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Name: L

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I have been married 15 years, my husband is 11 years older then myself. he is over weight and on blood presure pills matter fact 4 meds for this and that also he has relly bad knees. He is a sweet man treats me like a queen. We just dont have sex. I am so lonely for some attention I dont know what to do. Ive tried peeking our sex life with notes,dates. I even fixed up the camper all romantic on valentines day. I feel like my needs are never met. Im really starting to resent it. Im not a greedy person. im very understanding but i just am at the brink here. I really dont know what you can do about it or say. Ive tried it all. Thanks for listening ↓

Name: Angela | Date: May 12th, 2006 3:54 PM

Masterbation!! hey it could help!! ↑

Name: Lynne n | Date: May 12th, 2006 5:01 PM

Yeah i agree try the lady finger! ↑

Name: Jen | Date: May 12th, 2006 5:55 PM

Tell him the truth, but be thoughtful of him. Maybe he doesn't really know your true feelings.Be careful to not attack him. rather let him know how much you would appreciate it, desire him and need him ↑

Name: Lisa | Date: May 12th, 2006 7:05 PM

Tell him you have (needs) and (desires) and ask him what he suggests you do. He may try to fulfill your needs,he may offer you a divorce,he may grant you permission to go out and meet other men to satisfy your needs.Talk to your husband.You could also look at it like you married him for better or worse and take into account that he is 11 years older than you are.If he can't do the sex thing himself anymore then invest in some sex toys and see if your husband would be willing to use them on you.This way he is still involved in your sex life and you are still being pleasured in a sense by your husband. ↑

Name: L | Date: May 12th, 2006 10:10 PM

Thankyou all. ↑