SEO, virtual assistant and the like. hope everything will be better soon.
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| Name: joshuagiffin | Date: Jun 29th, 2010 11:51 AM |
Heya, saw that no men had commented on this page yet, so what-da-heck ill give it a shot, so far my only thought is "help me", sounds very scary [(-.-[) so many miscarriage and *im in pain* comments, grim stuff, very glad i get to work and pay the bills rather than have the baby, and i give my support, gratitude and er.. soul to those brave enough :)
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