| Name: Christina | Date: Mar 3rd, 2006 5:27 AM |
To the person who put (to Christina).....I'll make it a little easier since you are in fact the one who needs to read a little better
And I quote.....
"i m now pregnant again, and i havent even touched drugs, i still smoke and drink though but only when we go night clubbing which is 2 nights a week,
i occasionly smoke pot, just because im having a baby im not about to stop doing the things i love and thats party till i cant stand up.."
And to the others who say it's her business and we shouldn't have anything to say.....I could care less about you, yes it's "her" body, but NOW it's the BABY'S BODY too!!!! And I'll say what I want. Period! Sorry if it offends you but "I" get offended when people post stuff about them abusing their unborn babies on purpose. If she can't handle it then, she shouldn't get on a pregnancy forum, and post this ignorance all over when we feel the pain she's inflicking on this poor innocent baby. ↑ |
| Name: Christina | Date: Mar 3rd, 2006 5:31 AM |
| Oh yes, and I'm not "trying to make myself look good" by posting what I feel about it. I am who I am, take it or leave it. I usually keep to myself and not cause problems but some things make it hard for me to keep my mouth shut and this was one of them. And I'm going to be a great mother! Hello, my baby can't hear me, I'm typing not talking......, it's not like I would cause a conflict if my baby was actually witnessing this. ↑ |
| Name: Still going....... | Date: Mar 3rd, 2006 5:42 AM |
| And one more thing...I could careless how much sex she has and with who she does it, that doesn't harm the baby unless she goes and gets a S.T.D......which could happen by the way because obviously she's not using protection with any of them, if she would have had 7 men to sort through to figure out the father the first time and 3 the second. ↑ |
| Name: Jenifer | Date: Mar 3rd, 2006 7:14 AM |
your exactly right kathy, im not going to listen to anyone...
sorry to all if ive upset you on choices ive made, my baby will be fine, and you know what, i like this forum, i like it cause there are some really caring mothers and that makes me think how important and serious i should take this pregnacy, Yes i have been selfish, ive decided that the partying life has got to stop, im old enough to know that should stay in the past, im not 19 anymore, im 25 and i should face the facts that im dragging another poor human being intyo this without he/she having a choice about it,
i had a crappy childhood and life and im kidding myself thinking if i sleep around and party ill be happy, but the truth is, im not, im miserable, so having this child and listening to all of you and your stories has slapped me in the face and has woken me up..
so thank you all very much... ↑ |
| Name: jenn to christina | Date: Mar 3rd, 2006 7:04 PM |
good lord christina... you would think i had gotten on here and written.... gosh, i sure am partying hard while pregnant! woo hoo! i think you definitely misread what i wrote! the day i found out i was pregnant i immediately stopped drinking, and have gone in for high risk scans just to make sure everything is okay, which it is... i didnt drink past the first month.
excuuuuuuse me for reminiscing a little about the past, it was a terribly boring day, nothing to do here but sit in front of this damn computer, and i was just enjoying some fun memories with a couple of other "party girls" on here. by the way i am not worried about "fitting it" with any of you here. ↑ |
| Name: jenn- oops | Date: Mar 3rd, 2006 7:06 PM |
| i am a moron! i thought that post was for me, since im jennifer too... haha i got sooo p o'd i wrote a ton and then i went back and realized another jennifer had been talking about partying. my bad. heehee ↑ |
| Name: Christina | Date: Mar 3rd, 2006 9:18 PM |
No problem.........Glad you cleared that up though cause I was like, this girl is partying a little too much and is forgetting what she types .......LOL I think I could see how you got confused, she goes by Jennifer though.........And just to clear this up.......
I'm not against people who did stuff BEFORE they knew they were pregnant or I'd be against myself too. We just didn't know. But I am against when pregnant women refuse to take care of their bodies AFTER they found out that they've conceived. I have noticed though that she left another post and I hope it's true. I did say some harsh things, and should have went about it in another "nicer" way to get my point acrossed but I'm still happy to have read what she put. I wish you good luck "Jennifer". ↑ |
| Name: jenn | Date: Mar 3rd, 2006 9:32 PM |
| haha yes nice to have that cleared up cause i thought we were friends and i was like aaaaaaaaaa why is she jumping all over me?? lol... toooo many jennifers. THATS why i dont want to name my baby some popular name where she will be one of millions! ↑ |
| Name: Christina | Date: Mar 4th, 2006 4:21 AM |
| I know what you mean.....hello, my names Christina! My boyfriends name is Matt! That's why i've decided on Avia for my little girls name. ↑ |
| Name: sally | Date: Mar 4th, 2006 4:44 AM |
| Heather i done heaps worse than you i found out i was pregnant at 7 weeks and in that time i had been to night clubs every sat night drinking smoking and taking ecstasy tablets! My son turned out perfect! Is way above his age level in maths and english is great at sports and swimming can clock nearly all the playstation games! ↑ |
| Name: Jenifer | Date: Mar 5th, 2006 5:29 AM |
Thanks Christina,
im doing so much better than ever before, i havent touched a ciggarette or drank any alchahol, i stay away from the crowd that i was hanging out with, i told them that i want to concentrate on my baby and look after myself,
ofcourse they werent happy but i dont care,
i worked out who the father is, its my X boyfriend,
he wants to support me and wants to get back with me, but i told him unless he cleans up his act, no drugs, no partying...
so hes going to rehab with me so who knows whats in install..
anyway got to go, im off to a pre natal class, thanks once again, see ya ↑ |
| Name: heather2 | Date: Mar 6th, 2006 5:05 AM |
wow..lol..that was a VERY interesting arguement, dont yall think? gosh..::smile::
glad thats over. ↑ |
| Name: To Jenifer | Date: Mar 6th, 2006 7:21 AM |
| Well Jenifer, I'm very proud of you!! I'm sorry that I was so harsh, I just get tired of hearing stuff like that, but am so delighted that you had a turn around! That truely is wonderful! I'm 26 and have done my fair share of "partying"! And it is still sometimes a little lonely when you're home by yourself and everyone is out having a "good" time friday and saturday nights. But it's for the best and you should be proud of what you're doing for yourself and your baby! I used to get a hard time from my bf's friend when I would leave his house cause he was smoking weed. It was pretty annoying! I just told him "it's my body, my baby, and my responcability to keep her safe and healthy!". He's pretty cool about stuff now! Of course I got harassed too cause I wouldn't eat any of his "chocolate" pie either. You just have to be strong and not let people get to you. And no matter how bored you get, you're not gonna be pregnant for ever. Take Care, ♥,Christina ↑ |
| Name: Jenifer | Date: Mar 7th, 2006 3:53 AM |
thAnks Christina,
so am i lol
i wish i came into this forum sooner though,
im really happy though cause i know for sure that its my ex's baby and we are getting abck together and he says he wants to amrry me as soon as possible,
only one thing though,
i wont be wearing white down the aisle lol
i never thought my life would get so good, never in my wildest dreams.
take care christina ↑ |
| Name: to jenifer | Date: Mar 7th, 2006 9:34 AM |
| woh your a bit of a tramp luvvy arent you? ↑ |
| Name: Jennifer | Date: Mar 9th, 2006 7:37 AM |
whatever you want you can say about me, what i did in the past now will have to saty in the past, its what I'm doing from now on wards,
thanks for your comments but you can stick it where the sun dont shine, okay see ya ↑ |
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