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Name: epmaddies
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I divorced over a year ago and have an 8 year old daughter called Taya. I took divorce badly bacause of my daughter, particularly seeing another man taking the "father role" soon after I left the marital home. My somewhat irrational fear was that this man would replace me in this respect and consequently I became depressed and was unable to work. I now see Taya regularly, she stays with me most weekends, and was completely wrong about my thoughts; we have a great father/daughter relationship. My problem is that I cannot get on with my life because I dont want to do anything which may hurt Tayas feelings or jeapordise our relationship in any way. I have no interest in socialising or fing a job , my life is on hold, as I wont do anything which may require me perhaps not seeing Taya one weekend. I find myself constantly needing to re-assure mysel that Taya loves me (which of course she does).
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Name: epmaddies | Date: Aug 24th, 2008 2:04 PM
You need some serious counseling. Your daughter will always be your daughter and she will always love you, but she is not going to respect the life that you are living. Get out of the house and get something positive going in your life. How do ever expect to have a normal life when you are obsessed with your daughter. 

Name: ann | Date: Aug 26th, 2008 7:20 PM
I agree you need counseling...plus you need to help support your daughter emotionally and financially. If you are constantly just waiting for HER and have no life of your own how much fun can that be?!?! 

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