| Let the children give the gifts and involve yourself in the joy. My husbands ex was a narcissist and taught the children to not to acknowledge such occasions for their dad. You need not to deal with her, that is your husbands job. If you contact her you are feeding her narcissistic supply. I can tell you from experience that the kids will someday make their own decisions regarding the relationship they want or don't want with their dad. Remember her children are possessions to her and when she feels threatened she will attempt to alienate them. Do the best you can with what you have and hope for the best! There is a light at the end of the tunnel and that is when they are adults and responsible for their own decisions. ↑ |
