I am just writing a message in this forum in the hope that someone knows what I am talking about. I have a journal which I add entries to as and when I can which is not as often as I would like. This week I have encountered a huge amount of hatred messages on my guestbook because someone is looking at other women's journals and writing messages and appearing to use either my name or my journal name.
I want to let everyone know right now that I have never left a message on anyone else's journal and who ever it is that is doing it is hurting lots of innocent women. I think that there is a gross misuse of this site and I personally would like just be left alone to enjoy this wonderful time in my life while I care for my unborn baby inside me. I assure anyone affected by malicious messages that I am not responsible and that a more appropriate course of action shoudl be taken to locate the person who is indeed guilty of these accusations brought to me.
I suggest contacting the Babycrowd staff with the problem. I have myself and really hope that is disgusting behaviour will end. If anyone would like to contact me regarding this my email address is: [email protected].
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| Name: Sylvia | Date: Nov 17th, 2005 1:14 AM |
| There are a lot of people pretending to be each other on here, it's sick. Makes me not want to write on these forums really. The imposter never said anything to me but I read some nasty stuff. It's real sweet of you to apoligize on here to everyone though. Good luck xoxo. ↑ |
| Name: Anne-Marie | Date: Nov 17th, 2005 1:20 AM |
Hi Sylvia, thanks for your response. I have no idea why anyone who is pregnant would have any reason to be nasty to another pregnant woman. One suggestion may be that who ever it is is not actually pregnant. Either way I really want to get to the bottom of this you should see the awful messages I am getting, it really is not fair, my parents read my journal and the language used in the messages is shameful.
Anyway I won't be writing on these forums I have not go the time, the energy or the inclination I just was hoping that if anyone is inflicted with pain from this person that they seek an alternative solution than messaging me to put a stop to it.
So thans again for your response and take care. ↑ |
| Name: Anne-Marie | Date: Nov 18th, 2005 12:44 AM |
| I have just come on line again today to find yet another message iin my guestbook. I think this is a very cowardly act and I am getting fed up with it. The person responsible knows who they are and also knows I am not associated with anything mallicious. If you have the guts to tell me who you are, now is the time... let me see your journal, let me see these so-called nasty messages you are accusing me of, if indeed you even belong on this site and are expecting a baby of your own. Lets see what you are or if you all talk. ↑ |
| Name: Sylvia | Date: Nov 18th, 2005 4:19 AM |
That is really messed up though. They won't fess up, cause they can hide behind a computer screen so easily. I would just delete them and then try writting to the main people on here to see what can be done. I wish you the best though Anne-Marie.
Hey check out my site, I'm going on to yours after I type this up.
You'll get a kick outta what my baby girls middle name is going to be xoxo.
Luv Sylvia
http://www.babycrowd.co
m/jr/online/meregooda/welcome.htm
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| Name: Anne-Marie | Date: Nov 18th, 2005 5:21 AM |
Wow I have not taken the time to read other people's journals before thank you for inviting me to yours. Aww nice middle name, nice first name for that matter!
I had a response from the Babycrowd staff and they have informed that they have addressed the problem so hopefully that will be he end to this nightmare I have endured. I am so glad that ithey did something about it as I have been quite ill and this has not helped matters.
Anyway I will sign your guestbook. I am assuming you have already seen my journal (most of the people on here I suspect have!) hehehe
Take care and all the best Sylvia. ↑ |
| Name: heather | Date: Nov 18th, 2005 8:59 PM |
| hey anne-marie..i saw that also. ive noticed that you havent wrote on here in a while, and when you got into that arguement with that girl a while back you werent scared to put your name, that is messed up how people thought it was you that wrote that girl recently, they shouldnt just assume things like that. dont worry about them though, i know you didnt say it and they obviously dont know what theyre talking about. their stupid. it seems like everyday more immature people get on here...by the way anne-marie, how are you? when are you due and how far along are you now? ↑ |
| Name: Rahnee | Date: Nov 19th, 2005 12:20 AM |
Hello Anne-Marie, and everyone else. Very cool move Anne-Marie, very cool indeed. I think that the negative comments on others journals, are ridiculous. If you see something you don't like, move along...don't post a whole schpeal about how awful they are.
If you want to respond negatively to a "thread" post...fine...its a forum, inviting discussion, and with discussion comes differences of opinion. I don't like too much negativity in the forums either, but at least that is where it belongs....However, to post negative crap, in someones guestbook...*this is too who ever is pretending to be someone they are not, or just saying nasty things, with no names*....Is childish, petty, unwarrented, and an absolutely, vicious, cold hearted. If you do leave your name, its just as petty and rude. Leave it in the forums people, better yet, if you see something you don't like, say it in a nice way...(or not at all).. if you feel the need to say it....there are nice ways of disagreeing...you don't have to be so nasty. It isn't impressing anyone, it doesn't make you look smarter than the other person even if what your saying may have a grain of truth to it...its just making you look like an ass. That is my opinion on it.
I sure hope that none of the ladies here, trying to keep a record for themselves, of a time that is THIERS AND THIERS ALONE, isn't swayed by these negative comments...and if they get them, delete them without giving them a second thought, and no one else even commenting on them...just leave them to what they are, trash to be deleted, not worth the response.
Forgive me for ranting a bit...I have been a bit hormonal today...but that is how I feel about it, I wish they would stop too. I just don't see what one would have to gain by it...it makes no sense to me. ↑ |
| Name: Anne-Marie | Date: Nov 20th, 2005 12:22 AM |
Hi Heather, it's been a while. I have not been on line for ages mainly because of work demands. I am 24 weeks now, due 9th March 2006. I'm starting to show now which thrills me no end. I am having a little girl and she is an active little thing. It has even been stated on all the reports from the U/S that she is very active, how gorgeous!
So what's the goss with you? How far are you? What are you having? Do tell everything. Take care :) ↑ |
| Name: Anne-Marie | Date: Feb 23rd, 2006 12:33 AM |
I found this thread started in November. Anyone who was not around at that time and has got on the band wagon with whoever is being silly may wish to read this first.
The end of last year was a bloody mess and it left me feeling quite angry that someone would be so mean. If it was happening to you would would feel the same way and your tollerance level some 4 months later when it is raised again by immature girls would be zero too. ↑ |
| Name: Anne-Marie | Date: Feb 23rd, 2006 12:46 AM |
| Yeah it was really bad cos the messages were just terrible, and they were all over my journal. Like I have been saying this whole time, I just want to be left alone to have my baby. The girl responsible I don't even think is pregant, she is just malicious. ↑ |
| Name: Christina | Date: Feb 23rd, 2006 12:47 AM |
| Name: Anne-Marie | Date: Feb 23rd, 2006 1:08 AM |
| Name: Christina to annemarie | Date: Feb 23rd, 2006 1:09 AM |
| hey I have to leave you a message still. are you still on ↑ |
| Name: Anne-Marie | Date: Feb 23rd, 2006 1:10 AM |
| Name: Christina | Date: Feb 23rd, 2006 1:11 AM |
| I'm such a dork!!!!!!!!!!!! I left a message to someone else in their journal so now I gotta explain, cause it's not gonna make any sense to them. So I'm gonna go leave you your message now....Gosh I'm a dork!! ↑ |
| Name: Anne-Marie | Date: Feb 23rd, 2006 1:14 AM |
| So tell me Christine, is there two Anne-Marie's? I had a message on my journal ages ago from a girl telling me that her name was exactly the same as mine - even surname! I will have a look now. ↑ |
| Name: to Anne-Marie | Date: Feb 23rd, 2006 1:17 AM |
| "do you even read what you write" Is there two ... should be are there two ↑ |
| Name: Anne-Marie | Date: Feb 23rd, 2006 1:19 AM |
| Name: Anne-Marie | Date: Feb 23rd, 2006 1:23 AM |
There must be: this is the message I got.
Anne-Marie Tomlinson ([email protected])
My name is Anne-Marie Tomlinson also! Serious! congratulations on your pregnancy! Hope everything goes well! ↑ |
| Name: Christina | Date: Feb 23rd, 2006 1:27 AM |
| Well, I'm pretty sure you're the only anne marie that I've talked to. The message I left in another journal was to Nora! See that's why I'm such a dork! She was the last person to sign my guestbook I think so I just clicked on it for some reason. I was trying to hurry. See where it got me! ↑ |
| Name: Christina | Date: Feb 23rd, 2006 1:28 AM |
| I did see that though in your journal from the other anne marie. I looked right now. ↑ |
| Name: Anne-Marie | Date: Feb 23rd, 2006 1:30 AM |
| Name: Christina | Date: Feb 23rd, 2006 1:46 AM |
Well don't forget about us cool cats on here! LOL. Drop me a line some time at least in my e-mail. I'm gonna wanta know how things are going with the new little one! Oh and I just thought how cute it'd be to hear she/he learn to talk in that australian accent!! Hehehe. Question....Do you guys think that we're the one's with an accent? I mean I quess that's how it works huh!? LOL, don't know why I think of these things...
Hey that person that wrote in your journal said that they had the same last and first name as you??? That's creepy! ↑ |
| Name: Anne-Marie | Date: Feb 23rd, 2006 1:48 AM |
| I KNOW!!! I'll drop you a line later. have a good day :) ↑ |
| Name: Christina | Date: Feb 23rd, 2006 1:50 AM |
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