I divorced over a year ago and have an 8 year old daughter called Taya. I took divorce badly bacause of my daughter, particularly seeing another man taking the "father role" soon after I left the marital home. My somewhat irrational fear was that this man would replace me in this respect and consequently I became depressed and was unable to work. I now see Taya regularly, she stays with me most weekends, and was completely wrong about my thoughts; we have a great father/daughter relationship. My problem is that I cannot get on with my life because I dont want to do anything which may hurt Tayas feelings or jeapordise our relationship in any way. I have no interest in socialising or fing a job , my life is on hold, as I wont do anything which may require me perhaps not seeing Taya one weekend. I find myself constantly needing to re-assure mysel that Taya loves me (which of course she does). ↓
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