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Name: Jasmine_angel

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I am so fed up with people's judgement I could just scream. No one understands that my daughter is not a bad child she has a diablilty that makes it hard for her to stay on task and make good judgements at times. I am so tired of people saying I am not a good parent. I am at a loss on how to deal with my daughters behavior at times. I am doing the best I can and so is she. Does anyone know of an article I can give to those around who judge my daughter so they can better understand her. ↓

Name: KORI | Date: Oct 27th, 2007 1:41 AM

WELL U SHOULD NOT LET ANYONE JUDGE YOU OR YOUR DAUGHTER! YOU NEED TO STAND UP FOR YOURSELF AND UR DAUGHTER. ARE YOU SINGLE BY THE WAY? IF U ARE THAT MIGHT ANSWER ALL YOUR QUESTIONS! ↑

Name: Research Student | Date: Oct 28th, 2007 9:24 PM

It's hard when people say that you just haven't done your job. I know. My ADHD child is grown now. I raised him no differently than his brothers but he was just VERY HARD to control.
I found that when he was out of control he and I both benefited from taking him to a quite room to hold him or just picking him up right there during a fit of rage and just hugging him. Not to control his body but to calm him.
Do you find that your daughter is VERY emotional?

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I am doing research ... Are you Rh-negative or did you take oral contraceptives for several years before conceiving her? ↑

Name: .atomic snowflake | Date: Oct 29th, 2007 1:26 PM

My father in law and I used to argue continuously about my eldest son's behaviour. He was convinced that it was due to bad parenting and nothing I said could make him understand that it was due to his problem. My FIL died earlier on this year and I'm currently having my son assessed for ADHD right now. All that time that I wasted. ↑