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| Name: Sabrina | Date: Feb 27th, 2006 1:15 PM |
| Sorry this is long! ↑ |
| Name: heather | Date: Feb 27th, 2006 8:34 PM |
| I wouldn't let him get near me and I would tell the school director or someone that can handle him. Tell them that you are married and have children and don't want anything bad to happen in your relationship just b/c this boy can't seem to keep his hands off of you!! but don't put it like that!LO! This guy in school is really bothering me and I told him to stop and he won't and I don't know what else to do so that is why I am coming to you. That is how you should put it. ↑ |
| Name: Tameka | Date: Feb 28th, 2006 3:52 AM |
| preggy! u think he might try to hurt u if he "wants" u so bad? Because wut i read seems a little shaky...because those arent good signs....tell ur hubby to try n handle that, and yea like heather tell someone before it gets too serious with him because one night he might try and do something stupid to hurt u. (u know) and ur my preggy with #2 and I dun want noone to hurt ya :)...By the way hows the little one in the belly??? Mine is fine. :) ↑ |
| Name: Christina | Date: Feb 28th, 2006 4:32 AM |
| To me it sounds like you're not doing enough to get the point across. If you respect your relationship with your husband then I would tell this guy that if he doesn't respect the fact that you're married and happy then you can't be his friend. Period. You can't compromise with this guy. He's pushy and I know the type! Make him go away or it's gonna cause you trouble. And for heaven sakes, why would you even give him a kiss on the cheek, God I saw that coming! Tell me how it goes and good luck! Do the right thing Preggy! ↑ |
| Name: nora | Date: Feb 28th, 2006 5:15 AM |
| sabrina.. that's sexual harrassement!!! he forced himself on you and kissed you... go report every incident to the police pronto... and also tell your hubby about the situation and have him go to the police with you... It may seem annoying now, but you dont want to take chances and have this guy ends up sexually assulting you... please please please report this to the police, chicka.. ↑ |
| Name: Sarah | Date: Feb 28th, 2006 6:12 AM |
| Why do you even talk to him? This guy is kissing you, a married woman, when you keep telling him not to?? ?? What does your hubby think about you trying to keep in friendly contact with a man who wants you to violate your marriage vows? Consider this action, is it really respectful to your hubby or your marriage? Sometimes we women, in trying not to hurt someone else's feelings, put ourselves in danger of hurting ourselves and the people close to us. This guy may appear nice on some surfaces, but he is sure treating you like a potential stalker! I would avoid him at all costs. Remember a lot of people are surprised when someone they know well turns out to be proven beyond a doubt that they are a stalker. Stalkers at first seem nice, but can wreck havoc in your life. This is what I had to do with a guy that wouldn't leave me alone. I told him that he was not to talk to me or come near me, if he did I would file a restraining order on him. He knew I was serious because he knew I worked for the Sheriff's Office, so he left me alone. Well it was a good thing too that I told him that because a few months later I filed his mug shot, he was arrested for 5th degree criminal sexual conduct because he kept patting a waitress on her butt. Anyways, that's my advice to you. First get information from your local civil court system to find out what is required for a restraining order. Most if not all county's just require a small fee (like $25) to file the papers. (In my county showing justifiable reasons for feeling threatened is all that is required, with what you just described would be enough for you to file in my county.) Then armed with this knowledge tell him to leave you alone. Make it clear, and ahead of witnesses. And state succinctly that if he does not you will file papers for a restraining order, that you have already checked into what is needed. He will probably laugh and say you wouldn't do that. This is where you very calmly say that you don't care if he believes you are not, because either way the end result will be that he will leave you alone, either willingly or forced by law, and that you don't care how it gets done, just that you have had enough and that it WILL be done. "You WILL leave me alone. You will either do it by your own choice, or be forced to by the law. Either way, you WILL, and that is the only thing I care about. How you choose to have it done is up to you. I would rather not file the papers because it is an inconvenience to me, but I am completely prepared to do so because it is a greater inconvenience to have you not leave me alone! So it's not a matter of whether I will file or not, it's a matter of whether I have to or not, and that is entirely your choice. Don't talk to me again. I won't tell you again." Then walk away and if he comes up to you, ignore him and file the papers the next opportunity. You may have some concern of what others will think of you if you do this, but I wouldn't. If they are really your friends, they will respect you for having enough self-respect and respect for your marriage to do this. And if they don't respect you for having self-respect, or respect for your marriage, they are not worthy of being called your friends. If you are able to do this in your county, I strongly recommend that you do not hesitate to do so! Just my 2 cents. ↑ |
