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Name: jennifer early

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i am a tired mom with 3 kids (youngest is 4 1/2 months) and i have a hard time initiating any kind of sex or itimacy ie. holding hands, cuddling, and i dont know why. i love my hubby and being with him, but i am not comfortable initiating. anyone have suggestions on how to initiate sex and intimacy without feeling weird. any fun exciting ideas?! ↓

Name: angel of mine 2006 | Date: Jun 2nd, 2006 4:48 PM

I have the same problem jennifer early! I would also like some pointers...I also have a 4 month old and it is so hard to find the time except when she is asleep which isnt often! ↑

Name: Lynne n | Date: Jun 2nd, 2006 5:52 PM

I dont really know what to say maybe cook a meal ask him to give you a massage (say you have had a hard day and it from there)you never know it might lead to more!
Good luck! ↑

Name: Lizzi | Date: Jun 3rd, 2006 1:06 AM

You have 3 kids and still don''t have this part mastered? How odd! ↑

Name: crystalno | Date: Jun 3rd, 2006 2:33 AM

my situation is a little different. for some reason, at almost 35 weeks pregnant, i am as horny as ever! i was never this way with my 1st pregnancy, so this is totally new to me. i don't think i have ever had my hormones racing like this before. well my husband works very long hours. i'm talking like 16 hour days, so when he comes home, he is tired. i had to learn quick how to let him know that i needed some "satisfaction," so i would start by scratching his back. really softly though. just my fingertips. i eventually would get his tummy and legs, and by the time i was tired of scratchin, he's ready for some lovin'! it works for me too. when he wants some, he starts touching my back really softly. it totally gets me in the mood. and maybe you could try hopping in the shower with him. or you get him, and have call him in there for some bogus reason, (i need some soap!) and maybe that would heaten things up. good luck! ↑

Name: soontobe6 | Date: Jun 3rd, 2006 4:15 PM

Maybe u are alittle depressed.i go through periods like thay.i have 5 kids and pregant with 6th one so i have bigger reason then u not getting into imtimacy then u.the main thing is u have to make time for it.have a sitter for a nite to see if that helps.watcha movie se if that helps u ↑

Name: jennifer early | Date: Jun 3rd, 2006 9:03 PM

its not that i am depressed. i have always had a hard time with this and it just seems worse now, especially if we fight. he has no problem being intimate with me but its like i am afraid to tell him or show him what i want, even if i want it. whats up with that? ↑

Name: soontobe6 | Date: Jun 4th, 2006 9:53 AM

Jennifer that is just life as a mom.i would say.some days my man can being touching me but i fall to sleep.being a mom is hard work.in time u will get your sex drive back i am sure.your baby is only 4.5 months so it takes take.my kids are 1.5,3,7,8,9 so i know how u feel.i won't have no drive when i have the new baby in sept for a few months. ↑