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Name: JazzyIslandHoneyGurl

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Ok after much consideration I have decided to come back to the forums. I stopped coming on after being harassed by so many people, after I told my true to life story of having twins after my brother raped me on. I was on the due date crowd. Since then things haven’t exactly been smooth sailing. The twins Makayla and Mackenzie had a really rough time in the NICU. Mackenzie never came home. After her 4th brain operation to remove a blood clot she passed away. Her little body just couldn’t fight any longer. So that was really hard for me. Me and Ryan have since broken up after I found out he cheated twice. And he started becoming abusive. He would hit me in front of the kids (our oldest daughter Briana and Makayla). He was abusive physically, mentally, emotionally, and sexually. And I couldn’t take it anymore so I moved out. I've been really sick with my disease that I've had since birth and it's given me a hard time. I've been in a wheelchair I have seizures and I'm in the hospital a lot. Ryan went to the DCFS (Department Of Children and Family Services) about how he doesn’t think the children are safe with me in my condition and the agreed!!!! The children were taken away and put with Ryan. It's hurt me so much not being able to see them as much as I want to. I'm so scared for them. What should I do? I really need help not being humiliated and being harassed I had enough of that. Please help! ↓

Name: JazzyIslandHoneyGurl | Date: Dec 9th, 2006 4:39 PM

Does anyone have any advice for me? ↑

Name: billy22 | Date: Dec 10th, 2006 1:43 AM

Never give up! PRAY PRAY PRAY! God is the only one who can make light of this situation. i am SO SORRY for what you are going through! I will pray for peace and justice for your situation....I AM SO SORRY! ↑

Name: tweetybird4 | Date: Dec 10th, 2006 5:51 AM

Perhaps you need to hire an attorney to view your case with DCFS? I'm sure legal counsel would be able to help you at least set up and acquire some visitation time with your children. I'm sorry to hear you are going through this, it's terrible. I can understand your health gives you trouble from time to time but for DCFS to take your children away from you because of that reason is just plain wrong. Surely, they would have help in assisting you to getting the medical help you need to help you take care of your children? It sounds to me that the only way you may have any avenue in spending time with your children is to seek legal counsel. I'm sorry for your loss, too, my sympathy to you and your family. You have to become a sqeaky wheel and let your voice be heard. Eventually, someone will listen to you. What about any of your immediate family? Can they help you? Don't give up, your persistance will pay off for you in the long run. Surely, someone in your family would be willing to fight for you to help you gain your children back? Keep trying. I'm sorry if my advice hasn't helped out but you do have ears here listening. ↑