| It is not normal, you should speak with a therapist experienced in helping women in your situation. You may be suffering from depression and/or self-esteem issues. Having another child will in no way aleviate your problems. Take time to focus on what is best for you and your existing children. Does the dad with whom you have a bad relationship with, participate in raising the children? Is he such a good father, that you feel confident in raising another child with him? ↑ |
| No it seems like you want to have another baby to fill some kind of gap, believe me having another baby with someone your not happy with is a big mistake especially if your already having trouble with 3 kids, maybe you need to talk to a councellor who will help you put things in perspective or a close friend. ↑ |
| thank u its nice to know there are nice people like u out there ↑ |
| god is your life not hectic enough i feel the same way about my partner and my two kids. if you want to chat more email me at [email protected] ↑ |
| Yes- especially if anyone around you is having a baby. I have 3 and my oldest is 2. My two girlfriends are both having babies and that newborn gooeing and smell totally makes me long for another. I love smelling the babies head and they have the softest hair. I too am completely going through the urge for another yet my husband says no too. Financial mostly. take care and good luck! ↑ |
| I know how you feel sometimes babies can make us feel whole. They love us in a pure way that our significant other cannot. I am in a rocky relationship too. I also want another baby but I am not going to do it until we feel more solid with each other. ↑ |
| My husband is gone most of the time (truckdriver) and I feel like i'm going crazy never speaking to an adult - and yet i'm thinking about having another? I can't understand it. Maybe its because they are getting older. ↑ |
| Why did you keep having kids with a man whom your relationship was bad?????You just said you cant handle the kids you got ,yet you want more????!!!!!! Whats wrong with you?? I think you need professional help BIGTIME!!!!!! If you cant hadle your kids ,give them up to someone who can and then get your tubes tied!!!!!! ↑ |
| Lisa Every mother has her bad days with her kids. it is not unusual to have times when they are hard to take care of. I did not hear her say she didn't want them or that she was abusing them so why would she give them away? Also no relationship is perfect we have bad times at least most people do. that doesn't mean they should not have children together. People work on things and fight and have kids that is life. Lisa if you really think your life is that perfect I would be bold enough to say that you are the one in need of proffessional help BIG TIME!!!!!!! ↑ |
| lisa you need to look at yourself first befor u juge me i was having a bad day and just woundering if i wasn't the only one feeling bad i love my kids with all my hart and as sonia said it is you that needs help ↑ |
| No not normal............NUTS!!!!!!!! ↑ |
