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So as most ofyou know.. i miscarried... im starting to feel alot beter now.. pik myself up.. adn be thankful for wat i do have and can have etc... i mean at the end of the day, atlest i wasnt realy far along.. or hava stillborn baby and atlest i can fal pregnant! that was always one of my fears but im happy that i can... but im hopeing that i can agen... anyway.. hav any of you miscaried before? please tel me of your experience.. and did you fal pregnant agen? how soon after? was it hard... just wanting to understand everyone elses situations....and make more sense of mine. thankyou! ↓
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| Name: DRB | Date: Apr 15th, 2008 1:30 AM |
| I havent misscarried. I am sorry that you did. You will have a baby in time hun. How old are you btw? ↑ |
| Name: smashlee | Date: Apr 15th, 2008 1:40 AM |
| im 20.. almost 21.. stil young i know.. which is a gud thing iv thoguht.. you knw i mean its not lkike times runing out yet... which i can be thankful for. its weird how strongly you feel you need to be a mother after wanting it so bad.. havingit..a nd then it geting taken away from you. i hope i am soon. thaankyou (danese right?) ↑ |
| Name: smashlee | Date: Apr 15th, 2008 1:41 AM |
| by the way sory for my TERRIBLE typing haha. ↑ |
| Name: DRB | Date: Apr 15th, 2008 1:48 AM |
| i am 20 also....ill be 21 in july...im going to be having my 2nd baby in august.....and yes i am Danese ↑ |
| Name: smashlee | Date: Apr 15th, 2008 1:54 AM |
| oh cool! :) same ages huh... wel thats good as news... i thoguth so lol.. but didnt wana get ya name wrong! so yeah., are you finding out the sex?? ↑ |
| Name: DRB | Date: Apr 15th, 2008 1:56 AM |
| its a boy..naming his Charles Thomas after my grandpa ↑ |
| Name: smashlee | Date: Apr 15th, 2008 1:59 AM |
| oh cute! and your other... girl?! ↑ |
| Name: krystinakoleen | Date: Apr 15th, 2008 2:38 AM |
| I have had just about every experience from that that you can think of..I had twins prematurely who died after they were born at 22 weeks. I had a miscarriage at 8 weeks. Then I had a baby full term, then I got pregnant with twins again, one twin died in utero another twins was born 6 weeks early (I had preeclmapsia) and then I had another miscarriage at 14 weeks. I've had early, late, still born and infant deaths..and the bottom line is none of them are easy. It is a terrible thing to go through. I can no longer have children, but that is because of damage done to my uterus and tubes because of endometriosis, cancer and cysts. I was able to get pregnant relatively quickly after a miscarriage etc. with in 6 months usually. I agree with your comment about feeling like you need to be a mother after losing a child. Thats how I ended up where I am...2 living children, 5 passed...Just be knowledgable of the situation before getting pregnant. Understand that it could happen again and is the chance of having a baby worth the heartache if you lose another child?? To me it was worth the risk, but i'm paying the toll now. I'm finally coming to grips with the fact that I lost all those children. And I'm sure I will hear negative things for this but i'm only 20. I had my twins at 14, then had my 1st miscarriage at 17 and the pregnancies went on from there. I had a Dr telling me at 17 if I wanted children I had to do it quickly though its not like I was a reckless teen getting pregnant. (at 14, yes I was reckless and stupid, but 17+ it was under Dr's advice) It is a heartbreaking situation. I'm sorry you had to experience it and I hope you never have to again. I hope you go on to have healthy babies! Good Luck! ↑ |
| Name: smashlee | Date: Apr 15th, 2008 2:43 AM |
| wow krystina.. im so so so sorry to hear. thats my point aswel.. thousand and milions of ladies go through this.. and i mean, look at wat you went through. i feel for oyu huni.. hey im 20 aswel. and i wont judge you.. i hope you are okay now.. so the two that you have now..a re they twins? wow.. i can not believe that you went through al that! did they say there was a reason why you had al the complications..? ↑ |
| Name: smashlee | Date: Apr 15th, 2008 2:47 AM |
| oh hangon.. i get it now sorry, so one was not a twin.. the other was one of the twins corect? ↑ |
| Name: krystinakoleen | Date: Apr 15th, 2008 3:03 AM |
Yup, I have one (my 18 month old) who was not supposed to be a twin and then my 6 month old was supposed to be a twin but his twin passed..What is ironic however is they have the same birthday lol. Sept 13 2006 & 2007... So most people think they are lol. My 18 month old is pretty healthy, he's had a couple problems but over all is ok..My 6 month old has Cerebral Palsy, so he definately has problems but he's ok. I'm just grateful that he's here.
Thank you for your support! ↑ |
| Name: smashlee | Date: Apr 15th, 2008 3:18 AM |
| wow... you truely are an inspiration. thankyou for sharing your story. i hope you are as hapy as can be.. cos you deifnetly sound it :) but yeah, wow same bday! amazing.. and you msut be so strong for everything thats hapened. so i feel i wana say congrats and weldone. your a very strong person. ↑ |
| Name: christiansmommy | Date: Apr 15th, 2008 5:00 PM |
i have miscarried. and it was a terrible time b/c my husband and i were actually TRYING to have our second one. everything was carefully planned and mapped out, so when i became pregnant, we weren't surprised-we knew. so, we were thrilled! about 2 months into the pregnancy, i went for an ultrasound and there was a small dot on the screen, but it hadn't grown, so it passed away. i hadn't bled or miscarried, so i had to have a d&c to get it removed. 3 months later, i got pregnant again--unexpectly b/c i had given up. and now we have our little 7 month old chloe. Just keep your hope alive. keep trying. and hopefully, your time will come again.
and i am very sorry for your loss. i hope you are feeling better. ↑ |
| Name: smashlee | Date: Apr 16th, 2008 2:19 AM |
| thankyou christiansmommy... yeah its a hrd time but i wil get throught it and i believe il hava buba soon.. i jsut gota think that way and be positive:) ↑ |
| Name: janebigbelly101 | Date: Apr 18th, 2008 4:14 AM |
| Hey I can certanly understand what you are feeling I misscarried a while back and thought that there was something wrong with my body. I was so afraid i would never get pregn again but i am 5 weeks pregn you will be alright it just take time to heal inside and out. ↑ |
| Name: smashlee | Date: Apr 18th, 2008 5:44 AM |
| thanxkyou ... yeah i hope that il be pregnant again soon enuf! ↑ |
| Name: momsunited | Date: Apr 18th, 2008 7:28 AM |
| I have miscarried 3 times before. It isnt something I would ever wish on anybody. It really puts a toll on your body mentally and physically. I am 23 yrs old and am actually pregnant right now with my second child. I am due in 3 wks or anyday as my doc says the way I am going.But besides that I have been pregnant a total of 5 times counting my 3 miscarriages and my 2 full term pregnancies. I am thankful for it so much. At my 2nd miscarriage I started to feel helpless and worried thinking that I wasnt going to beable to have babies. I do understand what you are going through. I am truly sorry for your loss. ↑ |
| Name: Babygril | Date: Apr 19th, 2008 5:50 PM |
| I miscarried om 15 Dec 07 at 15 weeks. I am also starting to feel better now and ttc again. I guess we all have alot of things to thankful for but it is very hard to see when things go wrong. Hope jou get pg soon. ↑ |
| Name: krystinakoleen | Date: Apr 20th, 2008 12:45 AM |
| Thank you very much, I am fairly happy. No child can every replace one that you have lost, so part of me still feels empty as it always will, but I can atleast smile and laugh now, and I am grateful for what I have ↑ |
| Name: smashlee | Date: Apr 21st, 2008 11:01 AM |
| thankyou all of you,... momsunited i see where your coming from totaly... yeah even though i hav only once, i am hopeing its the only time i do and hope i do keep the next baby.. it is on your mind though isnt it about hopeing you wil be able to carry ful term and i am so happy for you that you hav! congrats... and good luk with baby #2 coming soon let me know wen he/she comes :).... babygirl i am so sorry to hear also. thats terible... i hope you conceive soon.. thinking of you.... and krystina thats great! thats the way im thinking and that i feel is the right way to think.. very happy for you and thankyou for your suport ↑ |
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