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Is anyone divorced or about to be. I am ↓
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| Name: tk | Date: Feb 28th, 2006 6:13 PM |
| I'm in the process of getting divorced. I'm 25, I've been married for 8 years and have a 8 year old son. ↑ |
| Name: sonia | Date: Feb 28th, 2006 6:33 PM |
| tk Sometimes I think I am headed for divorce but I guess I am not ready to let go yet I still love my husband although I question often whether he feels the same. Why are you getting a divorce? ↑ |
| Name: jennica | Date: Feb 28th, 2006 9:02 PM |
| I'm getting a divorce b/c i cheated on him. We have a two yr old and i'm pregnant again. Due in seven months. I'm so sorry i did this but at the same time i'm happy i found someone else. I'm so confused can someone help? ↑ |
| Name: to jennica | Date: Feb 28th, 2006 9:17 PM |
| I didn't think that women cheated so sorry for your loss ↑ |
| Name: jennica | Date: Feb 28th, 2006 9:18 PM |
| Name: tk | Date: Mar 1st, 2006 1:05 PM |
| Sonia, I haven't been happy for many years. I'm having a hard time because of my son. My son and I are moving out this weekend and he's pretty upset he doesn't understand. I'm kinda scared but am I suppose to stay in the relationship even though I don't love him?I hope my son will adjust. ↑ |
| Name: to the one who posted to Jenni | Date: Mar 1st, 2006 3:49 PM |
| What do you mean you didnt think women cheat? Thats kinda of a close minded thought dont ya think? Of course women cheat, not all, but I think youd be surprised to know how many do. Thats ridiculous I hope you were just kidding with that statement. ↑ |
| Name: jennica | Date: Mar 1st, 2006 3:54 PM |
| Is there any other women who are going through the same thing as i am? ↑ |
| Name: sonia | Date: Mar 1st, 2006 4:27 PM |
It's not that I'm closed minded and I wasn't trying to be rude? I myself have been tempted I have just never known of any women who did cheat. I know of a lot of cases where the man cheats.
Sorry jennica. I was once tempted but I didn't do it because I thought about the consequences and decide it would be a really bad idea. I think if you still love your husband you should ask him to go to therapy and forgive you. If you still could love him you should try to stay married. ↑ |
| Name: sonia | Date: Mar 1st, 2006 4:32 PM |
| jennica what was your husband not doing that made you want to cheat. Does he bear some responsibilty for not meeting your needs. My husband hardly ever has sex with me and he doesn't nurture me emotionally. He travels a lot and I always worry he will cheat on me. Sometimes I worry if I leave him I'll never find someone else and really don't want to be alone. I don't know if I even still love him but I think I do. ↑ |
| Name: jennica to sonia | Date: Mar 1st, 2006 4:52 PM |
| well for me he definetly didn't satisfy my sexual needs as well as emotionally too. He just works a lot and i felt like he never had time for me. So i found someone who has been there for me in a lot of areas. ↑ |
| Name: to jennica from sonia | Date: Mar 1st, 2006 5:19 PM |
| I understand how you felt. I hope your new relationship works out. Remember there will always be some type of problems. You have to ask yourself what you are willing to live with. Does your daughter get to live with you? Who is your babies father the one you are pregnant with? ↑ |
| Name: to tk from sonia | Date: Mar 1st, 2006 5:20 PM |
| Name: jennica to sonia | Date: Mar 1st, 2006 5:31 PM |
| Well right now my daughter does live with me. But she does spend some quality time with her dad too. I'm pregnant with the guy i had an affair with. So it's really difficult for my daughter she doesn't understand all that's going on. ↑ |
| Name: tk | Date: Mar 1st, 2006 6:00 PM |
| sonia, We had alot of problems with him trusting me and everything else. I guess some of it has to do with me getting married at 17. I guess I've grown away from him as I got older I realized I wanted more in life. I know it sounds bad and I'm not trying to be shallow. It feels like we're roomates with benefits and I can't live like that anymore. How come your contemplating divorce? I never wanted to do this to our son but really I have only have one other choice stay there and be unhappy wondering what it would be like to be in a loving relationship. ↑ |
| Name: jennica | Date: Mar 1st, 2006 6:06 PM |
| How old are you now TK? ↑ |
| Name: tk | Date: Mar 1st, 2006 6:25 PM |
| Name: jennica | Date: Mar 1st, 2006 6:30 PM |
| I'm 23 and we were married 4 yrs ↑ |
| Name: sonia | Date: Mar 1st, 2006 7:42 PM |
Sometimes I feel like I want a divorce because he cheats on me mentally while he is out of town then tells me about it and we hardly ever have sex. he spent a great deal of time in the beginning critsizing various things about my body which is just an avarage body nothing extravagant but not too ugly either. I guess I just don't think you do these things to someone you love.
About three years ago we got in a very bad fight over his masturbation we almost did divorce but then he stopped and commited to me only. just recently he did it again and I don't know what to do anymore. I think I should just stay with him until I finish my degree then leave him when I have a stable job. I have four kids and I am 27.
I don't think masturbation is so wrong it is the fact that he told me what he thinks about that is wrong. I don't think you would tell your lover stuff that would hurt them like that. It has caused me to lose all sexual response to him. I think i might not even love him anymore at least not as a romantic partner. What do you guys think should I finish school or leave now? ↑ |
| Name: jennica to sonia | Date: Mar 1st, 2006 8:35 PM |
| well if you don't love him or feel anymore sexual feelings for him i would leave right now. ↑ |
| Name: sonia | Date: Mar 1st, 2006 9:46 PM |
| there are days I think I should but how would I afford to care for my kids and go to college. I would have to get a job and I wouldn't have time for school. I guess if it gets bad enough I will leave but I know when I do I'll be alone forever. I don't think anyone wants a 27 year old with four kids. I am still hopeing for this relationship to work out. ↑ |
| Name: jennica to sonia | Date: Mar 1st, 2006 10:09 PM |
| Have you talked to him at all lately? ↑ |
| Name: sonia | Date: Mar 1st, 2006 11:02 PM |
| I talk to him all the time with short giving up breaks inbetween. All he ever says is I'm sorry and I don't know what to tell you. ↑ |
| Name: jennica to sonia | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 3:33 PM |
| Hi how are you feeling today. My back and feet hurt. ↑ |
| Name: sonia | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 4:13 PM |
jennica
sorry your hurting you need a prenatal massage it sounds like. I'm doing okay I just need to stop coming into these chat rooms. I'm not getting my school work done. I'm taking thirteen hours this semester and it's only going to get worse after this. I really need to finish school quick just in case my marriage fails. Although we had a really good night last night he was really nice to me maybe he is starting to get the picture but I'm sure it will be short lived. I'm going to school to become a nurse and from there I want to become a midwife. I love pregnant women and birth and babies. I think it is the most beautiful thing in this world. Do you work? What do you do? ↑ |
| Name: jennica to sonia | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 5:02 PM |
Oh a prenatal massage would be great. Actually i could probably use a whole day at a spa. As for work i'm in between jobs i do hair. But lost my job b/c the salon i worked at closed.
But hopefully i'll find another job real soon. ↑ |
| Name: to jennica from sonia | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 8:23 PM |
| Does your new significant other support you? Are you guys going to get married? ↑ |
| Name: jennica to sonia | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 8:37 PM |
Yeah he does support me and wew are getting married in June
17th when the baby will be just over a month old. ↑ |
| Name: sonia | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 8:50 PM |
| Congradulations! Do you plan to breastfeed you baby? ↑ |
| Name: jennica | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 9:00 PM |
| Name: jennica to sonia | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 9:46 PM |
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