I notice The Flame War is mainly between 3 people.
Who is going to be the more mature, bigger person and walk away from this war? ↓
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| Name: Babycrowd Helper | Date: Apr 17th, 2007 9:44 AM |
| How does it differ from harassment and stalking? Well the key factor is that a flame war is two sided. Both parties are involved in the flaming and arguing. Both respond to each others mails, posts etc. Flame wars are easy to get into and often difficult to get out of. You want to express your opinion, you want the person to understand your side. You "want" to win the argument. But as is the case in real life often "turning the other cheek" and walking away is absolutely the best path to take. You really don't "know" the person your arguing with and can not predict how seriously this person will take the argument. Do you want this person to trace you to your home in order to win your point of view? Of course not. So be the bigger person and walk away. ↑ |
| Name: M | Date: Apr 17th, 2007 12:15 PM |
| Name: lynne | Date: Apr 17th, 2007 12:20 PM |
| Name: Babycrowd Helper | Date: Apr 17th, 2007 12:27 PM |
Lynne - Read the posts and you will understand.
M - I think you all know who the 3 people are. ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Apr 17th, 2007 12:34 PM |
| hahaha...flame war good one...never heard of that...but I like it...BC is nothing but a flame war most days.... ↑ |
| Name: lynne | Date: Apr 17th, 2007 12:35 PM |
| What posts am i ment to be reading? ↑ |
| Name: M | Date: Apr 17th, 2007 12:40 PM |
| I am just trying to see if you think I am one of the three people. Honestly, alot of people are quilty of being argumentive in this forum. ↑ |
| Name: lynne | Date: Apr 17th, 2007 12:41 PM |
| I think most of us have been at some point M. ↑ |
| Name: M | Date: Apr 17th, 2007 12:44 PM |
| Honestly, that AyameM is getting on my radar screen. Her comments are completely rude for no reason. ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Apr 17th, 2007 12:45 PM |
| Oh M we appreciate you...your our informational poster...:) ↑ |
| Name: Babycrowd Helper | Date: Apr 17th, 2007 12:46 PM |
| No M i have not seen you very involved in all the fighting, so i do not mean you. ↑ |
| Name: Babycrowd Helper | Date: Apr 17th, 2007 12:48 PM |
| Lynne i have pointed out the posts for you, so you can read them. ↑ |
| Name: M | Date: Apr 17th, 2007 12:50 PM |
| I have been trying to stay out of the fighting. But every once in awhile I have to speak up. Sometimes I do feel a need to choose sides because something the other person says is just so hurtful and wrong. ↑ |
| Name: Babycrowd Helper | Date: Apr 17th, 2007 12:56 PM |
Oh yes there has been some terrible things said from all corners.
But at the end of the day they have to realise it is just pointless to carry this on. ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Apr 17th, 2007 1:15 PM |
| some like to fight just dont post if you do not...Thats what I do and If you feel compelled to answer youdo it at your own risk...But then dont be upset if you dont like the sides people choose..Then give it a few days they are on to something else by thenn...New fish to fry ...haha ↑ |
| Name: lynne | Date: Apr 17th, 2007 1:55 PM |
| Just tell me what the posts are ,if you did point them out to me then i am not aware of it! ↑ |
| Name: Babycrowd Helper | Date: Apr 17th, 2007 1:58 PM |
Posts named;
Internet Safety Things To Remember [2]
Internet Safety Things To Remember [3]
How dangerous is cyberspace for adults?
Protect Yourself from Internet Harassment and Stalking
Cyberstalking
Internet Safety Things To Remember
Hate, Revenge, Vendettas (Flame Wars Out Of Hand) ↑ |
| Name: lynne | Date: Apr 17th, 2007 2:02 PM |
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