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Name: Karla
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i have been friends with her for a year. lately she has been realy mean and bitchy to me. at work after we change into our outfits [work out fits that is] and i simply wait for her JUsT WAIT THATS ALL! she tell me "you can go ya know. you dont have to just stand here! " and of course she says it in a snotty voice, and then another person will come ad she will say "hey wait for me!". then she just completely ignores me other wise, doesnt actually "try" to talk to me, and she is just plain rude now! she is very friendly to everybody else, but when i come she just gets an attitude like i did something to her! lately she has been telling people i dont wash my face and shit like that. and she ALWAYS has to be right, no matter what. it has to go her way. she is so selfish, and rude to me its amazing.i havent done anything to her! ANYTHING! i dont talk trash about her. hell i dont even talk about her! EVER unless im saying something like "yea my best friend knows her" or something little like that, but ts never bad!im never rude to her or anything! shes my best friend why would i do that?! theres no reason to. it cant be anything with guys, cuz im taking a break from dating right now , but i just dont know whats wrong with her! i dont know what i should do . so much for a "best" friend. =(

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Name: Debra | Date: May 4th, 2006 1:36 AM
You are going to find that people come in and out of your life for a reason. You just don't know it yet. I had a best friend forever. We were like sisters. Then when we both got married her values were very different from mind. She smoked through her entire pregnancy. She was very materialistic. I heard she just got a boob job. I'm more of the "hippy" type. I don't need lots of jewerly. I'm barefoot most of the summer and I don't feel like my body defines me. In many ways I feel sorry for her. She is struggling to fight aging and feels as if her beauty defines her. Don't get me wrong, I still love her and often think of her wishing her the best. We just grew up. And Evolved into two different people. And I really thought we were inseperable. But even the people we married are completely opposite. Which just goes to show how different we really have become. Hope this helps ease your pain from losing a friend. It happens to all of us and it is very rare that one remains so close. Cheer up! 

Name: Serina | Date: May 4th, 2006 2:15 AM
Dera is correct and always gives great advise but I would also like to ad my 2 cents. I think you should tell her how you have been feeling.Maybe someone lied and said something to her that you did or said that is not true. Once you talk to her Hear what she says. You may or may not want to be her friend but personally if someone did these things to me, even if they thought I wronged them some how .They would not be my friend. I would remain friendly but that is it.
Do not worry you will have truer friend in your life time.
Good luck !! God BLess 

Name: Lynne n | Date: May 5th, 2006 9:16 PM
I would say that she dosent know what a good friend she has in you! 

Name: Lisa | Date: May 11th, 2006 5:14 PM
Find another job ,it would be the simplest solution.If you can't do that then either have your boss talk to her or just act as if she doesn't exist anymore and just do your job and worry about you.Who knows what her problem really is,you need to stop trying to figure that out and just go on with your own life without her.She may come to you in time or maybe not,obviously she isn't the friend you thought she was or want her to be so just cut your losses and make new friends. 

Name: kyls | Date: May 15th, 2006 1:58 AM
don't worry you'll find another best friend shes not worth getting upset about and if it is realy bothering u why shes like that try and get in her face and make tell u her problem is if not move on as they say karma comes back 10 folds shell get hers 

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