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is it hard being a mother im nearly 18 and i want to kno haw it feels ↓
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| Name: Dana G | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:20 PM |
| of course it's hard, at any age, but being a teen is alot harder....are you a mom? ↑ |
| Name: momo | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:24 PM |
| Um wait...i can tell you that many of the teen moms here would not take there children back in a heart beat, but they would also tell you to wait as it is hard...but it is hard wether your 17 or 30...I am 26 and its the hardest thing i have every done ↑ |
| Name: Emma | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:25 PM |
Name: zxc • Date: 05/21/2007 13:13:37
im nearly 18 and i want a baby i justwant to get some advice because i need to no haw it feels and stuff n i have millions of questions to ask ↑ |
| Name: Emma | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:26 PM |
My tip would be, first learn how to spell.
and i think if we was all to write how it feels being a mother we would all be here all day writing essays. ↑ |
| Name: Dana G | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:27 PM |
| Did she make a post somewhere else I missed Emma? ↑ |
| Name: Ludicrus | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:28 PM |
best way to create a solid family life......
finish your education
get a good job
fall in love
get married
after a couple of years of saving then have a baby ↑ |
| Name: Dana G | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:30 PM |
| yea...like that ever happens in that order.....if you wait to have a baby until your ready.....you'll never have a baby! IMO ↑ |
| Name: Ludicrus | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:30 PM |
| it is called being responsible ↑ |
| Name: Nicolaaa | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:31 PM |
| learn how to spell parents before becoming one...and how to spell "how" it's hard work... ↑ |
| Name: Dana G | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:33 PM |
| I bet your kids sound like trash the way you talk ! ↑ |
| Name: Dana G | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:33 PM |
| Name: Ludicrus | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:34 PM |
| if you become a mother now you will just end up being another illiterate teen mom. how do you think that will feel zxc? ↑ |
| Name: RhondaMark | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:34 PM |
Oh Ludicrus!!.Dana is right!!.There is no perfect time to have a baby!!.Maybe in your world this is how it goes down,
finish your education
get a good job
fall in love
get married
after a couple of years of saving then have a baby
But darling here in the real world!!.It just dont happen that way!!.Get a clue!!. ↑ |
| Name: momo | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:37 PM |
| yeah if i saved to have a baby...i would still be babyless...There is ideal order yes, but no real order...many times ideal order fails...You just never know your fate i guess ↑ |
| Name: RhondaMark | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:39 PM |
| ZXC!!.What does perants mean!!? ↑ |
| Name: Dana G | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:41 PM |
Here is how I created my "solid family" lmao
1.finished 11 th grade
2.got pregnant
3.had baby
4.graduated high school (15th in class too)
5.got married (to babies father)
6.rented apartment
7.bought house
8.able tosave money now....finally
9.stable and very happy with 3 kids
10.celebrating our 9 year anniversary this July! ↑ |
| Name: Ludicrus | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:41 PM |
| rhondamark it does happen that way for people who plan. it does not happen that way for people who float through life without any thought for the future. my bet is that the children of parents who plan have more opportunities in life because of it! ↑ |
| Name: Ludicrus | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:43 PM |
| the children of parents who plan responsibly are also being raised by parents who are setting a good example! ↑ |
| Name: Nicolaaa | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:44 PM |
you cant plan everything...things just happen...its called fate.
Life deals you certain cards...its how you manage and play those cards that determines how your life turns out. Not any amount of planning or saving...there will always be things you can do better, or wish you didnt do...but the fact it you did, it happened, and you just have to change and deal with those circumstances ↑ |
| Name: Ludicrus | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:45 PM |
| Name: Nicolaaa | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:46 PM |
| anyone think that zxc could be ludicrus so he/she could start arguing again? ↑ |
| Name: Dana G | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:47 PM |
yep...I said that in the other post....M maybe????
I haven't been on in a couple days so how long have they been here anyway? ↑ |
| Name: momo | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:47 PM |
| No fate is inevitable...Excuses are for people who refuse to accept that fate has come in their direction ↑ |
| Name: momo | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:48 PM |
| i have only seen ludacris today... ↑ |
| Name: Ludicrus | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:49 PM |
| fate is an excuse to explain your mistakes ↑ |
| Name: Dana G | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:49 PM |
| Ludicrus I'd love to hear your story? How you graduated from being a doctor maybe? Make so much money right? Live in a castle? LMAO....if your so happy and fullfilled why be here at all? Sounds like your too good for us? Maybe you should leave! ↑ |
| Name: Dana G | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:50 PM |
| I come here at nap time to have fun and enjoy the company of other ladies? Whats your reasoning? are you unhappy? sad? depressed? maybe lonely? poor you....why not just talk and be nice? ↑ |
| Name: Nicolaaa | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:51 PM |
| Well...i've learnt that you cant rectify mistakes...so there is no point in regretting them. Fate happens...its not an excuse...its a reality. It exists.. ↑ |
| Name: BabyDrae12 | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:53 PM |
Yes its hard you need lots of love..money..and a good guy to fall on...It is the most draining and yet the most satisfying job ever.
Im 18 ..are u prego? ↑ |
| Name: momo | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:54 PM |
fate /feɪt/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[feyt] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation noun, verb, fat·ed, fat·ing.
–noun
1. something that unavoidably befalls a person; fortune; lot: It is always his fate to be left behind.
2. the universal principle or ultimate agency by which the order of things is presumably prescribed; the decreed cause of events; time: Fate decreed that they would never meet again.
3. that which is inevitably predetermined; destiny: Death is our ineluctable fate.
4. a prophetic declaration of what must be: The oracle pronounced their fate.
5. death, destruction, or ruin.
6. the Fates, Classical Mythology. the three goddesses of destiny, known to the Greeks as the Moerae and to the Romans as the Parcae.
–verb (used with object)
7. to predetermine, as by the decree of fate; destine (used in the passive): a person who was fated to be the savior of the country.
[Origin: 1325–75; ME [ L fātum utterance, decree of fate, destiny, orig. neut. of fātus, ptp. of fārī to speak]
—Synonyms 1. karma, kismet; chance, luck. Fate, destiny, doom refer to the idea of a fortune, usually adverse, that is predetermined and inescapable. The three words are frequently interchangeable. Fate stresses the irrationality and impersonal character of events: It was Napoleon's fate to be exiled. The word is often lightly used, however: It was my fate to meet her that very afternoon. Destiny emphasizes the idea of an unalterable course of events, and is often used of a propitious fortune: It was his destiny to save his nation. Doom esp. applies to the final ending, always unhappy or terrible, brought about by destiny or fate: He met his doom bravely. 7. foreordain, preordain.
Dictionary.com Unabridged (v 1.1)
Based on the Random House Unabridged Dictionary, © Random House, Inc. 2006.
The definiton for fate can not be an excuse..you are trying to philosophize words to suit you, which makes you sound uneducated considering you are using them in a way that in not correct with their definition...Hey M, i can cut and paste too ↑ |
| Name: Dana G | Date: May 21st, 2007 5:57 PM |
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