I have been in the same relationship now for 7 1/2 years, we have 2 wonderful children they are not biologically his but is the only dad they have ever known. For the past 4 weeks we have encountered a big issue. there has now been 2 times my spouse has not come home in a one week period. When he first came home he told me at first he just wanted a baby, (I need to have surgery first) but then slowly things progressed from there he has totally isloated himself from me, doesnt touch me, kiss me barley says hi to me. This went on for a good 3 weeks and i started to ask questions, I had thoughts that he was cheating but he got pretty mad when I asked him that and I honestly believe him. I have asked him if he wants to fix our relationship and i get the answer well im here About 3 days ago we got into a huge arguement he finally told me he loves me and always will but he is no longer in love with me. He said he is not happy and doesnt think he ever will be again. he has some feelings that he doesnt know why he is feeling that way. We have been intimate once since this all started and it caught me off guard after all that he said, but when i asked him about it I got a pretty harsh answer (well what can I say men have urges) this shattered my heart as I never would of imagined. some friends have told me he might be saying that to hurt me. I dont know what to do anymore. I have suggested councelling but he is not one to do that he told me he just needs time and space. I am more than willing to give him his time and space and would do anything to keep us together but I can not be the only one that wants this. And i can go on much longer with the way he treats me, its like im not even here
I have been looking for advise or suggestions on how to deal with it and him if anyone could help in any way i fully appreciate it. ↓
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