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Name: calvinsgirl
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Maybe I am uptight but hear me out...I recently adopted a 10 yr old....everything is going ok with that....I am/was in a relationship that turned sour...now heres my problem, my adopted son spends time with "my ex" ALOT because Im always working..... he is a REALLY BAD inflouence(sp) and for the past week since I have been working alot his behavoir has changed towards me....when I get home I just want to CHOKE both of them....what should I do or say to my son or how should I handle this......I dont want to take him away from "ex:" because he has had bad issues with males and he is doing really well....but keep this in mind when giving advise.....after Thanksgiving time I am moving so he wont be in "our" life....so what should I do now or until then

Sorry so long and makes no sense
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Name: Lizzi | Date: Sep 2nd, 2006 10:05 PM
Did your ex adopt the child too or just yourself? If only you did then you need to find a new sitter and keep him away as of now. But if your ex adopted the child too then you've got big trouble on your hands. 

Name: calvinsgirl | Date: Sep 2nd, 2006 10:31 PM
No just I did ...he has a felony in his background so he wasnt able to adopt plus we arent married so I adopted him alone. He has special needs and doesnt understand things that Im going through just the fact that ex is a great person. 

Name: spankyx0711 | Date: Sep 3rd, 2006 5:10 AM
i can understand you wanting them to keep seeing eachother because your son has had issues with males in the past, but it's best to have no male influence at all then a bad male influence. i think a ten year old is old enough to comprehend the difference between "bad" people and "good" people. just sit him down, and explain the change. good luck! 

Name: jamberrt | Date: Sep 6th, 2006 1:38 AM
Adopting can be thrilling. Ours arrived at 6 1/2 years of age...7 moves in 2 1/2 years and taking a person away is really difficult. She feels abandoned even if it's us making the decision. BUT, it's easier me being the bad guy than her being influenced negatively. However, I do pay when it happens. She's angry for awhile and I tell her I know it's hard to lose someone - I've lost friends because I don't agree with their lifestyles...keep us informed! 

Name: www.really-rich.com | Date: Sep 11th, 2006 2:11 PM
Hi Calvinsgirl
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Name: calvinsgirl | Date: Sep 16th, 2006 11:49 PM
Thanks...I really wish I could stay home and be with both my kids. But I dont have enough support to be home before things get going but I will take a look and maybe I can 


Name: jamberrt | Date: Sep 18th, 2006 7:39 PM
Hey calvinsgirl...if you're looking to stay at home and want a business opportunity, e-mail me. [email protected]

I totally get the lack of support but not sure if you meant financially. Hope all goes well. 

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