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hi my name is laura...and i used to live in carthage, missouri..my brother had a bestfriend named Andrew...and i had a little crush on his since i was 8...and then last year i found out that he liked me and then we spent time together and i fell in love with him..he said he fell for me too..in the summer i spent the night at his house...my mom said cause my brother was..( my mom didn't know) and when my brother when to bed at 5 in the mornin he woke me up and we sat there cuddlin..and we were laying there and he kissed me ....i know a kiss isn;t nothin....but when u know he is the one it feels right...and wow its great..and now..he e-mails me a little cause i moved to kansas...and he has a gf down there and i love him so much...he is 16 and i am only 13..and he has a gf now..and i can't move on..he tells me i will always be his babygurl.....can u help me... Should i move on or fight or him? ↓
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| Name: To Laura | Date: Feb 15th, 2006 10:43 PM |
| This is easy to reply to........ Enjoy being 13! This guy doesn't know what love is. He is already dating another girl. Just enjoy being young! 13 is a bit young! Believe me you have a whole lot of time to worry about loving someone! You don't want to have to deal with these issues at such a young age! ↑ |
| Name: Laura the one in the story | Date: Feb 15th, 2006 10:46 PM |
well we never dated cause of my brother...and i really do love him....and i need help!!!!
--Laura ↑ |
| Name: To Laura | Date: Feb 15th, 2006 10:48 PM |
| Well all you can do is love him. Ya'll live far from each other and you can't drive. Maybe later in life when your older you'll meet up again. Just LIVE LIFE hun! ↑ |
| Name: Laura the one in the story | Date: Feb 15th, 2006 10:53 PM |
hey well i go to carthage all the time cause my step dads family lives there...and i get to see him this weekend,,
--Laura ↑ |
| Name: * | Date: Feb 15th, 2006 11:00 PM |
| are you pregnant? i am sick of all the people on here who are not pregnant or TTC, get off the baby crowd, go outside and play with your dolls ↑ |
| Name: Laura the one in the story | Date: Feb 15th, 2006 11:01 PM |
no i am not pregnant but i was hopin for u guys to help me out and by the way dolls are gay...i blow thier heads off and i skateboard not play with freakin dolls
-laura ↑ |
| Name: Laura the one in the story | Date: Feb 15th, 2006 11:04 PM |
| I kinda wish i was pregnant...to have a baby to hold and oo it would be so great .. ↑ |
| Name: * | Date: Feb 15th, 2006 11:10 PM |
| Yeah getting up to feed a baby 3-5 times a night and changing diapers and rocking a screaming colickly baby for hours on end is heaven, not to mention teething, sickness and the fact the diapers and formula cost about a $100 a week plus child care is like $125 a week, are you crazy? You are way too young to be thinking about babies ↑ |
| Name: Laura the one in the story | Date: Feb 15th, 2006 11:13 PM |
yeah i know i just want to feel loved...god my freakin stepdad is makin me get off and i am freakin crying GOSh i want andrew right now.
-Laura ↑ |
| Name: ! | Date: Feb 15th, 2006 11:58 PM |
| Laura your to young to be thinking about babies. There not easy and you have to begin to love your self before you love . If you feel that your not loved right now and you have a baby everyone will give you dirty looks and no boyfriends because you will be occupied with the baby. You need to read the stories on the board. Where are your parents I don't understand how they let teenagers use the computer unsupervised. Its no wonder todays age are pregaant. ↑ |
| Name: nora | Date: Feb 16th, 2006 3:40 AM |
| 13 and wants a baby? lol you sound like a stupid little girl that needs to stay off the internet and stop worrying about boys.. the only relationship you should be having is with your education... worry about your schooling, grow up... go to college, then worry about andrew..its obvious he's got someone else in his life and has no more time for you except to send you a email... so y ou need to move on sweetie.. it's not worth ruining your life over boys. ↑ |
| Name: preggy with #2!!! | Date: Feb 16th, 2006 1:10 PM |
To : *
I think I agree with you yeah no young girl will want to put up with all of that , you didn't mention the diapers tend to start to smell really bad leak up the hole entire back and down the legs of the pants and the fact that it is lime green you didn't feed him any of that sort of color and when they get about 6 7 or 8 months well I will give her more time 8 or 9 the baby realizes how to take that diaper off and smears all of that on his crib and the wall and each individual bar is now covered in it not to mention the hole entire baby is coverd too. The girls don't realize all of that they just know all the cute little new borns that are so clean and well not even 10 min after that bath they smell likle baby spit up again because they decided to do that right after their bath or poop every were. And they also get older and toddlers are worse... hey girls out there that think it is easy take a 1 or 2 year old tell the parents like a brother or sister or niece or something and keep them for a week strait. Night and Day with no help, the end of that week you will be like can I give it back I just want sleep they will say noooooaaa its not the week end yet! ↑ |
| Name: to Laura | Date: Feb 16th, 2006 1:45 PM |
| Definately move on. You are way too young to be worrying about boys right now. Theres plenty of time for that when you are older. ↑ |
| Name: Alexa | Date: Feb 17th, 2006 3:08 AM |
LKaura hun, you can love him, why not but live life and enjoy being 13, and 14 and 15 and so on, you have plenty time to be in love but you only have once in a life time to be young, free and have fun,
my neice was in love with my brother inlaw from age 8 up to 18 and vice verca, they started going out afew weeks ago and found that they werent right for eachother after all that,
Go to school get good grades, hang out with your friends, go to movies, travel when your in your late teens, no responsibilities, no stress nothing,please dont even think about having a baby,they are fun to look at and hold, but once you have them, they are very hard work, and you cant return them either!
you can still email eachother thats fine, and maybe when you are older and your both still available give it a go then.
if you want to email me you can [email protected]
take care hun and God bless xx ↑ |
| Name: Laura the one in the story | Date: Feb 20th, 2006 5:04 PM |
hey well there is nothin good about my life...i know i can't have ababy....way to much pressure...like i know i could do and me and my mom have talked and stuff and she thinks i could do it....but i know i'm going to wait til i am about 23 to 24 and married....sometimes i think i am a 20 year old stuck in a 16 year old body...cause i don't look 13...u have to believe me i don't ...i wear a size 34C...so i don't look 13..lol....well andrew has been e-mailin me and we have been talkin on the phone and he still loves me and i still love him..i know some how i can't change that...and he told me as soon as he gets his car he is going to drive up here and we can spend time together .......
leave one
--Laura ↑ |
| Name: to laura | Date: Feb 20th, 2006 5:18 PM |
| well i thot u were bad enuff saying u could cope wif a baby but ur mum as well, wat kind of parents do u have u need da wise up wee girl ↑ |
| Name: Laura the one in the story | Date: Feb 20th, 2006 5:20 PM |
no i am just sayin....i know i am not going to have sex and stuff i am not that kind of gurl...u guys might think i am crazy...i kinda want a baby..but then i know i would go crazy...i just want to get the heck away from my stepdad....and when i am with andrew i feel safe..
--laura ↑ |
| Name: justine | Date: Feb 20th, 2006 5:29 PM |
| hey laura im 16 and all guy have done for me is hurt me and now i have to raise a child that i didnt make on my own b/c he lied about his age. he told me he was 17 but it turns out hes 25 and has a little girl and is married!!!!!!! i thought i was ready and i wanted a baby and i was in love but i guess i was wrong. andrew sounds like a good guy but im just telling you to be careful b/c even the ones you love hurt you the most but if ever you need advice im here ↑ |
| Name: laura | Date: Feb 25th, 2006 4:53 PM |
well this is a update....andrew and i are talkin like he is here with me....he calls, writes letter, and e-mails. and he is as great as he sounds and i know he won't hurt me...and i am going to see him next weekend and i am spending the night there with him...and no i'm not that kid of gurl and me and him have talked about sex and we wouldn't til we got married or somethin like that...and he told me if i ever got pregnant ..he would be there...and then we had this wierd talk and he wanted to name the baby andrew JR....i laughed really hard and say no way....it was funny...
leave one and i wil respond
--Laura ↑ |
| Name: Jasmine M. | Date: Feb 25th, 2006 6:34 PM |
| I know what it's like to be in love with your brothers best friend. My boyfriend Ryan is 20 and he and my brother used to be best friends for a while I didnt feel it would be right for me to go out with him because of my brother but then I realized it didnt really matter. When your in love with someone you can't change that. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 years now and him and my brother dont even talk anymore. I'm glad I did what I did but it dosent always turn out that way. Ryan and I now have a 9 month old daughter and couldnt be happier. I hope you make the right choice ↑ |
| Name: Knowing he's the one | Date: Feb 25th, 2006 6:39 PM |
| Laura, this is a joke, right??? At 13 there is no such thing as "knowing he's the one". Please focus on your books instead of boys. Please? ↑ |
| Name: Laura the one in the story | Date: Feb 26th, 2006 10:16 PM |
this isn't a joke...thank u jamine... i wanna stay with him and he calls me and i know he cares
--laura ↑ |
| Name: amy | Date: Feb 26th, 2006 10:47 PM |
| jasmine how could u be wif ur boyfriend for almost 6 years if u are only 16 please tell me u werent goin out wif boys at the age of 10 my first boyfriend was when i was 13 and even then we only held hands didnt even kiss!!! ↑ |
| Name: nora | Date: Feb 27th, 2006 2:12 AM |
laura.. andrew may say he will stick with ya if you ever get pregnant, but actions speak louder than words.. You way too much to worry about now other than Andrew.. What you need to worry about is getting a good education, and go to college. That's the MOST important thing that you should be concentrating in your life.. in 5 years you're going to be graduating from high school, and I will tell you that you can't get a decent job without a college degree and be able to support yourself..
Stop worrying about andrew and start worrying about yourself..you really need to move on and stick with your decision..For the love of buddah.. You're only 13 years old and STILL IN MIDDLE SCHOOL. You're not 20 stuck in a 16 or 13 year old body.. because you're not proving it to anyone here.. and from the sounds of it, your mom must have had you at a very young age, hence why she thinks you could take care of a baby.. HAHAHAHA!! now that's a real knee slapper.
Besides you need to use your head... If he's got a gf now and is still talking to you and is gonna be comming to visit you.. who's to say he's not gonna be talking to another girl saying the same crap to her, when he's with you??? he's more or less cheating on his current girlfriend... Is that someone you wanna be with, knowing he cheating and probably lying to his girlfriend?? If you do.. then you are gonna be in a world of hurt lil girl ↑ |
| Name: Laura the one in the story | Date: Mar 1st, 2006 2:13 AM |
WAT... my momma is 42....and i have As and Bs..so i am doing fine ...and i am going ot see andrew friday...YAY
-laura ↑ |
| Name: antonia | Date: Mar 1st, 2006 4:01 AM |
If your mother is 42, then I highly doubt she'd think that you would be able to take care of a baby BY YOURSELF. Who's going to pay for everything? Your mother?
As someone else said here. You really are a stupid girl. ↑ |
| Name: Chris | Date: Mar 1st, 2006 6:07 AM |
| Laura, it's okay to have strong feelings for someone just don't rush it. You are so young and have so many things to do before you start a family. Once you have kids, you need to put their needs before your own and you need to be able to provide for them. The best thing to do is allow yourself to get a good education and be financially stable. Plus, having a baby can be hard on your body when you are so young, not to mention the great stretch marks, especially if you are a small person. Enjoy your youth freedom and body and wait on the baby for a few years. ↑ |
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