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Name: Giving Some Advice! [ Original Post ] You know I have seen on this sight So many teens as young as 12 getting pregnant.What is happening these days? I just don't understand What is a yound child and that is exactly What you are is a child Doing even having sex? Pregnancy is supposed to be a happy event!! People are supposed to be happy for you that you are pregnant and not upset and sad because your pregnant.You cannot even support yourself,Never mind achild.I have read some of your post and some of these young girls connot even spell right. How can you educate your child when your not even fully educated yourself and How are you going to raise achild most of these girls getting pregnant i'm sure the father of their babies don't want nothing to do with you now.Why ruin your childhood and try to act as if your an aduly because your not an adult no matter How hard you try. What are your plans drop out of school and Do What???? Your mothers did not lay down and give birth to your child So Why should they take the responsiblitlty of raising your baby finanically? Thats just not fair in their part!!!! You girls have so much to consider. School is VERY important these days and pregnancy should be the last thing on your minds. School and College should be first than once you mature enough and are finanically set and have a husbabd than you should consider pregnancy.Some of you girls think its so easy to have a baby.Let me tell you YOU ARE VERY WRONG.It takes Alot to raise a child.Its nothing like dressing them cute and stuffing abottle in their mouth. Its so much more to it. I just wish you young girls would consider before getting pregnant. Maybe doing some volunteer work at a daycare or babysitting before you consider pregnancy because once you have achild your party days are considered OVER and once you lay down and have a baby let me tell you its just you and your child all your friends that your consider friends will not be there anymore. They are going their own way and they are going to finish their childhood while you are trapped into trying to become an adult.I'm sorry if I sound harsh but its true and I just thought that you needed a taste of the real world!!! ↓

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Name: RENEE | Date: Mar 11th, 2006 5:17 PM

I think a lot of this stuff is made up. People just want attention! Why in the hell would a person start having sex at 12 years old let alone be trying to get pregnant and have a baby. I am not saying that it cannot happen. If these kids do have babies at such young ages their parents end up taking care of their children. ↑

Name: sally | Date: Mar 13th, 2006 8:40 AM

You are all so hard on teens that get pregnant. I fell pregnant at 18 and guess what me and my boyfriend now husband have bought a house both have new cars kids go to private school and i was abel to be a stay at home mum! I now work 2 days a week, during school hours of course and im doing alot better than you so called mature mums! ↑

Name: Sarah | Date: Mar 13th, 2006 9:19 AM

Well done Sally! im 17 and 9 months pregnant on my own.. i have big plans for myself. i intend to be a stay at home mum until my baby girls is ready for school. and when she is ready im going back to school myself to fulfill my dream of becoming a counsellor. i will only be 22 and thats still young. people have so little faith in teens these days.. im pregnant im taking responsibility of my child.. and im going to give up on my career ill keep trying till i get there.... ↑

Name: Sarah | Date: Mar 13th, 2006 9:21 AM

sorry i meant im "not" going to give up on my career : ) ↑

Name: sally | Date: Mar 14th, 2006 4:47 AM

To Sarah you go girl you can do anything you want to do just remember at times it will be hard but stay positive and in the end you will reap all the awards you deserve! ↑

Name: Sarah | Date: Mar 14th, 2006 5:21 AM

thanks Sally. i know its going to be very hard especially being on my own but im determine to get there.. im so sick of people looking down on teens. they have so little faith in us.. but we'll proove em all wrong oneday ↑

Name: Maya | Date: Mar 14th, 2006 10:13 AM

Hi, im 16 and just got married its been about 2 weeks of my marriage and i started getting high temperatures and tumy pains and i feel sick sometimes ..i am not using any contriception........so could i be pregnant????? please let me know yours faithfuly Maya ↑

Name: Sarah | Date: Mar 14th, 2006 10:15 AM

have you taken a test? ↑