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Name: DonnaMae
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OK, here I go again. Boy am I glad I found this forum!

Both of my step daughters will be attending a cheerleading camp come middle of Aug. My husband wrote a check to the ex wife for more then half of what is due. That was two months ago. She never cashed the check. My husband talked to her about this and she said we have to talk. He said fine, set it up, and we will talk. Nothing. He has made several attempts. And finally gave up. Anyway, the money is due this Thurs, and she MADE the oldest girls call last night to say he needs to write a check for more money. Bottom line, he told her that this was all he was going to pay, that it was more then fair. And it is! Well, this morning he called her, and she said he has to give more money. He said no, I already gave you a check, and it is for more then the balance. So, she says fine! Expect a call from my lawyer. Tried to make this short. Sorry. This woman is supposed to be paying rent, and hasn't for 3 years. Told him she had to get back on her feet. She works a pretty good job, and get's ample child support now. How can we try and reason with her withou having to bring in lawyers? It's bad enough half of our money goes there now. And frankly, we don't have extra to waste on lawyers. What should we do?
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Name: pj754 | Date: Jul 25th, 2006 5:53 PM
If your husband is paying his half or more than his half, then there is nothing she can do about. She can call her lawyer all she wants but she will be wasting her time and money because he paid what he was suppose to. As long as your husband is paying his support and etc. like they had agreed in their divorce papers, there is nothing she can do about. Unfortunately, the daughters will be disappointed but your husband needs to explain that he paid his share of the money but their mom didn't pay her share. They will learn to understand that dad can't afford everything. 

Name: Lizzi | Date: Jul 26th, 2006 3:19 AM
I hope the girls will be 18 soon! Your husband should have given the money to the cheerleading camp NOT his ex. Sounds like she will do everything in her power to make life hard for you. Hang on,your in for a long bumpy ride!! I know you say you don't have the money for a lawyer but maybe you should talk to one anyway. Wasn't there a court order made for all this stuff in the divorce? 

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