Ok, it's story time. I dated this guy for a long time and he cheated on me with my best friend and I moved away almost right after that, but stayed friends with her and occasionally talked to him. I was gone for 2 years, in which I got married and pregnant. They were together for most of those 2 years, but broke up right before she found out she wass pregnant with his baby. Well my husbands a jerk, and I left him and moved back up here and she and I got an apartment together.
Well He and I have started dating again. lol. She is totally cool with it, I wouldn't have done it otherwise, but I am skeptical and too nervous to leave them alone together. I get so nervous. I don't expect him to drop her like a bad habit, I mean she's 7 months pregnant with his baby, he needs to be there for her, but I'm just hormonal. I don't trust him alone with her, and he's given me no reason to not trust him this time around, its been 2 years and he acts a lot more grown up, but I'm just scared and bitchy. lol. I'm sorry I just needed to vent because they were off together for a doctor appointment of hers and it took them like 3 hours? I just don't trust well i guess. ↓
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| Name: Double_K | Date: Oct 5th, 2007 6:40 PM |
| I'd get far, far away from him. That just sounds like a bad situation to be in! ↑ |
| Name: AivenorBB? | Date: Oct 5th, 2007 7:16 PM |
| Yeah, probably not the wisest thing to do. lol. ↑ |
| Name: chicksy | Date: Oct 5th, 2007 7:17 PM |
| LEAVE. HE HAD SEX WITH THIS WOMAN AND NOW THEY ARE HAVING A CHILD TOGETHER. OF COURSE FEELINGS ARE STILL THERE. DON'T MAKE A STUPID MISTAKE BECAUSE U WILL REGRET IT. ↑ |
| Name: Opheiliamath | Date: Oct 5th, 2007 7:27 PM |
I'm not sure about the trust issue between you two BUT.....
Just because they had sex to make a child doesn't mean they still have feelings for each other. ↑ |
| Name: question | Date: Oct 5th, 2007 9:41 PM |
| ....Girl,be careful! I really wouldnt want to be with someone who was having a kid with your room mate.but then again I dont share no way in hell would i take my ex back when he is having a kid with someone else!he screwed up,his problem.He cheated on you.Once a cheater always a cheater! ↑ |
| Name: summadaiz | Date: Oct 5th, 2007 9:42 PM |
| WTH is the first thing that comes to mind ↑ |
| Name: summadaiz | Date: Oct 5th, 2007 9:43 PM |
| get away from them both... that is not a friend if she would sleep with your man... Why would you even start dating him again... Get away quick! you don't need to be hurt again... ↑ |
| Name: Opheiliamath | Date: Oct 5th, 2007 10:21 PM |
Wooow.
Why does he HAVE to be cheating?!?!?
Like i said before, JUST because he HAD(past tense) sex with her doesn't mean feeling are involed.
I also don't believe once a cheater always a cheater eitherQ ↑ |
| Name: Opheiliamath | Date: Oct 5th, 2007 10:25 PM |
Come on for real ladies.
IF you were the friend and knocked up by your ex, 2 years or not. Having a child together doesn't AUTOMATICALLY mean there are romantic feelings.
I say go with your gut: He may or may not be cheating on you with her. But trust, he MAY NOT! ↑ |
| Name: chicksy | Date: Oct 6th, 2007 12:43 AM |
| Its just to convienant Opheilia im sorry. HER BEST FRIEND SLEPT WITH HER MAN. What makes u think she won't do it again. He will be dealing with this girl for atleast 18 more years. I would run for the hills. Please make sure he give u a good reason as to y they were gone for 3 hours. And by the way Ophelilia, feelings don't desipate just instantly. ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Oct 6th, 2007 1:23 PM |
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