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Name: mandyauge

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I just had a miscarraige yesterday... it was horrible and graphic. I went into labor @ 11 weeks and delivered an 8 week old fetus after bleeding everywhere for about 2 hours. I had to look at the baby for some reason... it was so sad and horrible. I've cried so much I don't feel much of anything today... and now I'm frustrated that no one understands just how bad it was! I feel like everyone is just brushing it under the rug!! Help!!! ↓

Name: aiden | Date: Oct 19th, 2008 1:20 AM

unfortunately i can relate. i was 16 weeks when i miscarried. i got to "catch" him and hold him before they took him. i counted fingers and toes and remembered as much as i could. it has gotten harder with the due date coming up. and like you everyone wants to not talk about it. it helps if you name them and can talk about them.i have healed a great bit through my husband and chats like these. but i believe we do get them back when the big man feels we are ready. i am so sorry for your loss. ↑