| Name: brittany | Date: Mar 19th, 2006 10:24 PM |
| no your too young wait a coupel years ok ashley ↑ |
| Name: Izzy | Date: Mar 20th, 2006 1:41 PM |
| hey ashlley if you have talked it through with your partner and its both what you really want, taking in to mind all the things that could go wrong, all the complications and all the tasks ahead that a baby will bring and you still strongly feel about having a baby then go for it! ok maybe you are too young but who know's you can only be who you are and bets are you will be a brilliant mum. Please think about it seriously before you make it happen. good luck for the future! ↑ |
| Name: Sara | Date: Mar 20th, 2006 10:18 PM |
Ashlley,
I just got pregnant for the first time and I'm almost 19...I thought that getting pregnant would be so much fun but...especially at first you are always sick and can't do much for the first 3 months and you have to concentrate on eating the right stuff which if you're not already in the habit to is very hard! I've heard that the last 3 months are just as hard as the first 3! And the middle 3 months are fun yet weird cuz you start to feel your baby and your breasts lactate and you get so huge it's hard to get comfy at night to sleep well! And also you pee A LOT! So just wait until you're at least out of high school! It would be best to at least have your schooling outta the way n stuff! Just be careful because what Tameka said about your body not matured yet is so true! You and your baby could die or have a lot of problems! Just be wise about this I know it's hard but yes, you should wait! ↑ |
| Name: amy | Date: Mar 25th, 2006 10:24 PM |
no way should you at either aga reali. you are so so young.
im 18 and have a baby. thats a beta age than 13.
of course mum will flip your not even the legally age yet to have sex. ↑ |
| Name: Emma | Date: Mar 27th, 2006 5:35 PM |
| Have it wen ur olda hunni trust me im speakin frm experience!! i cnt go out nemor or friday or saturday cos im stuk wif a kid...i luv my daughter loads bt sumtimes its realli hard...hope i helped XxXmwahXxX ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi... | Date: Mar 27th, 2006 7:22 PM |
10 or20 years from now...you'll not only regret having a baby so young...not that you won't love him unconditionally...but you miss out on soooo much!!! You'll also probably not be with this boyfriend 10 years down the road...eventhough at this point you think you'll love him forever...a few years down the road you'll regret even loosing your verginity sooo young...you may think it's awesome to have a great boyfriend & haveraging hormones & think you need sex & that willmake them love you forever...& a baby will help you keep them for ever...trust me...it won't!!!
Also...bad & scarey things do happen to good people...I had my first daughter at18 after 4 months of bedrest...was blest to get her alive & well!!! at 20...I gave birth to my first son...& visit his grave every year. He was stillborn. It's with me for life...he should be turning 9 in a few months...instead...I get to decide what color flowers to take tothe cemetary...& funeral costs are expensive!!! Not to mention headstones...& all I have...are the memories of him...as for my living children..wouldn'ttrade them for the world...had a very hard time getting them...& yes..they're expensive... ↑ |
| Name: shareece | Date: Mar 29th, 2006 10:20 PM |
| i think u should wait becuase he might want to talk the child after and and besides the baby will keep u up all night crieng do u really wnat that wait until 16 ↑ |
| Name: andrea | Date: Mar 30th, 2006 1:20 AM |
| Name: Keya | Date: Mar 30th, 2006 10:57 PM |
| I can't believe this girl is coming on this forum wanting a baby at the age of 13! Are you both in a serious relationship? Are you both mature and responsible? Has your byfriend taking a parenting class in High School yet? He's old enough to. I think you both need to wait. You are young and you should be worried about contacting sexually transmitted diseases. I know your having sex but I wouldn't want to be tied down with a child at the age of 13! Be in Pageants, Girl scouts, clubs. Something to keep you active besides having a boyfriend. Because I'm going to tell you something, once that baby is here, who's to say that he will be around? Boys have a tendency to mess around at that age alot. Do you hear me? ↑ |
| Name: kb | Date: Apr 1st, 2006 11:52 PM |
| i say now! And while u do it make sure to video tape it for me ok?ooooo!i forgot telll me where u live and ill help u,im 13 and want one too ↑ |
| Name: lisa marie | Date: Apr 3rd, 2006 9:24 PM |
| no no no .you obviously need to grow up first, how will you provide for this child, or are you just expecting your poor unsuspecting parents to do that for you, ↑ |
| Name: Chris R | Date: Apr 3rd, 2006 9:41 PM |
| That's what scares me about when my kids become teens. I really hope I don't have to deal with this, I will be keeping close watch over mine. 13 is way too young... ↑ |
| Name: Bre | Date: Apr 3rd, 2006 11:07 PM |
| Gurl you don't want to get pregant because your life will be a struggle ↑ |
| Name: Brittney | Date: Apr 5th, 2006 3:50 AM |
| hey you shouldwiat till your 16 man ↑ |
| Name: what ever | Date: Apr 5th, 2006 4:01 AM |
| this is a joke!! kids are just playing with us women on this site looking for a good laugh, there is no way this is true, we need to ignore people like this. ↑ |
| Name: MOTHER | Date: Apr 5th, 2006 9:30 PM |
| If you can't spell WHICH correctly, then you don't need to have a kid until you are older. ↑ |
| Name: dont listen | Date: Apr 6th, 2006 1:42 PM |
| dont listen to them gal i had my first baby when i was 12 going 13 she is now a 1 year old.i have now decided with my boy friend that we should have another and i am 8 months and2 weeks pregnant. next week i am having my little twin girls.i going to hospital now incase they premature so i go 1 week before the due date. dont forget do wot u want your parents still love you ↑ |
| Name: Kelly | Date: Apr 6th, 2006 3:57 PM |
Ashlley,
I know it sounds exciting to have a baby. It is! It's a wonderful experience and I wouldn't change having my baby young for the world. I am 21 and just had my little baby boy. He is wonderful. He is also an extreme amount of work. My husband and I agree that no one, regardless of age, will ever be prepared for a baby. You don't know what to expect until it happens. No one can make this decision for you. However, I seriosuly think that you need to wait. You havethe rest of your life to have a baby and if he is the right guy for you then he will be there when the right time comes.
Another thing that you and Louie need to consider is school. You both have a lot of school ahead of you. And how are you going to feel walking around school pregnant. Kids are not going to take kindly to a pregnant 13 year old. People are going to say some horrible things to you, make sure you are prepared to deal with that added emotional stress. Pregnancy is also not a good time. Sure you get to feel the baby kick, and squirm, but you also get the oh so lovely side effects of pregnancy. I know you have heard of morning sickness... Did you know that it can and especially in younger moms tends to last most of the day. I had "morning sickness" all day long, every day for 9 months. It was miserable! Try making it to the bathroom, down the hall from your classroom without puking 3 times during school! I don't think I could have handled being pregnant in school!
I hope this has given you some things to think about. If you really want a baby now.... Put an ad in the paper to be a babysitter. Watch other people's kids. See how much work it is. Enjoy all the baby moments and when the end of the night comes, get paid and go back to being 13! You have so much more to experience in life before ahaving a baby of your own. Enjoy your time now, enjoy your friends, enjoy no job, or responsibility other than school! I will be praying for you and Louie! ↑ |
| Name: jo | Date: Apr 6th, 2006 9:04 PM |
| i really do think you should wait, when i was younger i wanted a baby and i think alot of young girls do, im now 18 and preganant with a loving fiance and a stable home to bring the baby into (and im still really young), unless you can offer your child thoose basic things in life then its not fair to bring the baby into the world, u need a future too, go to school get a education and job then when u are ready ure kids will have a mum to be proud of ↑ |
| Name: samantha | Date: Apr 7th, 2006 3:59 AM |
| UR A F***ING IDIOT! YEAH THIS BOY SAYS HE WANTS A BABY NOW BUT JUST WAIT, IM WILLING TO BET U ANYTHING HE WILL RUN OUT ON U B4 ITS EVEN BORN! AND IF I WERE U I'D GO AHEAD AND GET RID OF HIM NOW CUZ HES JUST TO OLD 4 U RITE NOW! DONT SCREW UP UR LIFE! TRUST ME RAISING A BABY IS NOT EASY, I AM RAISING MY SISTER, AND DONT GET ME WRONG, I COULDNT LOVE HER ANYMORE BUT BY RAISING HER FROM THE TIME 1 WAS 8, UNTILL NOW (IM16) I MISSED OUT ON ALOT! ↑ |
| Name: katijo | Date: Apr 7th, 2006 4:55 AM |
| Thats stupid you are a child yourself!!! you uterus is still growing and so are you. Im 16 and pregnant it was not planned it just happend, but I was never having sex at the age of 12...Children are a huge responsibility. ↑ |
| Name: Alex | Date: Apr 8th, 2006 2:18 AM |
| i couldent care less wat they say about you ples reply to me ↑ |
| Name: jessica landoredorma | Date: Apr 10th, 2006 6:01 AM |
seriously, i think you should wait hun. first off, school.
when i was 13 years old , 7th grade, someone spread a rumer about me being pregnat. i didnt look pregnat at all, i was 5'2 ans 94 pounds, but that didnt stop the ENTIRE school from believing that rumer. i had loads of kids walking up to me and saying NASTY things to me everyday!. i was in a big school to, with about 3,400 people. 6th 7th and 8th graders. 3/4 of them came up to me. i got rude remarks shouted at me as i was walking through the halls. i had people whispering stuff to eachother like," thats that nasty b**** that got pregnat! but of course they "whispered it loudly, and when i was walking out of the school people would scream PREGNAT SLUT to me. then i had a big crowd of kids walk up to me, and tell me how disgusting i was, and how nasty and what a "slut" i was for being pregnat at 13. it finally took about 4 or 5 months for people to figure out i wasnt pregnat.it was horrible.but just imagine i i was pregnat. imagine what they would say if i did show.so basically what m saying is, emotionally,and socially pregnancy would be a good thing
second; money
your not even old enough to get a job!!!! im sure you mom will have to support you, but what about when you move out? you dont want to live with your parents forever right? you will just barely be getting by! i mean you will have to be working minimum wage, at mcdonalds or something, because you wont be able to get a job like a doctor, or a lawyer, because you need schooling for that! and minimum wage is around something like 6.50 an hour? lets see that is only $71.50 a day, if you work from 7am to 5pm. that is only $500.00 a week! that is only $2000 a week! 26,000 a year! thats nothing! a one bedroom apartment in wodland hills,(city in california) is around $500. a week! that is 2000 dollars a month. thats all your money. you still have to buy food, for two, AND you power bills, AND your going to want water, to shower and things like that. then your going to need money for clothes. your still growing, and you baby is growing, your both going to need some more clothes that can fit you.you dont want to have to depend on your mother your whole life right? then you wouldnt be a very responsible parent, not being able to care for her child.
3; child care
while your working 10 hours a day, whos going to watch your baby?your parents cant. they have to work to dont they? your boyfriend is a little immature, and he probably is going to deny the baby is his before its even born! maybe you would have to stay home while your boyfriend works, but then again he probably will be gone, believe me he doesnt want that responsability! you dont either.
four; legal matters
one your not old enough to drop out of school. you have to be in high school to drop out. you have to be 16 in california. it might be 15 wherever you live, but most places its 16. second
you arent legally old enough to have sex yet. sorry. your boyfriend will be arrested for rape.third .
your not old enough to get a job! how are you going to live? your boyfriend can drop out of school, but then back to child care, whos going to watch the baby? you cant, you have to go to school! you dont want to leave your baby with a stranger do you? i sure dont.
5; your health.
your only 13. your hips probably arent even big enough to carry a baby. and i hope you got your period, because i dont even know why you would consider such a thing without it.cant make a baby without it. your not ready, emotionally or physically, to have a baby.and, are you ready, for the birth of the baby? if you go natrual, which you proabaly will have to, since your so young, labor is very short(mine was also) there wont be enough time for an epidural, or spinal block, and i dont even know if they would let you have one. believe me it was painful also. plus, alot of things can go wrong, for you being so young. the baby can be missing organs, or anything bad can happen! like you have seen earlier, a child shouldnt have to give birth to a child
last;myself i am 18. i have a 1 year old son. i was pregnat last year. i am stuck at home with a one year old. my boyfriend luckily is still with me, and is 22, has a good job, making about $80 dollars an hour working 8 hours a day. i am/was old enough to leave school, to care for my baby. this is the hardest thing in the world. my friend all get to go out, but i have to stay home with my baby. i love him to death, dont get me wrong, but i dont get to go anywhere, or do anything! i just hope one day, i can finish school, and get a job, a good job, but that will just have to be later. and thats all i have to say, and i hope you come to your sences ↑ |
| Name: baby man | Date: Apr 12th, 2006 11:10 PM |
| Name: jackey-lyne | Date: Apr 13th, 2006 3:16 AM |
this is a FAKE POST!!!!! THERE HAVE BEEN ALOT!!!!! like the one in the parents with teens forum bout the girl "who cant stop having sex"
and shes 11......... ignore posts like these ya know they arent true ↑ |
| Name: Jo | Date: Apr 13th, 2006 7:30 PM |
| Im 15, I've got a baby, believe me, its bloody hard. She is 6 months now, and my bf left me when i told him I was pregnant. I know your bf wants one too, but will he still want one when its 2 am and the baby is crying its eyes out and wont go back to sleep? Plus, you are really not ready, your body probably wont be able to cope with a child. Please, dont do it. ↑ |
| Name: marla | Date: Apr 13th, 2006 9:30 PM |
| f a k e p o s t . everybody knows ashley ↑ |
| Name: amy | Date: Apr 14th, 2006 11:42 AM |
| ma msn is [email protected] add me ↑ |
| Name: lilly | Date: Apr 18th, 2006 2:18 PM |
| this is the breastfeedin forums ↑ |
| Name: Precious | Date: Apr 22nd, 2006 12:06 AM |
| Hi im precious, i think you should wait till your 19. I have a baby and i'm 15 years old i had my child when i was 13.You think that your boyfriend is going to help you but he wont. And if he does it will be hard for both of you. think of what a hard time your mom will have supporting you and your child. Your not even olded enough to get a job. school will be really hard for you and day care will be hard to find. and expensive. And what i find really weired is that you wanna have a baby. i would think you would wanna live your life as a kid because you only get one chance. But i can only tell you only give you advice and tell you what ive been threw. well hope you make the right decision. ↑ |
| Name: unimous | Date: Apr 22nd, 2006 5:12 PM |
look ashlley you do not want a baby when ur 13 ur still in school like 8th grade you should wait till ur 18 please take advice from me i had my baby when i was 13 almost 14 and i had 2 quit school ! i dont want that 2 happen 2 u im 15 now my baby is about 1 year it is so hard for me . we have no money cuz i cant get a job im olny 15 and i runied my career i was going to be a laywer but now im a mom . i mean its so great to have a kid but i got so streased and i needed my kid now. You do not need to be thinking about sex at the age of 12 you can get verry sick from having sex at a young age trust me on this 1 .
im 1 month pregant agan and im 15 u dont wanna be like me .
please trust me my life is a reck i would wait till ur in 12 grade like 18 years of age . you should not have a baby in 7th grade.
sometimes teens have sex for fun but not when ur 12 . i mean get real ever heard of condoms . i mean you cant get a job and take care of ur kid ur 12 and they cut u open to get the baby out it kills . u'll freak if u are goanna have a baby at 1 2 almost 13 . ur bf is not old enouf 2 see it when ur hvaing the baby and i "RPEAT DO NOT HAVE SEX" ↑ |
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