| No one here is going to judge you. Things happen and now we have to figure out what to do. First, I do hope everything is ok with you and baby. Hopefully, the ultrasound will prove to show things are fine. I hope for the best. Second, you need to sit back and rethink your relationship with your boyfriend. I make take your boyfriend sometime to get use to all the different adjustments. I know mine had to at first. But, if your bf truly loves you meaning loves you better than himself, then you know you have a good thing with him. There are just some minor issues you both would need to talk out. However, if things are little more deeper than that, then you need reconsider your relationship. As far as the ex husband goes, you have to keep in mind why things went wrong in the first place. You can't kid yourself to think that things will be different the second time around. However, it's not impossible to do either. Just take your time. Work on doing what makes you and the children happy. You have to be happy with yourself before you can be happy for your children. Since your bf can't stop lying to you, then there is something more to him that you have no idea about. I would be afraid things could get really out of hand later on down the road. I will tell ya, fighting all the time is not a healthy environment for anyone involved. I can speak from my own personal experience that I didn't like the person I was when I was with my ex husband. He was killing every once of energy I left inside of me. Then, I met my bf, who I fell in love with right away. Right from the beginning of our relationship, he treated me like a queen. He always put me before himself. Then, he took care of my children and that was something I didn't expect from a single man. I expected him to be rather selfish and all for himself. Well, that wasn't the case and we ended up marrying a few years later. The only advice I can give you is to think about what you really want to be happy. Make yourself happy for all your children's sakes. Everything else will fall into place. Put your trust in what your heart tells you. Beware of the little voice in your head that always tries to change your mind. The first time I got married, I followed my head, but the second time I got married, I followed my heart and have no regrets. I wish you a successful pregnancy and wish the best for you. Feel free to vent anytime you need. ↑ |
| lol so i put my boyfriend in his place for how long i dont know but at least some of the tension is gone. i can breath easy for a few days im gonna think long and hard on what i really want to do what would be best thanx tweetybird u really helped me ↑ |
