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Name: ELAINE

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I don't know if any of you remember my story. Well let me refresh you a bit i've been with my husband for all most more then 13yrs. And threw out these years he's hit me three times and has mentally and amationally abused me and 2yrs ago i did the unthinkable i cheated but before you start to think bad about me it wasn't what you think this person was just a friend it witch i thought it was stuped of me i had just lost to babies one right after the other and my husband wasn't really there for me like he should had and we where always fighting and to top it off thanksgiving weekend he left to mexico for the weekend he couldn't take me he said because it was to much money.Well my problem is that when i made my mustake i confided in my older sister and i cryed my life out to her about what happen she even called this guy and told him to leave her alone she told him you took advantage of her you new what kind of state of mind she was in and you played with her mind.
I know it's my fault to but i didn;t really want to do it i was there and we where just talking and before you know it, it happen i didn't even take my shirt off nor my bra i just laid there like nothing i was so scared and i told all this to my sister. Well my sister has a bad rep......... she's been with lots of guys she has 3 kids from three different guys and one she don't even no who the fatrher is and no one likes here and for my mom she's 55 and she is all up in the gossip her and my sister well my sister told my MOM what i did for the fact that everyone knows that she's slept with so many men she wants people to think we are all the same. When i found out that my sister told my mom my life pretty much stop now i'm leaveing in fear that my mom or sister will tell my husband and i'll be so ashamed for what i've done to know everyone will find out. The sad thing is im pergnant from my husband and im so scared on how streesed out i am on worry about this please some one give me advise. I will never admitt to my husband what i did i can't i've already went to my church and confesed to are father and he forgave me beleave me i will never ever do such a thing again plase some one help me out. ↓

Name: Lynne n | Date: Aug 28th, 2006 9:45 PM

Are you typing really fast and in a panic cause your post dont make a lot of sense,slow down and explian it a better i want to help you but i dont understand what you mean?! ↑

Name: ELAINE | Date: Aug 29th, 2006 4:42 PM

what im trying to say is i confided in my sister and i trusted her to keep my secret with her. And my mom at one point me and my sister haven't been taking to her because of all she's done to us as we where growing up well for some reason my sister decided to give my mom a chance and she started talking to her and my sister told her my secret and my mom is a type of person that she has to know every thing about everyone. I feel so alone and i can't trust any one I KNOW WHAT I DID WAS WRONG and i will have to live with it for the rest of my life but to know my sister went and told my mom knowing me and my mom have no relationship what so ever for her to do that to me knowing i'v been here for her i just can't beleave it. I'm so scared im trying to stay calm but i don't know what to do.
PLAESE HELP ↑

Name: Lizzi | Date: Aug 29th, 2006 8:48 PM

Be honest with your husband about what happened because it's better comming from you than from someone else. ↑

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