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Name: hdc_momof2

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Hi I have been with this guy for 4 years. I met him when my son was only 1 week old. We got married in May. Now I feel like he treats my son unfairly when it comes to our daughter. She is 3 years old. I love them both to death but it's hard to discipline them. My husband has pretty much quit helping. since he works so much, I kind of let him get away with it. But when he does get onto them, he always gets my son first. He rarely ever gets on to our daughter. I have tried talking with him about it but he says I'm just imagining things. It's really starting to affect the way I feel about him. What should I do? ↓

Name: Lizzi | Date: Jan 9th, 2007 5:39 PM

Da-Ja-Vue! I thought I was losing my mind there for a minute! I answered this identical post on SAHM. When I found it here I thought my reply had been removed! But no,i replied at the other! Whew!!! I'm not going nuts!!!! Lol ↑

Name: hdc_momof2 | Date: Jan 9th, 2007 6:30 PM

lol ↑

Name: momoffour | Date: Jan 9th, 2007 7:34 PM

I am sorry. Thats a very hard thing to deal with. It may not only because your son is not his but thats just a daughter vrs son thing. My husband is not the same with my 4 children. They are all our but he is much gentler with our daughter. Its always been this way and shes 12 now. I would talk to him when you are NOT upset with eachother. Tell him its affecting how you feel and it hurts your feelings. I hope he listens to you.
Good Luck ↑