| I'm sorry about your loss, but I think it's definately normal to hold a memorial for someone you loved, whether people got to meet her or not. ↑ |
http://www.october15th.com/
This is an international remembrance days to those who have lost a baby to miscarriage, lost a newborn, or stillbirth. I lost my baby at 11 weeks on August 4th 2006. We lit a candle for our baby last Oct 15th and plan on doing it again this year as well. We had also planted a special garden and found the most precious cross placed in front of the garden. Unfortunately, we had to sell our home and moved to the UK, but we did bring the cross. We were at the beach in Wales in Aug and found a piece of drift wood in the shap of a cross, it truly touched my heart.
I'm so sorry for your loss and pray that you only grow in the Lord's stregnth. I feel I'm ok now but still struggle at times. Especially when there are times that make you think you should have a baby in your arms.
We all greive in our own way and it's completely up to you how you wish to honor your baby.
God bless ↑ |
| i still cry every year on what would've been my baby's b-day, so it's normal ↑ |
| i still cry every year on what would've been my baby's b-day, a lot of people i know do ↑ |
| in a way i think it would be perfectly normal but in another way its kind of a reminder and not a good one. ↑ |
