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I hate my dad, I know its really sad. But I do. I have a weird hunch he's cheating on my mom, I dont know why. Maybe its beacause he watched porn. But otherwise I cant live to ever see my parents get divorced, I cant. So They dont, but It still kills me. I dont know how to know if my dads cheating, but its a gut feeling ↓
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| Name: Shauna | Date: Jul 17th, 2006 6:21 PM |
| Lots of men watch porn without cheating. Is he doing other things to make you think that? My own husband watches porn sometimes but I choose the ones he can watch and he tells me when he does. If he's having sex with someone else or going out with another woman he is cheating. If not, don't worry. Lots of men and some women watch porn. ↑ |
| Name: Shannonsmeltzer | Date: Jul 17th, 2006 7:52 PM |
| I know how you feel sweetie. I was 10 when my parents got divorsed, and I felt the same way. I remember it like it happened yesterday. But now it has been 11 years and even though it is still in my mind I know now that it was the best thing for them. Sometimes people love each other but they cant live together. And I never understood any of this until about two years ago when I finally asked for help. My advise to you would be don't worry about your parents. You have your whole life to worry about, and that is what is gonna matter. Find someone you trust to talk to, a school counselor, a friend, a teacher, a family member. I even talked to my dog when I was going through all of that. At the time I thought it was silly but it helped me release alot of anger and emotions. And I found other ways to express my self as well. I wrote poems and letters, and kept them under my mattress. Every now and then I pull them out and read them, and there was alot of things that I had bottled up until I put them down on paper. If you ever need someone to talk to email me, at [email protected], good luck ↑ |
| Name: pj754 | Date: Jul 19th, 2006 1:23 PM |
| Do you have any other suspicions that your dad is cheating? Yes, grown ups do watch porn, just like Shauna said. However, do your parents fight all the time? Do they sleep in separate rooms? Have you told your mom that you saw your dad watching porn and if so, what is her reply to it? Maybe your gut feeling is right. My daughter caught her father watching it on the computer and told me about. Although, he yelled and screamed at her in front of me and said it was no big deal that they were just girls in bikinis sitting on motorcycles. He made a big spectacle out of it. However, I was able to tact the sites he viewed on the computer without him knowing I knew how to do it. I requested him not do it anymore that I didn't appreciate it and I felt hurt by it. Overtime, I ended up divorcing him and did find out he was cheating on me. Although, I have to say, not all men are like that. My fiance does watch porn, yet, he tells me when he does and he usually likes to watch it while I'm present with him. As long as he's open and honest with me, I don't have a problem with it. My ex would deny it and lie about it. I would explain to your mother what you say and see what she says to you about. ↑ |
| Name: edna | Date: Aug 25th, 2006 7:25 PM |
| i ust to leave with my boy friend but know i dont because the law says im to young i dont know what to do some one help please (i realy love him he now gots to wolk 12 blokes to see me) ↑ |
| Name: JESSE | Date: Aug 25th, 2006 8:34 PM |
| Are there any other reasons that you think that your dad is cheating on your mom? Watching porn does not mean that he is cheating. My parents separated when I was 21. I wished they did it when I was 13. The reason why is because it would have saved everyone from years of unhappiness, deciet, and lies. It was not up to me to judge who was right and who was wrong, but alot of painful things happened that within those 8 years that would have never happened. It is not healthy for parents to stay together when they don't belong together. Does your mom feel that your dad is cheating? Have your parents talked about divorce? Just remember that things always happen for a reason. We may not ever know what that reasonn is, but there is one. Things always have a way of working themselves out. It just takes time. Hang in there. ↑ |
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