hi problem is i the mother have ADD as well, i am divorced and the father seems to be doing all the right things and doesn't mind telling me he is doing it the right way and that i need to earn the 12 year olds respect. i feel like such a bad parent as it has been hard for me to organize, my approach. i am on meds just recently and just feel worthless in her life com paired to her father who embellishes all his actions, which you don't question, i know sounds like a counseling issue, i am in counseling. just can't organize and believe everyone who speaks and everyone has a different idea. father says just talk about things...no consequences, so of coarse she likes it better there? HELP ↓
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