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Hi, everyone, I really enjoy the forums on this site, and I'm wondering if anyone else out there feels like I do. I am 4-and-a-half months pregnant, due in March, and I really, REALLY want a BOY. I just can't stand little girls-they are so whiny and selfish, and seem to turn into mini Britney Spearses when they're nine. And they don't even carry on the family name! I know that this is terrible, but I will be soooo disappointed if I have a girl. Does anyone else out there feel this strongly about having the sex they prefer? ↓
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| Name: Rahnee | Date: Nov 13th, 2005 12:08 AM |
| I would love a boy...not for the reasons you said...but because I already have two girls...niether of which are any thing like Britney Spears...LMAO. I would love a son this go round...but healthy is most important to me. I would be happy with a girl too. :) ↑ |
| Name: jen | Date: Nov 13th, 2005 12:20 AM |
| well i have 2 boys and with this pregnancy we were desperatly trying for a girl and we got her. i love my two boys and my youngest is very easy but the oldest has a smart mouth, he can be rude, sarcastic and disrespectful and is constantly messing with his little brother. he also has some wonderful qualities about him, but dont just think cause you get a boy, he wont act like a selfish brat. mine does it all the time. there are a lot of really sweet, well mannered little girls out there. i think it just depends on the personality of the child we get. i hope you wont be too disappointed if you have a girl cause she will feel it from you that you didnt really want her. just be blessed to have a healthy baby. a girl i know had to go through her pregnancy knowing that her baby didnt have a brain, only a brain stem, and that she would die at birth, which she did very shortly after. ↑ |
| Name: careful_what_u_wish_for | Date: Nov 13th, 2005 12:54 PM |
| i just have to add that I have 3 boys and my fourth one was finally my little girl. My boys are such a handful all the do is wrestle and fight each other all day long. my middle child is so mouthy its crazy (and this is all when dad's not around lol) then theres my little girl.. she's even nutttier than they are.. she whines already (she's 1) she hits ,bites but at times can be the the sweetest lovable baby in the world. The boys are just very energetic, which is to be expected ,their boys, its very typical of them.. so its hard for me to say whats easier to raise. I've been told that boys are harder to raise when they are young but get easier in the teen years and heard the exact opposite about girls. good luck and I hope you have a healthy baby. ↑ |
| Name: jenni | Date: Nov 13th, 2005 2:34 PM |
| I agree with Jen, I have 3 boys - one is only 4 mo., so he is still a little angel, but my 2nd son is so hyper & crazy, he likes to drive his older brother crazy, and it seems he never calms down. My first son can have a little attitude (mostly since he started kindergarten) but he is a sweety, he holds doors for me & helps me bring in groceries (like a mini husband, LOL).....but my 2 oldest do have thier times where all they do is fight & bicker. Like Jen said, it's all about the childs personality, every child is different. I would love to have a little girl :) ↑ |
| Name: chelsie | Date: Nov 13th, 2005 2:37 PM |
| i have a 2 year old stepson so me and my husband are trying for a girl...i think girls are really cute and since we alreadt have a little boy he dosnt want another one but its ok with me cuz i have always wanted a girl. ↑ |
| Name: Gill | Date: Nov 13th, 2005 7:31 PM |
| Don't feel terrible Corrinne. I'm not actually pregnant yet, but I really want a boy for my first. Mainly because my fiancé really wants a son. And I'd feel awful if I could only give him daughters. But a girl is how you raise her. She won't be whiny and selfish if you treat her with firm and fair treatment. But I understand why you'd prefer a boy. I would too. x ↑ |
| Name: Rahnee | Date: Nov 13th, 2005 7:40 PM |
| Gill, you shouldn't feel bad if you can only give him daughters, its the males semen that choses the sex of the baby. The egg doesn't really get a say in the matter. ;) I would love a boy too...I will say it again...I have boy fever...lol but...as I said earlier, healthy is top priority, and a girl would be a blessing too. ↑ |
| Name: Gill | Date: Nov 13th, 2005 8:01 PM |
| Rahnee, yeah you're right. I know it's his sperm who actually decides the sex. But it's always the case that the women will be blamed regardless if she can't produce a son. Bit of a Henry 8th! Personally I'd love a daughter, but not as much as my fiancé wants a son. What happens happens. Gill ↑ |
| Name: Allison | Date: Nov 15th, 2005 6:50 PM |
| Yeah, me too I want a boy for my first child cuz i love little boys and then when i have a girl she'll have a big brother to protect her like mine did to me... Plus theyre so cute!!!!!!!!!1 ↑ |
| Name: heather | Date: Nov 15th, 2005 7:58 PM |
| whoa..yea. i want a boy but i love little girls also...man, that was harsh..lol..your reasons are really out there. the reason i dont want a little girl right now is because im only 18. i want to get my life straight first and finish college before i have to worry. having a little girl worried me because theres so much more that goes on with a little girl. sex is more serious, guys is a major thing, they get their period...all that kind of stuff. i mean, i love little girls and them worries wont come till later. i just prefer a boy at my age. less worries i guess. im not saying my little man is going to be easier to raise or less spoiled..lol...but i just think that its more of a dad-son connection. im going to be involed 100% but i want for my fiance also to know whats going on and what to do with a child the first time. with little girls, daddys get scared sometimes. they dont know how they like to play, how to get in the routine of "dress up" and all that other fun stuff little girls like to do. i have a little sister that is 2 and shes a little stinker. shes the cutest thing that i have ever seen and she has this great personality, so little girls arent bad, you just have to know your boundries and how to raise them, like you would with any other kid. ↑ |
| Name: abba | Date: Nov 15th, 2005 8:23 PM |
| I can't understand you. ↑ |
| Name: kareena | Date: Nov 30th, 2005 10:10 AM |
| Name: Allyson | Date: Nov 30th, 2005 6:09 PM |
| i understand how ur feeling i feel the same way but im only 2 months i want a BOY soo bad.. all the girls in my family have had girls and im kinda sick of them. yea its cute to dress them up but the do seem to whin n cry alot... i dunno maybe its just me.... but if god gave me a healty baby girl i would be ok with it. it would take me a while but i would get used to it. ↑ |
| Name: to allyson | Date: Nov 30th, 2005 6:28 PM |
| it would take u a while to get used to a baby girl???? you should just be happy that you are blessed with a healthy baby..you dont want a gilr because they are too whiney? well I got news for you..boys are very hyper active and are always on the go. A child is a product of how they are brought up.. ↑ |
| Name: Allyson | Date: Dec 1st, 2005 6:29 AM |
| to who ever replyed to what i said.... yes it would take me a while to get used to a baby girl... and about the whiney part yes it seems to me that boys want to be left alone to play and girls always want to be held it can go both ways tho. and i did say if god blessed me with a baby girl i would be happy! thanx for ur 2 cents tho! ↑ |
| Name: to allyson | Date: Dec 1st, 2005 12:30 PM |
| for your information boys dont just go off and play. thats funny. they are just as whiney at times as little girls can be. Do you want children so they can just go off and play and be ignored by you? Doesnt happen that way no matter what the sex is they are going to want your constnant attention. I have 2 girls and one boy and there is no diffference between them as far as whining goes. They all do it and they all do it well. your welcome for my 2 cents and heres a couple more. ↑ |
| Name: Allyson | Date: Dec 1st, 2005 9:41 PM |
| again what i think and feel about what sex i prefer for MY baby is none of ur buisness i but it on her to make corrinne know she wasn't alone on how she felt! i will be happy with a healty child no matter boy or girl! so lay off! ↑ |
| Name: carrie | Date: Dec 1st, 2005 10:01 PM |
| allyson, when you post it here you make it eveyones business. and you will get advice you like and some you dont. so if you dont like getting negative advice along with the positive then i suggest you dont post. ↑ |
| Name: Boys VS Girls | Date: Dec 2nd, 2005 12:45 AM |
| I have one of each right now and another boy on the way. My oldest is a boy (7) and my daughter is 5...I have to say that they both have there ups and downs!!! They really are different then each other...Look at grown ups.......Women are picky, bossy and sometimes down right mean..... wouldn't you agree...Boys (men) most of them are pretty laid back and don't stress about much. They like to play and if you are lucky you get some responsible ones! Well, I think that kids are the same way. I have always believed very STRONGLY......Kids grow up to be what YOU have taught them to be!!! If your child turns out that way--It is because you let them...They learn most of there behavor when they are little and whoever is the one raising them--- Well, that is the person who you should be looking at.... Kids are ALOT of hard work---but in the end, It will pay off! I see SO many people out there who TALK about there kids being there number 1 priority in there life--but if you really look at there lives-That sometimes isn't true. It isn't a good idea to base your opinion on someone elses child--Only because you are a different person them there parents....You would raise yours differently...Just keep that in mind....Your children learn from there parents.... ↑ |
| Name: to carrie | Date: Dec 2nd, 2005 6:06 AM |
| oh i understand that but she had no right talking to me the way she did all i di was tell how i felt just to let corinne know that she wasn't the only one felling that way. and who ever it was made me feel so bad just becuase i prefer a boy over a girl. ↑ |
| Name: nicky | Date: Dec 4th, 2005 6:33 AM |
| LOL! MIni britey spears! That funny, for this very reason I wanted a boy and he's in there! I didn't know what evrything else was on the screen but when I saw a wener in there I knew then it was a boy! girl just know you that if you do have a girl, you can make sure she's not spoiled, it's all in how you raise them =) you'll be fine either way =) ↑ |
| Name: AMY | Date: Dec 8th, 2005 9:15 PM |
| IM LOOKING FOR 14 OR 15 YEARS OLD BOY TO TALK TO SO GO ON MY NAME IS AMY ↑ |
| Name: michelle | Date: Dec 8th, 2005 9:30 PM |
| Name: michelle | Date: Dec 8th, 2005 9:34 PM |
| its one thing to have a preference. Its another to say if its a girl it will take a while you shouldnt of gotten preggo if you feel so strongly against girls. Hopefully she doesnt think like you after shes born. good thing your a whiney girl hu. You are rediculous. i hope you have healthy baby who cares about sex its ok to want one or the other but to be so against having a girl makes me sick. you are to immiture to have kids its how you bring up your kid how they will act not there sex corrine ↑ |
| Name: Anita | Date: Dec 12th, 2005 2:48 AM |
| I tried reading all the responses, got halfway thru and decided, I'd just let you in on mine. I have two little girls and am 4 months pregnant too. I want another little girl so badly. They are SO awesome! Im actually kinda scared to have a little boy, the energy and all, you know. But, dont get me wrong I'll be in heaven either way. With a girl you have a the closest friend of your life when they grow up. They can share your interests, jewlery, hair, clothes, sports, whatever. You dont have to worry about them seeing you naked when they grow up! Boys, Im sure, are wonderful, my experience just doesnt lie there. Good luck! ↑ |
| Name: to michelle | Date: Dec 13th, 2005 8:20 PM |
| are you the same michelle who has posted int he just for chelsie, wendi and stephanie thread? ↑ |
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