I would like to remain nameless because this is kind of embarrasing. My boyfriend cheated on me awhile ago.
Anyway the girl ended up getting pregnant.
She called him and told him that she was pregnant and he asked her to get an abortion.
She didnt have a abortion she ended up having the baby.
I fold out that me and her were pregnant at the same time. She had a little boy in december and i had twin girls in march of 2005.
My boyfriend says that the baby is not his child. I asked if they used a comdom and he said that they didn't. I have saw pictures of the baby and I think the baby looks just like him. What should I do? I have been with this man for 6 years.
And I just found out that I am pregnant again.
Am I crazy to stay with him?
Should I make him have a DNA test?
What if the baby is his I would be so hurt!!!!!!!!!!!!! ↓
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| Name: Carolyn | Date: Feb 21st, 2006 4:29 AM |
HI-
I am so sorry to hear that this has happened to you.
I realize that this must be hard for you, but if he has cheated on you at least once, he probably will do it again.
I wish you the best.
I personally would not stay with him, he is a creep to cheat on you.
God bless you.
Carolyn ↑ |
| Name: Becci | Date: Feb 21st, 2006 4:30 AM |
| Personally I think you should leave him. He cheated on you, and disgraced you're relationship. A man like that is NOT worth being with. Even if the child wasnt his, the fact remains he cheated on you. He needs to get a DNA test done to see if that child is his, and you need to get out of an unhealthy situation ↑ |
| Name: Anne-Marie | Date: Feb 21st, 2006 4:35 AM |
| I absolutely agree 100%. I left the father up my unborn baby because he cheated. You can do so much better. It is not a good example to show to your children about decency if you stay with a cheater, someone who clearly shows such distrespect for you. ↑ |
| Name: Nameless | Date: Feb 21st, 2006 4:42 AM |
I have been with this man for 6 years. I really love him and we have 2 kids together. I cant live my life without him. But I am afraid that he is still with this other girl. I even think he was living with her one time when I kicked him out of my house.
He is my first love!!!!!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: Becci | Date: Feb 21st, 2006 4:44 AM |
| You CAN live without him. That is an UNHEALTHY situation for your children. What would you tell YOUR kids if they were in a relationship like that? You deserve better...and so do they! ↑ |
| Name: Carolyn | Date: Feb 21st, 2006 4:47 AM |
Hi again..........
Of course you have to go with your heart, but he obviously isn't worth your heart if he is cheating on you, conceiving other kids with other women...................he is a loser for doing that to you and to your children.
He should be ashamed.
Best of luck to you............
Carolyn ↑ |
| Name: Nameless | Date: Feb 21st, 2006 4:50 AM |
Becci,
You are right. If my daughter was in a relationship like this I would tell her to leave him. I know I should leave but and sometimes I want to but I always let him come back home. ↑ |
| Name: Becci | Date: Feb 21st, 2006 4:51 AM |
| You need to set a good example for your kiddos. I know its hard...I've had to do it before. However, you have to think of yourself and your children. You've got friends here that will support you because there are some of us whove been there done that ↑ |
| Name: Nameless | Date: Feb 21st, 2006 4:55 AM |
| thank you all for the advice. ↑ |
| Name: terri | Date: Feb 22nd, 2006 2:46 AM |
| Yep get a dna test! I really feel for you i think i would have absolutley died if my husband got some one else pregnant bad enough sleeping with them but getting them pregnant in my book thats unforgivable! ↑ |
| Name: Jane | Date: Feb 22nd, 2006 3:29 AM |
| I would say leave him, because if he did it once he will do it again. Can you trust him after that? If the baby is his remember that its not the baby's fault. He might be your first love, but he dose not care. You and other woman are much better than that. Theres alot of std's he can give you by being nasty, you have your children to live for. Don't let him destroy your life. ↑ |
| Name: Nikki | Date: Feb 27th, 2006 5:15 AM |
You should leave him. Once a cheater always a cheater. He is just going to do it again. If you stay with him you are telling him that it is okay to cheat on you.
Take this for me, my man cheated three times before i left his sorry a**! ↑ |
| Name: Good luck! | Date: Feb 27th, 2006 7:17 AM |
| Well the fact is, is that he cheated on you period. Rather the baby is his or not. I think he should get a dna test. I know it's hard but think of it in the babies perspective. What if he is the father and he's denying him. I would want to know! And if you really think that he's still with this women, then you should leave. ↑ |
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