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I'm a Christian. I do not believe in birth controle pills for me. Condoms, yes. PIlls, no. I don't think it feels natural to take the pill. I also don't think it is right for me to say NO to God. If He wants me to be with child than it is His will. My mother, psychologist, and gynochologyst tell me that I NEED the pill. Yes, I'm 21, in college, and have a VERy commited boyfriend, but we use condoms. And I don't want to come between God and my future in Heaven. Am I wrong for saying NO to the pill and using other forms of birth controle?? My mom, gyno, and psychologist are all three women I trust with my life. ↓
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| Name: Chris | Date: Dec 6th, 2005 6:41 AM |
| Katalina, no I think that you have to follow your heart on this one. (I'm a Christian as well, but I do take the pill.) I think you need to make sure that you can handle whatever comes your way, but if you are already using birth control, you shouldn't worry too much. Is it the idea of taking a pill, the hormones, or the idea that bothers you, because all forms of birth control are going to prevent a pregnancy. Anyway you look at it, you are being careful and you need to feel comfortable, so don't take the pill if you don't feel right about it. ↑ |
| Name: LILY | Date: Dec 6th, 2005 7:45 AM |
| if you are so worried about God and your future in heaven, shouldnt your focus be on the fact that you are having pre marital sex and not whether you take the pill? i had sex before marriage so i am not judging you for that, i just think its weird that taking the pill is such and issue when you have no problem sinning against God. i know in the bible it says not to have sex before marriage but nowhere does it say dont take the pill. just a little curious about your reasoning ↑ |
| Name: michelle | Date: Dec 6th, 2005 2:27 PM |
| do what you want but I agree with Lily. Isnt using condoms doing the same thing blocking his will its b/c but at least your protecting yourself from stds cuz the pill doesnt do that ↑ |
| Name: to Lily and Michelle | Date: Dec 7th, 2005 7:50 PM |
| One, God has forgiven me for having premarital sex. Lily, you are NOT GOD!! You have no right to judge me. Also, when the Bible was writen, the pill didn't exist. I am monogomist with my partner, which is better than sleeping around. You said you wen't a virgin either, perhaps you need to judge yourself. Keep your negativity to yourself. Jesus wouldn't judge me, and if you were a TRUE Christian, you would do what Jesus does. ↑ |
| Name: Denise | Date: Dec 7th, 2005 8:10 PM |
| God doesn't forgive you if you continue to have sex, you have to repent and change your ways not say it's okay for me to have sex because God will forgive me. Thats wrong. And you are wrong maybe you need to brush up on the bible because God will judge you, it's called judgement day. But to answer you question I am 22, married and have only ever been with my husband (same with him). I do believe the pill is wrong because BCP work by preventing pregnancy and implantation, meaning if you do conceive BCp make your uterus inhospitable to the egg, therefore destroying it. Scientist agree that people on BCP will conceive about once a year but the egg cannot attach. I personally have an issue wih that but you have to do what you feel is best. ↑ |
| Name: micelle | Date: Dec 7th, 2005 8:11 PM |
| Katalina- i said do what you want you said using birth control is against god i said do what you want but i agree with lilly that so is premarital sex. Sorry if i affended you that was not my intention. Im not putting you down and ive been with my husband for 10 years i had sex before that. I also dont think youll go to hell for using the pill do what you want like i said i dont know why you think i was being rude i gave you my oppinion thats what this site is for i didnt put you down and if you took it that way sorry dont be so angry my goodness. ↑ |
| Name: to Katillina | Date: Dec 7th, 2005 8:18 PM |
| the post says am i wrong people give u their opinion and u dont like it. dont ask the question next time if you dont want people to answer you said spacifically am i wrong. I think yes you are ↑ |
| Name: to michelle | Date: Dec 7th, 2005 8:26 PM |
| sorry, michelle. I thought you were downing me. I know now that you weren't. Thanks for your insight. I just thought that there would be more women who didn't like the pill but I guess, again , I was wrong. Im not trying to make enemys on this forum. I was just taken aback by Lily's comment. My ? has nothing to do with premarital sex and God judgeing me. It had to do with me not feeling comfortable with the pill. Sorry for bring up my faith , I know never to do that again. I'll be more clear next time when asking a question. ↑ |
| Name: Fawnia | Date: Dec 7th, 2005 8:37 PM |
| Katalina, you have every right to believe what you want to. I'm Catholic and I feel the same way you do. Don't mind these other people's negative comments. I'm in the same boat. I guess people don't understand you and I. Don't listen to them . If you, and I'm going to get biblical here, believe in Christ, no matter what happens, Jesus loves you and HE will provide. Looks like some of these women need to speak to Christ through their hearts an not JUST the Bible. Remeber, Jesus love you and that is all that matters. I support you 100% ↑ |
| Name: fawnia | Date: Dec 7th, 2005 8:49 PM |
fawnia are you katalina to and sticking up for your self. you supprt her when her baby comes ok. you go girl. Shouldnt she consider what her mom, gyno and therapist advise her since she only trust those 3 women in her life maybe with age comes maturity and they know more than her.
Katalina does your boy think you use that as an excuse just to get preggo cuz thats what it sound like ↑ |
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