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Name: Gina

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I just cant believe that he will not take our son the week he is on vacation and im working. My parents watch our 11 month old full time and he thinks they shouls also watch him while he is vacationg somewhere. Does this make sense to anyone? I tried to talk to him about this but he dosent get it and refuses to spend any of that time with him. does this sound normal to anyone?? ↓

Name: texas chic | Date: Sep 9th, 2005 3:25 PM

this sounds very selfish of him, he is the only who stands to lose that time that he will never get back...in a few years your son will start figuring that out on his own, unfortunately...just be strong and best of luck ↑

Name: Oni | Date: Sep 22nd, 2005 4:11 PM

I think your husband could spend a few of his vaction days with his son...doing stuff with him, even if it is just watchng barney videos....it is selfish, but maybe he thinks that your son id too young to really do anything with yet, and won't notice?! ↑

Name: amazing | Date: Jul 24th, 2006 6:24 AM

Does he normally see him? Who are YOU to dictate what he does on his vacation? Please tell me that you don't go on vacation or will ever go on vacation without your son...You know you are lying if you even try it. Stop trying to control his life. ↑

Name: Serina | Date: Jul 24th, 2006 2:08 PM

Do you mean to say that the only time he gets his son is the week he is on vacation???
If he sees him other then that he should be able to go on vaction with out him but in turn he should watch him when you go on vaction.
He may think that at 11 moths a week with out seeing his son is not so bad an he will not remember if he does take hime for a week he is just too small.
I hope he spends other time with him other than 1 week?? ↑