| Name: ANGELA_N | Date: Feb 13th, 2006 7:42 PM |
| DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO! IF HE IS TALKING TO YOU LIKE THAT DO YOU REALLY WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM, BESIDES HE COULD UP AND LEAVE YOU EVEN IF YOU HAVE THE ABORTION AND THEN YOU WILL HAVE TO LIVE WITH THE REGRET, IF YOU KEEP THE BABY IT WILL BE SOMETHING GOOD THAT HAS CAME OUT OF A BAD SITUATION. ↑ |
| Name: Ashlie | Date: Feb 13th, 2006 8:04 PM |
| You know if you want the baby and he doesn't then you should tell him that you wouldn't want him to be a part of your babys life. I mean if he is gonna act like that then you are better off without. ↑ |
| Name: ANGELA_N | Date: Feb 13th, 2006 8:19 PM |
| Name: Julia | Date: Feb 13th, 2006 8:36 PM |
| Definitely do not have an abortion. It's so easy for the guy to suggest abortion -- it's not his body or mind that will be going through the trauma. I PROMISE you, you will live with guilt for the rest of your life. If your "boyfriend" doesn't want to parent right now I can understand that, but there are other ways to deal with the situation and no one needs to die. Let him know that you are not going to have an abortion if he runs, well better now then when your child has grown attached to him too. I did a research paper on women who abort when I was in grad school and out of 50 women there were two who said it didn't haunt them that they had had an abortion, the other two claimed giving birth to the child would have been psycologically damaging due to the fact that one was date raped and the other was raped by a stranger. I also watched an abortion being performed and it truly changed my opinion on the subject ( I had the opinion that it's the woman's body so let her do what she wants) entirely -- No questions about it -- it's a baby no matter how far along you are. You will never know this child's potential if you abort, but if you give this child a chance at life the possibitlies are limitless. All the best to you and your unborn baby. ↑ |
| Name: jenn | Date: Feb 13th, 2006 8:40 PM |
well the father of my baby told me he wanted nothing more than to have a baby with me.... over and over... until i gave in and gave him a chance cause he was such a nice guy...has money, his own company, etc... kept telling me he wanted a family... well... i got pregnant, and guess what, he said i had better have an abortiton, he didnt want kids! i felt so confused and hurt, i have moved back in with my parents, far far away from him.
last night i tried to call him, and he just pretended like the signal was bad, he couldnt hear who was calling... and hung up. i tried to call back and he had turned off his phone. i hate men.
BUT... i sure am glad i didnt listen to him and have an abortion! i am so excited to be having my baby girl this may!!! ↑ |
| Name: angela | Date: Feb 14th, 2006 9:45 AM |
| hi jen, I feel for you i cant understand myself why men can do that to us, i have been with my partner for years already have agirl with him whos nine he hurted me a lot the last time i was pregnant he wasn't there for me ignored me in the street we were younger so i put it down to age. when i had my daughter we ended up getting back together, i have never forgot the way he treated us, so when he would ask me to have another child with him i was a little affraid he has been asking me for the past 4 years so i decided we would try i found out last week i was pregnant 5 weeks, when i told him he wasn't as happy as i thought he'd be. i don't understand what has happened but since last week he has been ignoring me even when i get upset and try to tell him how i feel it's as if he doesn't care he gets angry with me and talks to me as if he doesn't like me anymore. feel angry now it took me a long time to let my guard down and now it seems the same thing is happening all over again, it's emotional abuse i hate him for it. ↑ |
| Name: Jamie | Date: Feb 17th, 2006 2:32 AM |
| i have never been asked out on a date or have been asked to go out with a guy?Am i that ugly? ↑ |
| Name: jenn | Date: Feb 17th, 2006 2:42 AM |
haha jaime that cracks me up what does that have to do with anything?? heehee
anyways the father of my baby said the same thing... even made an appointment for me to have an abortion.... and abortions are illegal in costa rica so i can just IMAGINE what that would entail... i hid from him for a couple days and then left the country.... if you want your baby then dont worry about what "the father" says you can do it yourself.. its what YOU want. ↑ |
| Name: Alexa To Rain | Date: Feb 17th, 2006 2:44 AM |
| Dont Abort the baby, if anyone needs aborting its your so called Loser of a boyfriend! ↑ |
| Name: jenn | Date: Feb 20th, 2006 7:57 PM |
| Name: anna | Date: Mar 3rd, 2006 5:46 PM |
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