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| Name: Confused | Date: Nov 1st, 2008 10:40 AM |
| Don't give up hope. I dealt with separation while I was overseas in Iraq. So far, my wife has stood her ground and has chosen to stay single. We have a 3 year old together, and she dated while I was overseas. I still haven't given up all hope, and am dealing with some major depression problems which she is still willing to be helpful with, but she says she loves her life without me. I am continuing to fight for my family, but I'm not sure if it will work. Just don't give up hope. Keep on fighting for it, and I hope it works for you. ↑ |
| Name: ann | Date: Nov 3rd, 2008 10:05 PM |
| I am very impressed by all of your comments. It takes a good man or woman to realize they are wrong and work to fix it. 1st you need to worry about your self and staying sober...the truth lies inside of you if you are an alcoholic or not, but based on what you have said you know that is a problem and you are working on that!!! (great job) I really think you have a chance of fixing things if you and her are doing all this stuff together...just take it easy and leave the ball in her court...if you pressure her she might run!! Good luck and I will keep you in my prayers. ↑ |
| Name: jill | Date: Jan 1st, 2009 6:41 AM |
| Are you doing anything differently with the things you do and the places you go to compared to what you used to do together before you split or have you just slid back into the comfortable rut? ↑ |
| Name: kc | Date: Feb 5th, 2009 9:31 PM |
| my wife of 4 1/2 yrs just left to stay with a friend,we have not been communicating very good last year or so,she says she still loves me and I want to fix our marriage,its not another man,its compatability, she says she needs her space and I am granting that wish, ↑ |
| Name: talha | Date: Mar 1st, 2009 2:17 PM |
| wow ↑ |
| Name: mike | Date: Jun 29th, 2009 4:56 AM |
| hey can i ask how would you describe your level of happiness right now...? I'm in avery similar situation and just wondering how you feel now.. ↑ |
| Name: mv | Date: Jul 24th, 2009 9:15 AM |
| With God in the center, He can heal your marriage. I am broken right now b/c my husband of 23 years has moved out - we have overcome so much together, including his alcoholism. It hurts so much to not have him here - the pain is so great that I don't know how I can function. I told him I am so willing to work on us, but he says he is afraid and God is telling him to let me go. It has been about a month and I am not feeling any peace about his decision. I want our marriage back. ↑ |
| Name: depressed | Date: Oct 3rd, 2009 9:14 AM |
| I have just asked my husband to move out. He has been unfaithful to me 5 times and I can not cope anymore. Only one of these times was a sexual relationship the other 4 were emotional and close contact. I am very depressed as we have 4 young children who will be affected by our separation. But my husband now makes me sad all the time even though he is trying so hard to make me happy and shows how much he loves me. I know he regrets what he did. I just can't cope anymore. It hurts too much and the last one was over a 18 months ago. Is there anyone there in the same boat? ↑ |
| Name: raj5470 | Date: Oct 18th, 2009 6:43 PM |
| hi ↑ |
| Name: breda | Date: Feb 6th, 2011 10:48 PM |
| hope ye make it, keep sober, the old addiction thing is marraige sucide. ↑ |
| Name: John | Date: Sep 8th, 2013 11:34 AM |
| My wifekicked out me out about two weeks ago, i looked for something wrong with her when i was the problem, now her mind is apperently made up 100%, she is really happy apperently which i cant believe its only been a few weeks and we have two kids together and were married two years, i could really use some advice on how to get her back. ↑ |
| Name: Lynnita088 | Date: Oct 31st, 2013 12:26 AM |
| my husband left me 4 months ago and move to another state leaving me 2000 miles apart from him . I have tried everything possible i am very sad and hurt suddenly he started to hated me it seems one sec he love me the next he hate me when ever we connect he gets really angry for no reason and in a big rush and can’t breath around me and as soon as were apart he is fine he says i am very hot and it makes him uncomfortable to hold me all i know is i sleep sleep sleep when were together cant seem to wake up when he is away i am awake something is wrong.But just some few weeks ago, someone introduce me to this spell caster on [email protected] and the spell caster did a reunify spell for me, just as i am writing now, if my husband don't see me in a second he would rather do everything to meet me. I really want to thank the spell caster for his great works spell. i owe him.you can met with him on [email protected] . Divorce doesn’t just affect you and your spouse, it affects all those around you, including your children. When you are having issues in your relationship and thinking about filing for divorce, it can be an extremely confusing time for children. Seeing instability in what was always known as a safe, stable environment for children can be very frightening. While it is very important for you and your spouse to do everything in your power to work through the issues you are having, remember to keep an open dialog with your children as well as to reassure them that they did nothing wrong and, no matter what, that they will be safe and loved. Children are much more perceptive than we give them credit for, and can easily pick up on any tension you and your spouse may be having in the home. While during this time it is critical to open the lines of communication between you and your spouse, it is even more essential to do so between you and your children. If you decide to seek outside help, ask your children if they would like to talk to someone to help them through the tough time. Stability is a very large part of a healthy child’s life, and when you are having issues in the home, this can be the biggest thing that is interrupted. You may be tempted not to come home or to leave the house after an argument, but in a child’s eyes this could be considered abandonment and not a part of the norm. When the status quo is shaken up in a child’s life, it could lead to behavioural issues and problems in school. Even if you and your spouse are having issues, retaining the “normal” lifestyle that you are used to as a family will go a long way to keeping your children feeling safe and stable. If you feel that divorce is your only option, please reconsider getting some true help to do everything you can to open the lines of communication and get back on the right track with your marriage. If you don’t want to do it for yourself, at least do it for your children. The normalcy and stability it will bring to their lives is worth it. "NEVER LEAVE YOUR MARRIAGE,STAY AND FINDS A LASTING SOLUTION" CONTACT PROPHET OSAZE VIA :[email protected] ↑ |
