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is anyone in hear pregant with your 4th just wondering i have 3 and want one more but my husband says no so i was wondering have i could talk him in to it thanks ↓
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| Name: nicole miller | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 10:52 PM |
| We're going to be trying for #4 shortly (2-3 months). We're actually intending one more after that as well. I don't think it's too many as long as your hubby is making the money and you've got the energy... what harm could another do? ↑ |
| Name: missheather | Date: Feb 27th, 2007 1:12 AM |
| We're pregnant with our first so we've got a long way to go, but four is what I want. My hubby says he'd be willing to have more (but I wonder if he realizes how much work it is). Maybe he has a good reason for saying no or maybe just give him some time to think about it. ↑ |
| Name: lil_dancer77 | Date: Feb 27th, 2007 2:11 AM |
| didn't you just have a baby Nicole? Aren't you mean't to give your body a good length of time before you try again? Just wondering, as thats what i heard? ↑ |
| Name: lana_81 | Date: Feb 27th, 2007 3:30 AM |
| my baby son Couper is 3 wks old and we have Connor(4) Kirralee(2 and a half) and Taylah (14 months).. Iam a very busy woman!! I told hubby I wanted to wait till Couper was 2 and try again and he flipped out.. my family would too! they think 4 is plenty! I just love my kids!! Its hard with them close in age though.. ↑ |
| Name: missmara | Date: Feb 27th, 2007 3:37 AM |
| We're planning on having four. We're currently pregnant with #2. Our first is 9 months old, so they will be 13 months apart. We're going to wait 2 years, and then have #3 and #4 close together. Finances are not a concern for us, but age is. We're both 30, and we don't want to have kids after we turn 35, so if we haven't had #4 by then, we'll just stop and be grateful for what we do have! ↑ |
| Name: junebug | Date: Feb 27th, 2007 1:08 PM |
| finances is not a problem here either but my husband keeps telling me how high college is and that is why he does not want more . he also says we are too old now he is 31 and i will be 30 in april plus he brings up how spaced out in age the kids will be who knows we will see what happens ↑ |
| Name: missmara | Date: Feb 27th, 2007 3:21 PM |
I can totally understand his reasoning. We wanted our kids to be close in age, but I really need a break this time. We hadn't expected them to be THIS close lol!! As far as college, we will pay the cost of tuition for a state school, and if they want to go somewhere more expensive, then they can get student loans and jobs. And the age thing...I understand. We got started late, so we're willing to continue getting pregnant until 35, but after that...we want to be able to enjoy our "golden years" if you know what I mean!! I think it's harder being an older parent.
Anyway - you guys have time to decide. How old is your youngest? ↑ |
| Name: nicole miller | Date: Feb 27th, 2007 5:13 PM |
I've talked to my doctor about how close pregnancies can be together, and a few months between is okay he said. He told me that if I CAN get pregnant that quickly than my body is ready again. I doubt that we'll actually be pregnant before Joshua is 6 months old. Between #4 and #5 I plan at least a 2 year break. Then we're done for sure, and I'm getting my tummy and boobs fixed, lol.
Our biggest concern is age (as opposed to money) as well. Paul is 42! ↑ |
| Name: LindsayK | Date: Feb 27th, 2007 6:26 PM |
| My husband and I are planning on four too. He comes from a family of three and I come from a family of four. Although my mom took a break of 9 years between two and two. #3 wasn't exactly planned, but they decided to add #4 too. I'm the oldest. We have a five month old now and are planning to start work on #2 around January 2008! ↑ |
| Name: junebug | Date: Feb 27th, 2007 6:41 PM |
| i have one that is 11 and one 8 and my baby will be 4 next month i want to start trying now for another be husband is being stubborn ↑ |
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