I am 26 weeks pregnant and have been with the father of my soon to be baby for just over a year now (we are both 23). He's an amazing guy and we have a great relationship, but it seems he wants to have sex all the time... and I dont. The truth is, I never really seem to be in the mood for sex and he's always talking about it, or trying to hint towards it.
I know he loves me, but I dont know what to do to! Sometimes he just gets wierd if we dont have sex. Its not like we ever don't ever have sex, we have it once or twice a week. Sometimes more or sometimes less. Is there anything I can do to get myself in the mood? Or is there something he can do for me to get me more interested? HORMONES SUCK! what could I do for him if I dont want to have sex?
I just dont want to make him feel like I dont care about him and his needs. Sex has just become so uncomfortable sometimes.. it could be the best one we've ever had, or the most off.. HELP! lol.. ↓
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| Name: jenn | Date: Feb 23rd, 2006 5:19 AM |
| god i wish i had a guy wanting sex all the time woo hoo! ↑ |
| Name: Sabrina | Date: Feb 23rd, 2006 12:53 PM |
Hey me and my hubby have sex all the time (lol)
I am pregnant now (only 6 weeks)! When I was pregnant with my son in the beginin I wanted it ALL the time but middle naaa Toward the end I wanted it ALL the time again, But by the verry end I hated it I couldn't even get comforable and had to figure out how to do it around a bug protruding object called a preggyd tummy (LOL) I realized that men want to have sex with women more when they are preggy because 1 boobs are bigger
2 we are "glowing" and they say that is pretty
3 (not to be perverted or make any one mad
I heard from abunch of guys it is the uhummmmm that yeah down there where that baby comes out,,, )LOL( yeah they say it gets thicker and they like the way it looks and feels better
(uhh okay)
why would some guys having a conversation with a young preggy girl just comes out and say it ( I was told this at my college is probly why my friend there is a Guy he was standing there and was talking to me and they all just started that conversation among them why BECAUSE THEY ARE GUYS, but yeah that is why they all said (like 4 or 5 guys) said that they like the boobs and uhhh well the 3rd one, and that is what makes them attracted to pregos like us. My hubby he is what they call "Ass and Legs" man that is what he looks at and he just tells me that he likes it because my legs are thicker, and my butt got bigger too, lol but, I am supprise we don't multiply like bunnys already preggy or not so I don't really see much of a difference with him, but he just told me he likes that when I am a prego! Sorry kinna veerd off the subject but kinna stayd on it,
just saying what other guys said why they like it to give you a better idea on guys! ↑ |
| Name: Irene | Date: Feb 24th, 2006 2:28 PM |
| to wendy, hon enjoy it while your stomach isant that big yet hon, just enjoy it and make the most of it lol..... ↑ |
| Name: nora | Date: Feb 24th, 2006 2:40 PM |
well wendy.. it sounds like your hunny thinks you're ultra hot now and wants you bad.. which isnt always a bad thing..
try doing something YOU like... something you know that will get you all worked up... im the same way too (and im only 19 wks) and i think my fiancee is starting to get frustrated with me.. but I do give in every now and then and "surprise" him... and it actually gets him to stop bugging me and whatnot. ↑ |
| Name: mary | Date: Feb 24th, 2006 3:01 PM |
| Name: nora | Date: Feb 25th, 2006 12:00 PM |
well wendy, maybe you should dump him, tell him you dont want it so much and if he doesnt listen just dump him, hes got to learn to respect you, and if he doesnt, well its obvious he doesnt care for you,
he sounds like hes a user! ↑ |
| Name: terri | Date: Feb 26th, 2006 6:38 AM |
| LOL Thats the story of my life! I try to look on the bright side though at least he still finds me attractive! ↑ |
| Name: Josette Camacho - Trinidad | Date: Feb 26th, 2006 2:42 PM |
Wendy, Wendy, Wendy!
That's men all the time. Always wants a piece of it whenever they feel like it. Anyway, he does love you but he must understand that pregnant women are moody. My husband has that problem with me, sometime I want him around and sometimes I don't. But he understands because I warned him from the beginning that there may be some changes in our lives the same way my body is changing to accept this child. So hold on dear, and have a little chat with him and we all hope that he will be as understanding as my husband.
Keep me posted, lol. ↑ |
| Name: to the fake nora | Date: Feb 27th, 2006 2:23 AM |
nora • Date: 02/25/2006 07:00:05
well wendy, maybe you should dump him, tell him you dont want it so much and if he doesnt listen just dump him, hes got to learn to respect you, and if he doesnt, well its obvious he doesnt care for you,
he sounds like hes a user!
]]either you're another nora on these boards or is trying to pose as me.. ~nora d. ↑ |
| Name: nora | Date: Feb 27th, 2006 3:25 AM |
to wendy, hope you took my advice,
tell him if he continues to hassel you about sex so much that he'll need to get a blow up doll,
i mean you cant be his beck and call now can you,
i know hormones do suck, but us girls we just need to be appreciated and treated with respect, just want to be held, we dont always want sex, whatever hppened to a nice cuddle,
i do want it atleast 4 times a week but it gets abit too much after taht, wouldnt you agree, how many times a week do you two do it?
HOW MANY TIMES DO ALL OF YOU HAVE SEX WITH YOUR PARTNERS!!!
HERS YOUR CHANCE, IM REALLY INTERESTED TO SEE IF EVERYONE IS AS ACTIVE AS WENDY AND MYSELF.. ↑ |
| Name: to the fake nora... again | Date: Feb 27th, 2006 4:45 AM |
| how about posting under your own name instead of posing as me... its starting to get old... ↑ |
| Name: nora | Date: Feb 28th, 2006 7:21 AM |
| how about posting under your name instead of posting as me...its getting old... ↑ |
| Name: Anne-Marie | Date: Feb 28th, 2006 7:27 AM |
| Name: Anne-Marie | Date: Feb 28th, 2006 7:27 AM |
| To the REAL Nora, meet me... you know where ;) ↑ |
| Name: nora | Date: Feb 28th, 2006 7:35 AM |
| Name: Anne-Marie | Date: Feb 28th, 2006 7:38 AM |
| Hey come and chat to me ↑ |
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